Is it just expected now all men are addicted to porn? My boyfriend of 3 weeks just told me, very causally...

>Is it just expected now all men are addicted to porn?
Yeah.
Consider yourself lucky if he can still get a boner without watching you get fucked by a horse.

Men can't as easily get laud compared to women, so yeah it's normal.

You know what my gf did so I don't watch it anymore and don't even have the slightest interest in it now?
She fucks me. A lot.

you're acting like he's the only one partaking in a billion dollar industry, fuck off

It's pretty much what NoFappers believe

Not saying everyone has to quit porn and masturbating, some people handle it fine. But as a person who has erection issues and a diminished sex drive from years of watching fetish porn and beating it too hard every day, I can attest that porn is extremely addictive and dangerous for some people

OP is an exception right? Not all women are this fucking naive right?

>Men can't as easily get laud compared to women, so yeah it's normal.
Yeah how much of a Chad do you have to be to not need porn? Geeze.

Men just have really high sex drives generally, you can fuck every day and still crave some porn. Ever seen Don Jon?

But yeah I someday wish to achieve a good enough sex life where I don't need to masturbate

>nawalt
keep deluding yourself

Litterally every single normal men watch porn almost everyday, even the married one. It inspire us, relieve tension and is good for health. If a guy NEVER watch porn, something is wrong with him. I met a guy like this once and he was weird as fuck.

I would say that 90% of all guys under the age of 40 watch porn. 60-70% of that would do so regularly.

Masturbation is fine; porn really isn't. But as long as a person is not addicted such that it starts negatively affecting other areas of their life, it's not too much of an issue.

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It's just porn lol unless it involves non consenting adults you're just overreacting maybe you should try it some time too you seem frustrated.

Sex everyday often multiple times.? Show me that unicorn woman please!

Ever since I got my gf (which has the same libido I do), porn just doesn't cut it for me anymore.

I usually jack off to porn daily and my gf and I have sex three times a week or so, keep in mind we've been together two years and both live pretty busy lives. Porn just makes me horny and I like to watch a woman shove ping pong balls in her asshole sometimes. I still love my gf unconditionally, don't worry OP

Not sure about everyday, but even if I see my gf multiple times a week, we do it 3-5 times depending on how much time we have.

But sweetie, would you be up to have sex with your bf twice per day? See?

Men "need" porn.

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Just fuck him more and do whatever weird shit he's into that you're most comfortable with

Here's my retarded explanation:

> men produce a lot of sperms
> sperms only go out when orgasming
> if a guy stops jerking off, the body will not stop producing sperms, so it will make the guy horny so he ends up masturbating
> as years pass, sperm count gets lower and lower, making libido lower and lower as well

Most efficient way to climax? Watch porn. Why wouldn't we all do that? Seriously, you don't know how easily and how often men are horny. Sometimes we get erections out of nothing, just by relaxing muscles down there...

Also, the morning wood does have a psychological consequence after years of years of waking up with it

> even the married one
> even

More like, specially the married one. Married couples are the couples that have the least sex...

Kek, actually I would! More than twice if he was up to it, however he tends to feel too tired after two rounds, so no more sex for me.

>Is it just expected now all men are addicted to porn?
>Is it just expected now all men
>Is it just expected
>all men
>confront

You are not good at hiding your animosity. A word of advice, there's no point in hiding your true feelings as an anonymous user. All it does it make trying to fix the situation even more of a pain in the ass.

Yes, it's disturbing. I've been trying to stop for quite a while now. It's annoying. It starts off as a curiosity and a desire when you're younger, and builds into an addictive habit. At a certain point in time, it ceases to even be a conscious activity. It's just the thing you do before bed, or a way to relieve stress.

That said, it's technically a normal thing. The effects of porn are a large subject of research these days, and the long term effects are starting to become more apparent.

Whether or not this is something you need to confront him depends on whether you believe this is affecting your relationship in some way, or if in reality this hobby of his is making you self-conscious and uncomfortable.

I think a confrontation is a poor idea. A conversation would be much better. Understand the behavior, don't vilify it.

>3 weeks
You are still in "love phase". After few months you will barely put out more than few times per week at max. Mark my words.

Soon you will understand that porn is the only thing which enables men to have monogamous relationship.

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>implying
Two years and counting, soon to be three years. Maybe make sex pleasant for your woman and she will actually want to fuck you.

Wew. Guess all men stucked in dead bedroom marriages are just bad at sex. Or they arent attractive for their wives anymore....

