So I am a 24 f and I want a serious relationship but I just cant seem to find any man that wants to commit in a real...

So I am a 24 f and I want a serious relationship but I just cant seem to find any man that wants to commit in a real way and Indon’t know where to meet such guys.
Any tips?

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are you ugly? this is an important question

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Not really
I look fairly acceptable

Define "real way". I think the best way to get something specific that you want from somebody is to tell them specifically what you want (i.e. I want or am looking for a serious "real" relationship). That usually helps to convey yourself in that honest way, as oppose to suddenly being very clingy. IMO, of course.

FYI, as an 8 year Jow Forums veteran, I can tell you that if you look around the /boards you'll come into contact when many men who want nothing else then to "4evah" be with a femanon. Good luck, Anony.

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try waiting a few years? date a bit older?

First things first: how are you meeting the guys you are meeting?

Commit in real way like what? Need a definite description for that.

First thing, If you're not fat ugly out of shape, but still can't get picked by a man for serious LTR, the problem might lie elsewhere in you. Expectations, and shit. Look at yourself first.

Second, if you don't know where to meet that kind of guy you're not going out enough. Or you're going out at wrong places like bar, club, etc where it's a venue for people to look for short fling and not something long term.
The beauty of wanting to look for long term partner is you'll find them in casual and usual places you'll went through in your daily lives. Like grocery, market, bookstores, on street's food stall, family restaurant, cafe.

Perhaps you came off too strongly in wanting a serious relationship so you're giving a clingy-stalker vibe that raise red flags, or maybe you're not as good as you think you are anyway.

What do you mean exactly? Is this code for "I don't want to have sex before marriage"? If it is, no wonder guys ditch you.

Seems to me that you’re wanting the commitment before establishing a connection. I also wonder how much of this desire for a serious relationship is simply an attempt to fill a hole within yourself.

I'm assuming you're saying this in reaction to having multiple relationships fail. Well, the first thing you should do is save time: talk about what you're looking for on the first date or sooner. A man isn't going to lie and say he's looking for a wife if he isn't really sure.

Social events you hate. Dancing lessons, football match, gym, pool, beach, cinema, bar, tinder...

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The fact you want advice for this on the internet means you are probably desperate. Desperation is a stink no one likes. On a man or a woman. Chill out. Do some shit to distract yourself from your loneliness and you;ll eventually meet someone by putting yourself out there. Don't hop into bed straight away. That's too easy.

Not a femanon per se, but I never was into casual sex nor friends with benefits relationships, I'm simply more into finding someone long term, someone I can really feel a connection with, but I'm afraid at my age this is rather a rarity, most people would much rather just fool around and experiment.
This kind of preference could be due to loneliness, maybe, so you'd probably have a better chance looking in clubs, like drama clubs and such.

>tfw 30 and still jobless and at home with Mom because I wasted years of my life being depressed and dropped out of uni
I'll never be able to date again at this pace... I hope it doesn't become more than an itch

Not true

You just can't get the attractive guys to commit and why should they

Maybe try dating a regular guy and not the top 20%

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Plz be my gf.

Where do I apply?

Stop spamminf your retarded Jow Forums incel memes here.

Not an argument

I almost read this as "I am in london" and thought this was a joke

>fairly acceptable
that doesn't sound very good OP lol

An itch is probably the most motivation you've ever felt in your sad life.

So what answer would be acceptable for you?
I'm a 10/10 or I'm a foul goblin?

Weight, height, career? You're a woman and have legal power a dude doesn't have. Odds are you might be in a spot where you present yourself as a potential ball and chain.

Are you autistic (unironically)?
Do you live in a city?

I love OPs who just abandon their threads.

Try older guys like 4 or more years in your case.
I'm dating a 24 year old at 28.

Before you get into a 'serious' relationship. Make sure you have everything in order cause if there's one thing men don't like. It's a woman with lots of problems.