The guys I find most attractive tend to dump me after sex, even though they say they won't. I have a nice personality...

Just wanted to ask you since I'm a virgin - how do you like sex?
I managed to find gf and it's gonna happen sooner or later. The only way I've seen sex is on porn. I am pretty sure girls dont like to get dominated and pounded like in porn. What is normal sex?

i like 2 fart all over the place.

Stop watching porn. It's fucking with your head. Some girls like to be dominated. Some like it gentle. Some like both at different times. Communicate.

Just ask your partner their preferences and outline what you are into. Every relationship has a time where the parties train each other sexually. For more nichy needs it could take years before you get it just right but either way your needs will grow more specific. Talk to your friend about it and explore. Some chicks want to be dominated, most don't. But most would be down to be dominated if they are very into you and know it makes you happy. Don't complicate it, just talk about it with her.

Maybe you are too easy. Guys like a challenge.

Look at the guys that like you, but dont initially find attractive. You would be surprised.

>Guys like a challenge.
I'm seconding this post but that statement is a false interpretation. Guy's don't necesssrily like a challenge, but being a challenge is what keeps them from pumping and dumping you.

Don’t have sex on the first date then?

no, i said i like 2 fart all over the fucking place.

wait with the sex, if they can put up with that for a few weeks or even months, they'll probably stay around for a while longer
this is basically true, though guys don't want to have to overcome huge obstacles, but a little challenge is good
an achievement is only worth something if not everyone can achieve it
also, try establishing a rlationship before having sex, but what do i know

Your friend is more attractive than you
problem solved

Why virgins should not give advice on dating or sex: the post.

You said a grand total of one word about personality. You talked about how pretty and good in the sack you are.
I don't think being a challenge is necessary. But maybe go for guys that aren't just "hot", someone with similar interests, hobbies, goals.
I'll be honest, no guy will pump and dump a girl that "not pretty enough".

Eww you gross me out when you're all alone farting and there's no one else there it's really gross so stop farting when you're alone

i just value a good relationship more than sex with random people

Do you think that makes you a special snowflake? People like being in relationships and in love. A good guideline is "no sex until the third date". Waiting for weeks is too much, not to mention months. Enjoying sex is an important part of a relationship.

>doesn't refuse sex til you are at the very least in a relationship
It's like women WANT to be pumped and dumped.

My psychologist says: if something happens repeatedly in your life, it's a pattern that you've chosen for yourself. E.g. women who end up in multiple violent relationships are in fact making a selection. If you tend to be with men who dump you after sex, you're choosing that specific kind of man for yourself. Try to understand why.

Just like bitter incels chose the pattern of being bitter and not getting sex.

What kind of retarded analogy is that

As retarded as incels themselves.

Why even bring up incels at all

>Do you think that makes you a special snowflake?
no, but if you get to sex at the third date, you barely know the other person, do as you please, but it's retarded to claim that waiting for a few weeks is unhealthy for a relationship

>three dates
This sounds way too fast to me

You will understand one day when you are an adult.

Can you not just explain it instead of being patronizing?

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I am married, but thanks for providing such great arguments, you know, like adults do

I too think it's too early. I would feel uncomfortable getting intimate with a girl that early, and I wouldn't think well of her. A few weeks is fine to say the least

But then again I'm Italian

are you american? nowhere else have I found people so obsessed with sex

Its not your looks but the type of guys you are attracted to are also attracted to girls like you. They know you have a long history of fucking a guy, he move on, you fuck another, he moves on, and you fuck another....... It doesn't matter who you consider is the dumper the fact is a long line of guys one after the other with no end in sight.

You meet a guy your "type", he sees you as easy ass, no need to stay around, coming on to him so the best match hooks up.

You must be american. Nowhere else have I found people so prudish about sex.

Sex is fun. People in relationships have sex.

Okay, but getting intimate with people that quickly when you barely know anything about them seems rather strange to me, frankly.

Me too, but then I wanted sex

kek, you have never traveled, have you?
also
>waiting a few weeks
>prudish

>My dick rules over me

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If I can have sex without problems with people I find attractive, why not? I am young, I always have time for commitment later in life.

Ever been in Coastal states?

It's not a choice between sex and commitment. It's about having sex with people you actually like

I can assure you I have seen more of the world than you or most people ever will in their entire lifetime. Waiting a few weeks is prudish in most cultures, even those that officially frown upon sex. Let me guess, you are a Burger and have been to 3 countries total?

They're more prudish than euros or japanese.

wrong on both accounts
and sure, you find sloots everywhere, but there is a reason most stuff like tinder etc. comes from the US, and it's not them being prude

>It's about having sex with people you actually like
Is also fine, sometimes I like the girl for who she is, sometimes I find her attractive in both cases they take the dick. Unless she smokes, is fat or just plain crazy.

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ever been on a college campus?

Yes. Ever been to Europe?

I live in Europe, in my country, NL, it is fucking hard. Especially outside of the city. But in the US it was easy af.

You're punching above your league. Learn your fucking place, slut.

You haven't said that much about yourself but these things stand out.

>guys tend to dump you after sex
Which means you tend to have sex with men you're not in a relationship with. I imagine the guys you find most attractive are also attractive to other women and have their pick. For whatever reason they don't deem you girlfriend/wife material and move on. Only you can figure out why that is and it may require facing some painful realizations. Maybe you're too easy. Maybe you have annoying personality quirks or other red flags. Maybe the guys you have dealt with just aren't that into you but lay you because you're there. Anything I could say would be speculation so it's going to take some introspection on your part. Maybe ask your friend what the deal is, or better yet a trusted older woman

You sound like a slut with a bad personality. You need to fix your personality if guys don't stick around.

Guys will fuck anything that's hot once, but if the personality sucks they won't come back for more.

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You sound like a thot, might actually be one

Youre probably fat but think youre curvy

>I have a nice personality, am not really shy and I'm very very adventurous in bed.
Then date yourself.
Why, oh why, do people think what they think of themselves is going to be what others think?

We need to spank children again. This is getting out of hand, they're just turning out to be retards by 20 at this point.

If the personality is good they'll fuck her multiple times even if she's not hot. There's a lot to be said for a chick who doesn't make you think of how to get rid of her ASAP.

Have you considered you might just like dickheads. I'm not even shaming you for it, you just shouldn't be surprised about how they treat you.

>The guys I find most attractive tend to dump me after sex
Yeah cause the guys you find attractive are the same guys EVERY girl finds attractive. If every hot guy has dozens of women like you throwing themselves at him whenever he wants why should he ever bother with more than a single night with any of them?
You also sound pretty devoid of personality with how much you focus on looks. Your own looks, and guys. Don't expect a deep meaningful life or relationship if the surface is all you ever care about.

Not sure why you're insecure about your looks.
I mean, if you're having sex regularly, then obviously your looks are good enough.

I think that you need to really cultivate a personality. And that takes work. The vast majority of people never become self aware. Start by looking inward and asking yourself what your ideal relationship looks like.