From what I've been told by my friends, many men are bad at sex AND remain to be bad at sex because they can't take criticism. It's very common that when a woman says that she didn't orgasm, then instead of accepting the feedback on his technique, he just sulks until she's so annoyed that she will pretend to have orgasmed the next time just to avoid the next hysterical scene. She will do it because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings, however she will also kill her own sex drive in the process, so in the end, both suffer from it. Men probably can't imagine the extent of the difference a good technique makes for women because you get off every time; it's biological for you. Women can literally feel NOTHING from sex if her partner is unskillful. The good news is that just like any skill, it can be learned. Just listen to your gf's feedback and don't act insulted when she says that you are not as good as you think.

I agree with your points and conclusion.

However there is other side of story: women who dont even masturbate and are scared of their own sexuality / vagina. And yes, they endure the sex only before marriage happens, then they shut down after 1st pregnancy and never "open" again.

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That's another issue, yes. I'm not saying that the fault lies with men entirely; both sides are to blame for different reasons. For example, women should be more assertive. Then again, women are taught by the society not to be assertive, so I see why so many of them neglect their own pleasure and give up their sex lives as a result. It's a complex issue that's pretty much impossible to fix on the societal level, but an honest and open communication between individual couples should help.

I completely agree.

My bf can't get off unless he jerks himself off. I stopped birth control because it was screwing with my emotions, and now he's throwing a tantrum about wearing a condom. He keeps trying to pressure me into anal to make up for it. Ive told him before that porn is the issue but he won't stop...today I learned he saved over 500 images just this month.

I just want a Victorian era bf who's never seen a bare female leg.

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The only men who refrain from pornography are Buddhist monks.

Men are sexual creatures...

The only way most men would give up porn completely is if you are a dirty little porn star. But i have my doubts that you could look and act the part.

Is every woman addicted to complaining?

I'm the only guy I know who almost never watches plain old 3D porn, pretty much exclusively get off to fetish stuff and even then it's not every day. Although sometimes it's all day. And I'm pretty fucking weird so maybe you're better off with 99% of men who are addicted to porn. Having a sex drive is natural though so I'm not sure you can call it an addiction any more than you can call eating 3 times a day a "food addiction"

apache attack helicopters?

Surveys suggest that married people have more frequent and satisfying sex. Stop parroting stupid sitcom bullshit.

You eat? Weak non ascended fleshbag.

Wow, you are so dumb it's kind of depressing. How have you lived in shadows for so long?

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The easy availability of porn...from the mundane to the extreme...online has screwed up the "natural" order of things in my opinion...including relationship dynamics. I know of more than one couple who it has come close to destroying. As for married people having more sex... maybe if porn is taken out of the equation this would be true beyond the first year of wedded bliss.

> surveys

Surveys say married men with children have no time, privacy and energy to masturbate, so they most likely will end up with someone they met at their work.

See? We can all say stupid shit by using the word "surveys", stfu bro

How's your sex drive? Most men would happily get laid a least twice a day if they could find a woman to join them. If you don't like your man to enjoy porn, then give him a reason to not watch it. (dress up, fuck him all the time, indulge in his little fantasies and your little fantasies)

if that's too much to ask. Then be glad he's looking at porn, and not looking for a side chick.

It's possible for something normal to be destructive.

Being addicted to porn is completely normal, because normal is defined by the time and place. Right now there's limited, and typically IGNORED science about the impacts of porn addiction and internet addiction more broadly, yet it affects most people in the US. In the future, when we understand the impacts of digital media on mental health, our society will create new norms around these things. But the internet is still too new, so we don't know how to handle being oversaturated with porn.

Don't try to shame your boyfriend. He isn't being unfaithful by watching porn or masturbating. It is normal. But he is fucking up his brain chemistry a little.

I recommend the book Your Brain On Porn, as well as researching the current science around internet addiction and its impacts on the brain. Maybe press your boyfriend to try NoFap, or more importantly, NoPorn (masturbation allowed, but not porn).

I've been addicted to porn since I was 11, I'm 29 now, and I've been doing NoFap on and off for a few months. I already feel a lot better.

Almost all dudes use porn, there might be a tiny tiny minority that don't use it but there are a lot more who just lie about it to their wives and GFS to stay out of trouble.

I was with my ex for 4 years and we had a very thrilling and fulfilling sex life but a person can never be available all the time and they can never fulfill every single fantasy. My gf hated sucking dick for example and couldn't give head to save her life so I watched a lot of blowjob porn when she wasn't around.

When did anyone mention kids? Great job moving the goalposts, sweetie. Now go watch more Raising Hope so you can keep convincing yourself that being alone and miserable is a perk.

I think it's pretty normal.
Give him regular sex like a normal couple and he'll stop doing it, I swear.

