>I've been seeing this guy for some time >always had some sort of sexual tension, teasing eachother and so on >We're both introverted as fuck >Asked him many times to stay at my place after drinking with friends >he said no everytime. > Boy came over to play some vidya with me >told him that I love hanging out with him but I also wanna fucc >he feels the same way >asks me what kind of relationship I want >tell him I just wanna casually hook up and chill >we cuddle and make out >he decides to stay at my place >try to have sex >he can't get it up >i tell him it's no big deal and he keeps apologizing >cuddles and kisses me the next morning as well >he goes home
he's very distant now. we went out with some friends yesterday and he wasn't really talking to me. everytime I tried to initiiate a convo he didn't know what to respond. After some drinks he was trying to be around me again but idk.
Though he always had some problems talking to me. He could keep convos up with other people but not with me so i was basically shittalking the whole time.
Should I try to keep this going or is he simply not attracted to me? I really like this dude and don't feel like sleeping with anyone else. Also don't want things to be awkward between us. Idk what should I do
He’s feeling awkward as all motherfuck and beating the shit out of himself for fucking up and not being able to get it up. Both probably because he was nervous as all motherfuck,because there may have been potential whiskey dick long on, and because he probably had major performance anxiety because this has been a long time comming.
This in turn creates more psychological presure
And being a introverted dude, this makes him want to avoid the situation even more
Bentley Parker
Get yourself a man that doesn’t masturbate all fuckin day. Fuck that loser with a broken dick.
Logan White
getting soft dick when its time to go can really fuck a dude up.
You need to realize you may need to take it slow with this nigga, get him comfortable with you, and find out what kinda stuff he likes kink wise.
Like who knows maybe he likes getting rimmed or choked or watchin porn when he gets it on. Shit man this man is sexually inefficient and he needs a push from you or a gentle holding hand and afterwards you two will be like peas in a pod motherfucka.
Anthony Garcia
Never trust a weak dicked nigga.
Jose Scott
makes sense, thanks!
Elijah Wright
thanks guys, I'll try to keep things slow I guess.
Should I maybe stop initiating so much and wait for him to text me first? Makes me feel kinda dumb to ask him out every time since I'm actually really introverted as well. I just got my shit together and got over myself everytime I asked him out but felt like a piece of shit afterwards. Especially after he was being so weird yesterday, should I wait for him to talk to me first?
Aiden Clark
Keep going, tell him you want to hang out just the two of you
suck his dick, even if its flaccid
hes probably embarrassed and thinks you are laughing at him behind his back or something, just keep going
Ryder Watson
First time I ever had sex I couldn't get it up for about 15 minutes. Then I got hard and made her cum twice.
Justin Martinez
Next time just suck his dick. Make him comfortable being in your presence sexually.
Jose Long
This.
Kayden Sanchez
Noooo, he'll think you lost interest because of his floppy dick, it'll tear him apart and his confidence will be even worse. Just be nice, take it slow, and talk about it at some point - that it really wasn't a big deal and you guys can try again with no pressure. If he doesn't get hard you can still do some other sex stuff until he gets his nerves under control
Jason Thompson
He doesn't find you attractive and feels bad about it. Cut your losses and move on before it gets too awkward to hang out in a group environment
Brody Roberts
fuck what do I do
Hudson Ortiz
It is 100%
Daniel Morris
Happens to the best of us. Don't take it personally. He likes you a lot and as a result he's nervous about his performance. Send him a message and tell him that you understand he's probably feeling upset about it, but it's no big deal. Tell him you like him as a person and the sex isn't important to you, and that you like spending time with him just as much. Don't blame yourself at all, guys just get nervous sometimes, it's pretty common.
Austin James
As someone that's had this happen to me before, try your best to be understanding. Don't be weird about it or make it a big deal, just try again but make sure he's comfortable, and if you can try having a nonjudgemental discussion about it to see if there's anything you can do. As for why he can't get it up,he's either nervous or he jerks off with the death grip too much, uses too much porn, jerks off to frequently, or a combination of all the above.
