Where do you go to meet women?

I don't

Unless you're at least an 8/10 male model, tinder is a pain in the ass. You have to invest a hell lot of time to get a fuck because even the ugliest bitches have thousands of beta dicks to choose from, Also most of the chicks i've met from tinder were totally fucked in the head, looked way less attractive in person, were fat (i normally have a good eye to spot the fatties) or were as autistic and shy as you'd only expect from a /mu/tant. Tinder sucks ass and is only practical if you're a chick. Thats my experience. I don't know if girls in the US or smth are more outgoing but in germany you really have to invest a lot of time for a simple one night stand.

Get her phone number from Tinder then plan to get coffee through text/whatsapp. Don't plan dates through Tinder.

Write short poems to girls on tinder, as long as you don't look like a compete incel you'll get some bites.

I don't.

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Same here pal, fuckin sucks. I feel like there’s an entire population of hot females I’ll never have the chance to meet because they only go to frat parties. Probably not the type of girl you want as a partner, but still

yeah, let me tell you from experience bro, the girls that go to frat parties are good for hookups but are emotionally stunted and do not make for good long-term partners. A couple of those and you will get tired of sex real quick, despite what Jow Forums may lead you to believe. A deep emotional connection is way more rewarding, and what more people should strive for I think. It sucks because online dating culture does not foster those kind of relationships without some luck.

I used to meet them on backpage for "roses" but now that it got shut down i haven't interacted with one

I hunt near collage campuses
I call it capmpussy, because i camp, with a friend or 2 and approach girls that sit near our bench.
Its legal here to drink in public so it makes things a million times more easy.
They have their rooms, dorms nearby
Its a pain in the ass to remain interesting all the time
Either that, or rent an apartment to college girls and get them in debt

I'm 6/10 and I got over 220 matches in 2 weeks. I also only have a shitty selfie. Never swiped left for a fat chick.
>invest a lot of time
2 dates at the very most.

/soc/

The canteen at work. Our company is small and we share several restaurants and canteens with the business campus.
All women here are fair game, they all digg the social status of working there and most have no freee time.

Over the week I had 3 dates with a consultant, a secretary and real estate agent

I don't

>Tinder
Have done this, works in cities. Can even enter in relationships, but there are many unstable women there.

>college parties
Don’t really exist in Germany. Also, I am 8 yrs out of uni.

>walk outside
>see women
Doesn’t even work for Turkish much men around here. You can’t walk up to some random girl on the street and start talking and expect this to go anywhere (except if she is a hooker).

>Hotel bars
Really, this still works? I thought this was an 80s and 90s thing.

>Dating web site, the free ones.

There really is only Tinder that works.

>
>If you have a dog, take him to the park to play.
while this works in Germany, I doubt it leads anywhere, you can talk to the woman in question, but I somehow doubt it is a strategy

So here are my 2 cents: A. get set up with a friend of a female friend/colleague - I am not kidding, I have done this two times and both times the girl was a bitchy SJW, but not bad looking and both actually looked for a serious relationship, B. birthday parties, company retriets, holding talks, generally putting up your hand if volunteers for volunteering work are sought, C. church (I am not kidding, it is a great setting to meet conservative women who like to go for coffee or tea or to an art galary or want to play a round of golf, tennis or batmington).

The most outlandish way I ever hooked up with a girl was when I was at the doctor’s office and I flirted with the doctor’s assistant... then later we went for a drink.

The dance floor at the club, I found the courage to ask a woman for me to give her my number (my phone was dead), she told me she has a boyfriend, I'll follow you on insta and see where it goes. She then at some point proceeded to buy me a drink.

How should I go about sliding into those DMs?

Your mother's house

The best way is to quit being a shy autistic boy and grow some balls and engage women on a regular day. It takes practice but in the end its a win win. Bars ain't that bad but clubs are cock block fests. Im talking from a euro point of view and for euro chicks.

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because you say get coffee you sperg. this isnt "friends" take her out for a drink pussy.

The playground

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You had the wonderful opportunity of doing so in the place you learn to socialise in your years of underage, and proceed to know as much as possible about the individual in question to avoid pic related.

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Kek

Single mums don’t do it for me and I doubt that women go for creeps trying to chat them up on a kids’ playground. Prob onky works if you are there with your own kid.