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considering that porn is a business it's considered consuming media nowadays

Men need to beat off, not porn, prior to like 2004 people didn't have the internet installed in every fucking house and apartment and vacation home and ski lodge and toolshed where they could get millions of hours of porn video downloaded straight into their eyeballs.

humanity managed to beat off for hundreds of thousands of years just fine without porn.

As a test for him and for other dudes who doubt that porn addiction exists: try getting hard and beating off without porn.

If you can't beat off without porn, you're addicted to it. Also it depends how old you are obviously if you're some 19 year old kid still going through puberty and shit obviously you need to beat off more often.

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>is it expected now all women have been plowed by a minimum of 20 cocks by the time they graduate high school?

The thing is, men and women are very different. Sex isn't readily available for men, but the desire is there. So, men's lack of sexual availability is comparable to the availability of sex to women.

All I'm saying is, yes, men look at porn. Don't be judgmental because most girls are whores who have been plowed by miles of dick by the time they're 16. It is the same thing, and just as disgusting.

What I'm saying is you're disgusting and don't be judgmental.

Thank you

>humanity managed to beat off without porn for thousands of years.

Yeah, thats why we have found historical examples of porn in every civilization going back to the days of cave paintings, right? Because porn didn't happen until the internet?

Thanks but I’m a virgin

I don't really get the issue. So you're ok with him jerking off which basically means he's imagining others having sex, but your issue is him actually watching others have sex? I don't get women who have a real issue with porn.

>equating tame drawings of naked women with watching moving images of other men gaping womens assholes with sound in VR

>watching others have sex
You just described cuckoldry.

>Make men obtain good jobs, status, money, and material possessions to have value
>Break the economy and the job market
>Hurr why do men look at porn so much

Truely one of lifes great mysteries.

My gf was equally perturbed at the beginning of our relationship OP. So I tell her I don't watch it anymore and everything's good. Even though I do. Daily.

>implying OP doesnt cuck her bf regularly

This. Not only is it not the same type of serotonin-draining sensory overload, but these days everything and their grandma has a phone or tablet or computer at which they can beat off 24 7. Back in the day like in the 90s you had to physically get your porn from limited supplies that were restricted to 18+, people who lived on a fucking farm in the middle of nowhere in the 1930s certainly didn't have access to erotic novels, and going all the way back to cavemen times you probably had to pay a guy 3 coconuts just to spend 5 minutes in the beat-off chamber.

Watching of others have sex means supporting an industry that makes money on women's abuse. Before a retard calls me a crazy gf, no I'm not OP

anti-xxx.tumblr.com/post/104626693961/anti-porn-mega-pack

You don't understand because you've never read about it

buying a ring for a wedding makes use of the exploitative jewelry industry (and laws that thrive off the insubordination of men), buying coffee exploits poor farmers, designed clothing that women are so fond of is made with sweatshop labor.
but oh noes the women have consequences for their actions! blame the men for it!

nice bait, tho

i think a better question is, if he is loving and a good bf, why the fuck do youcare? do you seeiously feel threatened by screen pixels?

Heh go figure. They could try christian fundamentalists tho

This
I had to stop watching porn because I could't maintain my erection at all. Felt bad man :(

Femanon every dude has watched porn. Everything from handholding 1st love then marriage and finally warm loving sex with the women you’ve love your life softer than a cloud softcore porn to hardcore Brazilian fart porn is all porn.
30% of the Internet is porn.
We have like 6 boards completely dedicated to porn and every popular board features porn.
It’s practically inescapable

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Yeah the horse porn is a really really fucked up rabbit hole you don’t wanna go down.
I had to purge my phone and computer because nothing else turn me on for months.

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Dude the Chad I knew who was 6’2 blue eyed, wealthy with a new 2016 Corvette that pulled a new girl practically every weekend was joking how he once beat off to a porno of himself.
That still counts as watching porn

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I had a girl like that but she was painful shallow and just plain boring.
I miss her pussy I don’t miss her

We all watch it. But admittedly I stopped when I had a gf because the memories were better.

porn isn't the same as sex.

Agreed no one just wants to talk about it.
Healthy sexuality gets regularly ignored for the a sense of fake ass purity that’s not worth a pile of shit.
Women need to stop being afraid of their sexuality.
Ironically enough most slut shamers are women either hypocritical shaming they’re fellow women to share they’re fear they’re own sex or scared of a reduced reputation for being “Easy”
It’s fucking pitiful

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Everyone watches porn OP. Even the ones that are seem super convincing that say dont; watch porn. You should just be happy he's honest. You won't find a guy that doesn't.

