I'm extremely tired of dating sites. What are some better ways of meeting women that I can try?

I'm extremely tired of dating sites. What are some better ways of meeting women that I can try?

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Socializing in the real lifes

how?

thanks for great fucking response

You're welcome elliot

the obvious and difficult way you tried to circumvent by using dating and are now trying to circumvent by asking Jow Forums for a magic bullet.

I’d be able to give you some pointers if I knew anything about you and where you live.

Join social groups. Make some friends who like going out at those groups. Go out to clubs and bars with them. Also go to house parties. Expand your network. If you see a girl you're interested in, pursue. If you don't know her, ask someone you know who the person is, and have them introduce you - people like playing matchmaker, it's fun for them.

That's how to do it.

Nobody said it's easy, we said it's hard work with good results.
If you don't want to do hard work, don't expect good results

Dating is and always will be a 100% numbers game

This, mostly. I think it's worth thinking of it as a numbers game, because there are girls that will like you, you just have to approach enough of them to find those girls.

That said, some methods are more effective than others. Also, it's still worth improving yourself, but not for anyone's approval but your own. When you develop into the person you want to be, for yourself, then the people who like the "true," developed you will find you.

>If you don't want to do hard work, don't expect good results
where did I say I don't want to do hard work? idiot

>Join social groups
like what?

Then go back to dating sites and get to it
Or god forbid, go outside

retard

Like anything that interests you. There are political groups, exercise groups, meetup.com, whatever.

I had a good social life in undergrad because I joined lots of social groups. I eventually narrowed it down to a few I liked, including an honor's frat, the model UN, and Amnesty International, none of which I'd be interested in now, but it was right for me at the time.

Now I'm into zen meditation. My zen place introduced me to hippie types who are nothing like me, but they're really good people.

I lost my virginity to a girl I met through a guy from the Model UN who eventually became my roommate.

I'm thinking about joining a hiking/rock climbing group.

Join literally anything. When we're kids our friends are just there, because of school. But we can't expect friends to just fall in our lap - if we want active social lives, we need to seek out organized groups. Otherwise we're stuck with the assholes we work with.

Don't aim to socialise, just get a life and you will undoubtedly have a ton of people around.

Stay salty incel, we know why you're single. Hint, it's your shitty personality

>When we're kids our friends are just there, because of school.
I didn't have friends in school though

Well, then you might have to attend those group meetings for a little while, until you feel comfortable. It's worth it, though.

but how do I find these groups?

meetup.com
Look around for gyms, religious groups, hobby meet ups, etc. around town

1:20 is the normal ratio of queries to replies on Tinder. You should at least try 100 profiles on Tinder before quitting.

Dumbass, I tried a lot more than that. 1:20 my ass. I also spent 15+ years on dating sites.