Helping my neet friend

I come to you again with helping my neet friend. How do I help him out of his shell? Also if I end up taking him to bar hop what are tips on wing manning? Also he is looking for hobbies but nothing but gaming interest him what can I do for him?

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Please Jow Forums I really really want to help this friend but I don't know where to start

Get the boy a hooker.

Yeah but is getting a hooker as good and romantic as fucking a lover?

Get the boy a GFE

That is expensive bar hopping/wing-manning is cheaper.

it doesn't matter about that. You're talking about getting him out of his shell at least he could get over the first awkward stages of physical intimacy with a hooker. I recommend he look into a truck or car he can modify or guns as hobbies.

Yeah maybe your right about the intimacy thing. Cars he says and I quote "Cars are to much work with upkeep user I don't want to put in the work" then with guns letting a sociopath like my friend have a gun does not seem like a good idea. Any other ideas.

Does he actually want to change or is it just you who wants to change him?

Its a bit of both hes unhappy with being a neet but to lazy to do anything else.

Cars are hardly that much upkeep refer him to a YouTube channel chrisfix. Or at least encourage him to watch some videos on some other subjects. No idea what kind of area you guys are in. Maybe fishing or gardening is an option?

Unless he's committed to wanting to change, there is literally nothing you can do, you're wasting your time and setting yourself up for disappointment.

Try the midwest. I know cars are easy. To him fishing is "to boring" and gardening is also "to much work"

This guys a loser and probably going to stick to being a NEET. Maybe show him some motivational videos, something along the lines of you get out what you put in?

I can't just sit by and let my friend fall like that it will kill me to watch. I tried to get him to watch some chris-chan tapes(it get me out of my motivational slumps) and he goes "I would never get to that point".

tell him its not about getting there it's about the journey there. for fucks sake the higher he aims in life he's still set for success the higher he'll be when he falls short.

I just told him that and he said im wrong its only about the end goal. I Went over a list of 100 hobbies and said they are either boring or to much work.

He doesn't want to change, put your effort into something worthwhile.

Do you have any hobbies he could help you with as a friend? Often I help a friend work on a project or he helps me.

I do a lot of stuff exercise, art, learning polish, car maintenance, ect. The only thing we share is vidya and coding but Im above him on coding. If the hobby thing is dead thats part of why Im trying to get him to meet women but he says they are annoying.

Take the dude on a walk or something. You may have to force him. It sounds like he's just not seen the world or he has and doesn't give a fuck. Maybe take him to a hooters or something and let him look at some titties or get close enough to smell a woman?

He claims to have done a lot of hobbies. I might take him for a walk normally I drag him to bars but hey maybe taking him to the local tittie bar might help.

As a meet myself I have had to train my will over an extended period. I used to read a bunch, then started exercising and that really helped. I also am at a certain point where if I don’t get my shit together soon I will realy really miss out. My brain fucks with me if I haven’t made some sort of progress that day.

How old is he?
Does he have a license?

Walks would be a good start just for a while. It will make him be more comfortable outside. I used to be really scared of the outside world because of the drugs I used to do. They make you think strangers can all turn you in and you and your drug buddies are against the world.

Start small and build up. I couldn’t do the things I’m doing now two years ago for sure.

Does he eat well?
Does he have a good sleep routine?
Does he get sunlight?
Does he drink water enough?
Does he spend all day sitting down?

Fix these and you will be headed in the right direction.

Why does he want to be a neet and do nothing? Is he depressed? Does he have alot of anxiety? What does he want out of life? Does he lack self confidence? If so, he should work out and improve looks. Develop social skills.

Also hooker is a horrible idea. Best case scenario he'll just want to get enough money to keep seeing a hooker. Itll be like jerking off to fucked up porn but 100x worse. Sex should be an expression of emotional/mental connection. Not using someone as a pocket pussy

If you dont look to the whys and resolve them first, nothing will happen. You cant fix what you dont understand.