Daily reminder that if you didn't marry young there is no point in marrying. If you are to or are going to marry a woman past the age of 20 enjoy your future divorce, I'm in my 30's and almost every man my I know who married women in their mid to late 20s is miserable and either divorced or has a marriage on the rocks; seems like having kids accelerate the decline too to divorce as well, women know they have you by the balls once they shoot out a kid or two. If you didn't wife 'em young your best option is to stay away from the carousel riders and focus of acquiring wealth, doing what you find fulfilling, and teaching younger men about the dangers of women. The boomers/Gen X didn't teach us shit about dealing with women and female nature, but their is hope that our hard learned lessons can be passed onto the next generation. Remember, women only have the power and standing men as a group allow them to have, and if enough men are pissed off we can take it back and force them to behave again.
Don't marry a woman older than 20
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Just never marry a non-virgin
Marry a GOOD woman who is proven.
girls are starting to lose their V's in pre-teens.
HOW WOULD YOU KNOW
I'm starting to get pretty comfy being single my self
>keto diet
>no fap
>lift
>anime
>read
>study
>business
The more I see how clueless women are the more I laugh to myself. I just want to increase my productivity, women are succubi.
Based and checked. OP has no power here.
The secret is to have five kids minimum so you’re the only man who will have her and leaving would be a life destroying move for her.
First time you fuck her, you'll see
Nice Trips. OP here, had multiple family/friends/acquaintances try this, the fundamental problem is women behave like women; they all function on group think and with the current ways the courts work there is absolutely no downside to them divorcing you to try an "climb the ladder". This behavior only gets worse with age as that's how they learn to function in the dating world, there no "Mr. Right" there's only "Mr. Right Now".
Enjoy getting wrecking in court cuck.
You seem to have little knowledge on the current legal system
You can marry a 20 year old whenever. Every girl wants to fuck her dad.
Have had same gf since hs. Now 23. Haven't married her yet because I'm kind of bored. Might break it off soon.
Settling young sounds like a meme. I have so much time to be married
>keto diet
for how long? just meal plan/exercise? or do you really have to use blood test strips. anyway doing what your doing basically but went back to uni the younger chicks there all sound retared and the ones that dont are literally all married by 23, i think ive fucked up
I married a man that's over 60 and I'm not even gay I don't know wtf I was thinking
Go travel user. Get drunk and sleep with roasties, then you'll be me at 30 living at home because your grandfather died and you had to take care of his estate and since I didnt have anything holding me back I was obligated to be the one who did it. Now 3 years later I'm working a shit job that doesnt need my degree, trying to find the money to move and maybe some chick who I can settle with but all the good ones are gone. So yeah user throw it away and give me her number.
Met my gf when she was 19, now, putting aside that getting married is an idiotic thing to do as a man to begin with, you're saying I should have married her within the year?
Relationship is going well, been steady for 5 years.
But I'm not gonna marry, as it gives me nothing.
I have my own house, a job and she lives at my place.
But the house is on my name, everything is bought from my money, and she basically can't waste my money since we don't have a shared bank account.
She's still in school.
We have a good relationship, active social life, etc.
But if she ever wanted to leave me for whatever reason, she is'nt going to get jack shit from me.
Depends. You should know what you want to do after HS in terms of career, go to school for it, and after 4 years at most, work for a year or two while dating around, find a nice girl within that time, buy a house, and start having babies after knowing and living with her for a few years. Ideally you'd be around 25 and she'd be 20. By the time your kids are 18 and out the door (assuming you raised them right and helped them along the way) you and your wife are still fairly young, and can do whatever the fuck you wanna do for the rest of your life, as you've completed your genetic goal (atleast 3 kids).
I had my first kid at 37 a year ago, and I regret not having him 10 years ago. By the time he's 20, I'll almost be hitting fucking 60 years old. Of course Ill try to stay in shape so I can keep up with him, but it would be a lot easier at 47 than it will be at 57
Be careful user, don't mistake contentment for boredom, you will probably never find a more well behaved, wife material woman than the one you have right now. Yes, once you hit your 30's you have a huge amount of leverage as a man, but there's no point because all the women that are available are simply carousal riders that have become victims of the wall. Nothing but despair awaits you if you wait to marry, I've seen if so many times it's seriously depressing.
So you pulled a gay Anna Nicole Smith. Not sure if I'm impressed or disgusted with your degeneracy.
Not a bad idea assuming you choose not to have kids and don't live somewhere with commonly marriage due to cohabitation issues. This gives you the option to kick an uppity bitch to the curb without having to deal with any long term repercussions.
Nah, my boomer parents taught me about women
>My father got divorced two times, first stole all his stuff, second used him to max out as many credit cards as she could farm off him
>My mother abused me and starved me while I had to live with her, I had to convince her not to blow her own brains out as a kid.
I learned that women shouldn't raise children, my father was a good parent, but he was taken advantage of and yet despite being jobless, divorced, and in debt, he kept me fed.
Women are fucking worthless, they're completely one-dimensional and I know this because every one I've known I've come to hate as I learned more about them, what you see on the surface is truly what you get, rather, there is actually less than you thought was there.
Nice personal anecdote.
Sorry to say, but the statistics go against what you are shilling.
Yeah to add, I'm pretty set in terms of career. Finishing school this month and have a software job lined up. I can either take her there when I move, or go alone.
>get older
>marry young
Fuck thats good
>statistics go against what you are shilling.
Oh really now?