You literally didn't. There's a study that showed on average 1 out of 100 women will swipe right on an average looking male. So either you're not 6/10 or you're just full of shit.

whoooosh

unironically bars and concerts + work are the top tier ways to meet girls.
Tinder can be decent if you’re traveling abroad but even then it’s better to go to a bar.
Tinder makes you look bad. Plus the quality girls left it a long time ago.
Think about this: Most gf material girls got fed up with Tinder years ago. They still have it downloaded, but most have completely written it off. They may not be the type to go clubbing or barhopping, But they’re lonely.
They hope to meet a guy in the same boat. Fed up with online, or knows he’s better than it. He goes to the bar looking to meet people in the same mentality.
Being a quality guy in a social venue is a rarity. You are viewed as a “way out.” The one guy in the room who isn’t there to chase girls.
Girls LOVE meeting a guy in real life, it feels magical to them. You have a huge chance to wife a girl you met irl vs Tinder because you have that “magic moment” factor that makes you much easier to take seriously.

How in the fuck are you supposed to meet girls at a bar? People go there to drink with friends, not to fuck lonely weirdos who are drinking alone.

The whole dating scene is very weird in Germany. I've been living here for 2 weeks and honestly not speaking the language has probably been for the best. I'm not bad looking but a bit short (173cm). I've had 3 dates and 2 girls I'm talking into meeting this week.

If I wasn't already married I'd import some Czech/polish girl to Germany. While girls here are not bad looking, it seems very hard to move into relationship status here.

I'm not putting in massive effort, it's easy to meet but hard to seal the deal. 2 weeks in so far so we'll see in a few more weeks.a
Also my tinder game is weak at, I haven't fucked around with it in years

>Inb4 married, wife isn't moving here till July

>wife
>still banging slags

Gross

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Talk to groups. This is why Americans are awkward tourists. Bars are for public socializing.
I dare you to go to a bar alone. Pick a hip bar with chill lighting on a Friday or Saturday.
First just talk to the guys near you. Get a sense of the vibe of the bar and start absorbing it.
After you have a sense of the bar’s atmosphere go have a cig if you smoke or do whatsver you feel like. Approach girls that are looking at you and say something casual / funny then walk away. Later on you can chat them up with ease because you already formed a connection and didn’t immediately hit on her.
I travel to europe a lot and realized it’s super easy to chat with strangers. It’s not too different in the us

you are lying

I just moved to Europe and this has always worked for me. But I don't speak the language so it hasn't been easy getting into the vibe but you're right with the advice. Another tip is go to a bar with a band playing. It's louder, no one gives a shit about what you say and you don't look awkward, just face the band whenever you're feeling lonely

Yep, shit like that is why I'll kill myself in a few years.
Only way to meet new people when you're out of college is to go to bars alone like a fucking weirdo and start talking to complete strangers at random. What a wonderful society to be born in.
I'll just deal with the loneliness for a little while longer and learn to play an instrument and read a ton of books then I'll off myself. You suckers enjoy that shit by yourself lmao

Living in Germany for nearly two years now, speaking nearly fluent, but i can't seem to translate my game. What are you doing so right?

you sound like you have a follower/peasant complex.
>oh no way am I gonna stand out and look different. Fuck that!

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I don't think it's very right at all honesty. Just playing off the "just moved here game". Also like I said not knowing the language has been easier because I don't have to choose my words so carefully. It's usually not their first language.

Just invite them to do outside shit. Have some beers. Talk bullshit.
I haven't fucked any of them yet but like I said: I'd end up importing one from eastern europe if I wanted a wifey

all Germans are autistic, so it shouldn't be a big adjustment unless you're a foreigner

Bars
Tinder
Brothels

But the absolute best way to score a chick is through mutual connections. Like the friends of your buddy's girlfriend.

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you can close the thread this user said anything

Where are you from?

Raised in USA but am South American

please tell me I'm not the only virgin on this board...

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Normies use Facebook and Instagram and Tinder to meet friends of friends and friendly looking people. Unless you live in a city with over 100k people it’s going to be unconventional to talk them up in public. Local “towny” bars are more conventional places to meet strangers than college bars. If I hit up the college bars I don’t have as much luck picking up college chicks who feel safer with another college guy. My opinion is that he guys who have good looking social media and add friends of friends are the ones who they the most girls.

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what if you're autismo and can't hold a conversation with anyone? (tfw no friends)
how do you talk to guys or girls at bars?

what do you even say?
>nice music huh?

or are you supposed to try and listen in on other people's conversations and find a way to interject?

t. guy with no social skills. help

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you really need some friends user, i know it's hard when you don't have any to start you out, but push through and do your best to find some.
A lot easier to be yourself when you roll in 3 deep.

>quality women
work, gym, stores like target, but MOSTLY through friends
>thots
bar parties clubs, anywhere where lots of drinking is happening.

