Had sex

>had sex
>didn't enjoy it
>have next to no motivation to pursue women

Can someone explain.

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Getting laid is a normie meme and everyone on this site told you so

Yea but , like, most normies still want hook ups.

I had another opportunity to get laid and i just passed up it because i didn't want to drive 30 minutes to fuck some chick in a cornfield . literally 2 lazy 4 pussy.

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It's not worth driving 30 minutes for a lot of people, that's not unusual

And normies fall into memes all the time, doesn't make them right

Sex doesn't fill the void and we all said it. Now you get to fixate on things that improve your quality of life and aren't sex

Do you find yourself not desiring sex, or being either not sexually attracted to people at all or very minimally so? You may be asexual.

If you find yourself desiring sex with people, but only in very special circumstances, you may have a below-average sensitivity to your sexual excitation system.

If you find yourself losing interest in multiple areas of your life where you once had it, and feel like almost nothing is ever worth it, you may have depression.

The purpose of sex is reproduction. Do you want a child, or not?

Do you like porn involving women? If you do, then you've been masturbating too much and you desensitized yourself. You also may not have been that interested in her. Try going off porn (not NoFap, just NoPorn).

Do you like porn involving guys? Then you're gay.

Are you not attracted to anyone? Then you're asexual.

Probably had bad sex
Good sex is less about the act and more about the individuals. Foreplay with my girl is better than some of the sex I've had

While sex is a normie thing, it should be the best thing you can physically experience. You're probably doing it wrong OP. There's a reason why people have the hyperbole saying "better than sex".

I also care less about women in general. I dont experience love/heart break anymore. Im typically very apathetic towards girls now.
Im not asexual, jerk it to porn all the time.

2nd no

3rd one, maybe.
Probably. Although the girl was super experienced.
If this is the best thing i can experience, then life doesn't have much to offer me.

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Like porn involving both

Except only fembois like pic related

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Then my guess is you're desensitized. You really just need to normalize your libido. Cut back on porn and masturbation. If you cut out the porn habit, your masturbation habit will work itself out.

>Then my guess is you're desensitized. You really just need to normalize your libido. Cut back on porn and masturbation. If you cut out the porn habit, your masturbation habit will work itself out.

Couldn't this be a blessing in disguise though? Like, clearly i dont crave sex anymore beyond social validation, so why shouldn't i keep tugging it?

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Ayo I said physically. Emotional ecstasy and fulfillment are much better, generally speaking.

...this is honestly so depressing that I don't even know what to say.

How is this depressing? Why do i need to desire to fuck somebody?

All i hear about how you dont need sex, then i mention how i might not need sex, and suddenly thats "sad"

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its only sad if you have a longing for meaningful human connection that remains unfulfilled (most people want this, so it is often assumed)

otherwise its fine

You don't need sex, but you're just deadening yourself by abusing yourself until you're numb to your urges.

The chemicals in the brain are dopamine and serotonin. Your brain releases dopamine to encourage you to do things it likes. It's extremely addictive. But it never lasts, and the pleasure of it inevitably weakens.

Serotonin is released when we have a sense of well-being. When we feel good about ourselves. When we feel fulfilled.

If you're a slave to your own urges, then you're just going for those dopamine hits, but you aren't seeking personal development or fulfillment. You'll wake up with nothing, just meaningless cum on your had day after day.

Why do you need sex to have meaningful connections? Can't friends be meaningful connections?
Isn't everything just there for a spike of dopamine?
If i played music to make me happy, all im doing is moving my hands around for dopamine. Thats literally what masturbation is.

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SEROTONIN EXISTS TOO
We just went through this
I have to think you're being willfully retarded
if you're being genuine, then have fun with your sad, cum-covered life.

What can i do to get a quick boost of serotonin?

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Don't listen to people on Jow Forums. So what fulfills you and stray from what doesn't

don't really get fulfillment.
I just dont see how playing an instrument or learning a language will somehow make me be fulfilled.

I guarantee, masturbating constantly doesn't fulfill anyone.

yes they can

I need both. I need good friends and a good lover/gf/wife.

Well clearly sex doesn't fulfill me, so how can i have a gf/wife without sex?
Nothing else does either, so what do i do?

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>a gf/wife without sex?
Some people are asexual

find them

Im also apathetic towards dating

Currently texting w/ this girl and honestly, could care less if she ghosts me. I barely feel invested enough to talk to her.

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apathy is a side effect of constant explore to instant dopamine spikes.

You need to get off the internet. It’s ruining your brain

exposure*

you is this comic thot you keep posting?

Schizoid.