Or you could find a redpilled dad. They usually keep their daughters faithful, and you could bang the v card when shes 18. or not if you wanna risk jail. Im all for marrying them off when theyre 13, that used to be common. Thats what all of history before us did, and most countries around the world still say ~14 is AOC. You can't tell me they "didn't figure out the right age range" after a hundreds of years. A woman doesn't have to be developed mentally to have children, and older ones have a more rigid pelvis, adding complications to birth. Nature didn't fuck up, and neither did ancient man. People today are fucking stupid.
No he is actually poor no job no house and my third cousin, honestly it was the stupidest decision of my life
I only did it cause the sex was good
That's depressing. Find a God fearing woman, get married, have a couple of children at least. Not all of us can be the perfect soldiers with nothing to lose in the coming war.
Sage for demoralizing Jew games shit.
Be careful user you are at a crossroads and what you do in the next 6 months will outline a huge portion of your life. I dont know the correct answer, just my own experience tells me to take her with you
Getting a vasectomy start of next year, never wanted kids to begin with.
In here we don't have to pay alimony when cohabitating and breaking up.
It would've been an issue if we bought the house together, but I bought it by myself.
what's boring about her?
anyway, enjoy your 45 year old roastie fat single mother with 5 niglets in the future
You could be my dad, I'm 18. How old is your wife? Do you ever worry your kids will develop problem due to your old age?
Yes, really now.
In your original post you implied that the younger you marry, the better. And that the older you get married, the more likely it is to end in divorce.
But in reality it is the other way around. If you marry a girl under the age of 20 you are wayyyy more likely to end up in divorce compared to a situation in which you marry a 25 year old.
I'm really curious as to where you got that idea, and why you thought it worth propagating.
>what's boring about her?
Nothing about her specifically, but weve been together for so long. It feels old, and I'm not sure if it's supposed to feel better.
Putting Boomers and Gen X together is like saying you're sick of the crime negro/ Korean gangs commit.
sorry but that's a roastie-tier excuse, if you leave her then you will regret it
maybe take some more interest in her and encourage her do some hobbies and then she will be more interesting for you
does she nag you or do you argue a lot?
>If you marry a girl under the age of 20 you are wayyyy more likely to end up in divorce compared to a situation in which you marry a 25 year old.
Not really, the more sexual partners a woman has the less likely she is to have a stable marriage (ie divorce). Younger women generally have fewer partners than older women, which means according to these stats they are going to on average be less likely to divorce. Ideally the most stable marriage is formed by women with 0 premarital partners, and generally the only way to get a virgin is to marry young.
Hey OP?
WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS GUYS PROBLEM?
No we get along really well. And i still find her interesting as a person, and I'm sure we could take plenty of interest in eachother and be happy for a good while.
But in my experience marriages easily crack, and if I'm already questioning my feelings this early, I feel like I'm guaranteeing shit down the line
This.
actually, dont marry at all
unless you plan to have kids and you are sure that your prenup is 100% solid
Fist off
>Estimated Risk
So all you've shown is that younger coupling show a higher rate of attrition in the first 5 years. Wow. I am totally blown out. It's not possible at all that older women settle for longer than 5 years and shit out kids before divorcing in order to maximize alimony and child support because the have no other options. No sir, no way that could possibly be the problem. No, I am eternally BTFO by your half-assed analysis of a graph with no listed data source.
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>prenup is 100% solid
This is a trap at least in the US, prenups are commonly thrown out by judges.
and in Canada, and in France, and all across the world
hence, dont marry and dont have kids, I advocate for world ending
either all humans will die and jews will starve without goyim, or worldwide ultrafaggotry will happen and system collapses
Check your laws regarding marriage/partnership/shared household.
I think it's even EU law that people who are considered only to be in cohabitation have the same rights as married couples. All this shitty LGBT fuckery made it extremely easy for woman to Frage you to a divorce court, even when you are not married. If you just live with a woman for several years together ( and she or you are registered at your/her place) she can suck you dry because it's considered basically equal to a marriage.
>Don't marry a woman older than 20
lol i'd say don't marry any women. unless you can keep her obedient.. then it doesn't matter who you marry. she will ride the system and you eventually. it's just a matter of time. she will grow older, get more paranoid and fuck you up. basically the only ones who keep their family "alive" are the men who willfuly become slaves and cucks to their wives, doing what she tells them to do and living a miserable lives. otherwise she'll just divorse such a man.. taking most of the property with her. that's how shit works nowdays. why do you think the divorse rates are in 80+ percentile. all initiated by women. it has nothing to do with age when they got married. it all has to do with the legal system that allows women to chimp out at any point of their life
when she's young she can accuse anyone of rape.. and all "believe her", when she's old she can divorse a husband just coz she "feels we don't connect anymore" boom.. that means now you don't have any assets(unless you are super rich).. it's that fucking easy. the government basically makes men hostages of women. the government gives women excessive amount of right and leverage that men under such law automatically become second class citizens. of course... you don't become a second class unless you marry.. but most men marry and get themselves into the trap of providing for crazy bitches who ride the man without shame. then again.. the children you produce only become slaves to the state.. and not a part of your family clan.. coz your family doesn't own shit.. coz your family is not run by you but by you stupid ass cunt wife who doesn't know how to run shit.. and only knows how to eat up propaganda and do "whats right".
so it's a lose-lose situation for men. even if you are rich, still.. you don't have an upper hand in this rigged game. it's just like elections.. it's simply impossible to elect good government. the whole purpose of the government is to make life hard