It's not about being scared to
>put you'reself out there
it's about society completely failing to provide people with a natural way to meet and bound over common tasks.
Western society is just completely fucked beyond hope. Either you go live in some african shithole where socialization still has meaning or you die a lonely piece of shit when your wife who was your last social contact gets a divorce 10 years into marriage and leaves with your kids.
No way I'll live to be that weird ass dude who shows up at the same bar every weekend and annoys the shit out of all the college kids 15 years younger than him.

>it's the society

It literally is dude. What good is society if making friends above 25 is a massive struggle
That's supposed to be the most natural thing in the world
Why don't all the neighbours gather around the campfire every evening and sing tribal songs or whatever
It's not like we haven't been doing this shit for milleniums

how do i get friends?

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Join a sexy asian picture trading club

kek manlet better learn to not touch czech girls

I go to the womenry

>tfw few male friends
>tfw introverted and no "game"
>tfw incredibly good looking

It's an obscure combination of feels.

For me, it's going to the club alone and getting swallowed up in the crowd. No friends or posse needed, in fact it's better without them. And women approach you, or at least make their asses available to you, no conversation needed.

Otherwise, Okcupid. No other site or app works for me but that one works great for me. Not sure why, but play to your strengths

I work in a call center with a high turn over, lots of college girls, deadend meh job that I dont care about so I have had sex with 3 so far, I've been there 3 years but only started going after girls I work with maybe year ago

this is me, except I didnt know I was good looking for majority of my life.

i have NO clue how to pick up girls and an alpha friend i made was bewildered that i only ever had 2 girlfriends (actually a lie, had 1 and she was a fat fuck who sweallowed my jizz like frosting)

A man trying to date another man will go out for coffee.
Whores (female) want expensive dinners, parties and hookups so you'll have to go out of your way to wow her somehow and give her free attention. It's just the nature of where you're looking for a date. A quality woman wouldn't need Tinder because she's off doing interesting things in her free time and can get the d from the people she shares her interest with.

>Either that, or rent an apartment to college girls and get them in debt
Thanks for the advice Ivan.

Worked for me.

I'm german and this is so true. You realize once you dated foreign girls.

>incredibly good looking
>only okcuid works

Work, friend groups, bars, college, beach. Accidentally became a bit of a manwhore and its begun to conflict with my personal ideals. Dont go too crazy with it, feels empty after a while

25khhv here

I meet girls at work or gym. Or concerts sometimes
Not that i have physical contact with them tho.

Tinder I think I fugged 7 or 8 girls from there

This
Can't control myself once i get the ball rolling.
Start going after friend's girls, dating multiple girls at once and shit.
People say it's easy, but it's definitely not when they're basically slinging pussy at you.
Snowballs out of control and always leads me back here with no friends and no girl.

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>tfw khv
>see these posts about anons getting laid easily
what do? how do i get a gf when i have no social skills and never meet any grills

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28 KHV here. You're not alone.

acquire social skills and go meet girls

>8 years out of uni

Obviously this is your problem, most women in your age are already having kids or at least are married. And the younger once are hard to approach since you will be the old creep for them

as a german girl i fully agree. the only way to start a proper relationship here is through mutual connections. other than that there is the odd hook up at a bar or tinder.
>not on tinder anymore because it went nowhere. maybe just too ugly tho

I'm in Belgium and it's the same here. Social circles are everything and people are too autistic to step out of theirs.

we germans don't start a hype around "popping the question", at least the circle i hang with, plenty well situated early 30 singles who are not insane but just very reserved and slightly autistic like me. the american fixation on marriage seems really ridiculous.

Your mom's house

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holly shit, never thought of this
what type of women do you find at these, can only imagine milfs on business

is this subtle bait?

if i did acquire them, where would i even go?

i'm not good looking enough for online dating, and i don't have any friends to go to bars/clubs with

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You're a faggot and you have a faggot mindset. If you literally resent meeting new people and fail to even recognize that meeting strangers can enhance your life, you're beyond saving. Just by the way you say "Western Society" I can tell you're an incel. You will die alone.

>tfw you know what khv abbreviation stands for
too much time online?

kek what an advice, like
>how to earn money fast?
>dude, just earn them and do it fast

That is terrible advice. Hotel bars are almost exclusively lonely men. The female presence is typically isolated to the staff.

eh, in hotel bars you meet people that fly away in few days, cannot expect more than one night stand

join some local meetup.com group
volunteer

I'm don't want to use tinder because I'm scared someone will recognize me. what do

shrek mask will do

Stop caring about what others think of you

I've never tried this approach, thanks user.

I'll never use tinder for this as my friend can see me there
And also I don't have a single photo of myself and no clue what I'd write about myself

brah, you've got the whole of Jow Forums, what more could you want

yes, if anyone asks about your friends just start naming people from Jow Forums
definitely mention monkey-shirt guy

Tits or gtfo.