First consider where you asked this question.
>Is it just expected now all men are addicted to porn?
No because not all of them are addicted, but quite a few. Its various degrees too, like this thread has attracted differing levels of addicts using every excuse, lie, manipulation, and tactic to pretend they are not addicts, its what addicts do.
I'm not sure what you can actually do if he's like the people in this thread and wont admit it he's addicted.

No volunteers from people who don't watch porn for a study of the effects of watching porn. How shocking.
This has what to do with addition?

But why would you?

>Are all men/women __?
The answer is almost always a resounding "No."

Porn kills love
Thank god there are many men and women discovering the dangers of pornography.
You could search for yourself on Jow Forumsnofap or Jow Forumspornfree about some experiences from spouses.

OP, you should not accept this as normal.

>reddit
Fuck off, keep on jerking to porn given to you by kikes

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Pro-tip: if you're more attractive than your girlfriend / wife, she'll always cum first.

t. guy with not very attractive gf

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Fucking ridiculous. That pic holy shit.
>the absolute state of nofap evangelists
You know what, I agree that professional porn is kind of bad.
But abstaining from fapping is puritan nonsense. Especially if you're single, it's just going to make you horny and miserable.

>Ironically enough most slut shamers are women
This isn't really ironic, both sexes monitor their own more closely because they're more personally involved. Look at how much quicker men are to consider a dude faggy/effeminate or a pussy.

Women slut shame more actively but the whole reason it stings is because of the implication that promiscuous women are seen as less desirable, less interesting and less serious in the eyes of men. If tomorrow everyone woke up and men wouldn't give two fucks if a woman they met fucked five guys or fifty, calling someone a slut wouldn't have much impact anymore.

I don't agree with those things either. But at least I don't masturbate to the explotation of poor sweatshop workers either

If you want your bf to not watch porn there is only one way. Fuck him silly every day. Your weekly count of sex should be at least 10.

The best way to start of is to catch him while watching porn and convince him with a good blowjob until he cant focus on the video anymore. Then proceed to drain him.

Whining, crying, or trying to forbid it wont help. It will just put a chasm between you two.

And if you aren't up for all that sex and effort, then be happy that its porn and not another girl or love doll.

>The best way to start of is to catch him while watching porn and convince him with a good blowjob until he cant focus on the video anymore. Then proceed to drain him.
You watch waaaay too much porn if you think this is a real world scenario

My girlfriend got pissed and made me stop

Porn had an odd effect on me. I guess it's porn compounded with my other issues really though. I didn't get a gf until I was in my mid 20s, so I got pretty used to porn. And I loved having sex with her. I loved doing things to her mostly. Cuddling with her, making her moan and making her come. All things that are completely missing with porn. But the actual fucking part, I wasn't too into it. Exhausting for no good reasons. I still kept watching porn to get off quick. I loved blowjobs though but she didn't do it much. It was mostly just to get my attention and drag me into bed. I wouldn't really blame porn for that though, I'm weird. And maybe I'm low test or something. Maybe it's the onions kek.

Don't listen to these fucking losers. My boyfriend doesn't watch any porn and it's because he understands the fucked up negative affect it has on his brain. (He once was addicted to porn). At first I was suspicious and didn't really think it was such a big deal but I did my own research and now I can see that he was right and I keep on him not to watch any.

Don't settle with a beta that can't even have the self control to stop himself from rotting his own brain.

youtube.com/watch?v=bk-C5LTougs

>professional porn is kind of bad
I don't even find it arousing, it's fucking disgusting. What does people find "hot" in it? The woman?
I only watch amateur stuff

>What does people find "hot" in it?
The only good things I see with it is that it's VERY available. Go on a large streaming site and you've pretty much got infinite of it.

And also it's kind of "efficient". They've gotten really good at making porn that'll help you get off fast. It's arguably not even such a good thing though, it's formulaic, fake and boring. But it's efficient.

For a lot of guys, fapping has become routine. Just a physical need to take care of once in a while. Like eating or exercising. They watch porn and fap because it's easy and feels good, but also to avoid the negative consequences of not doing so (getting horny and frustrated).

I think amateur porn is a lot better because it's more real and there's a lot more things to appreciate in it. But a lot of guys wouldn't like it *because* of this. It's not efficient and it can make you long for the real thing (which is not available for a lot of guys), instead of making the need go away efficiently.

Either suck his dick every day or tell him to lie to you

>It's not entirely the fault of men but women's fault is also the fault of men
There are millions of videos, pictures, sound clips, drawings, animation and stories and there are tons of sex toys, anyone can jack off in any way they plalease, God gave me two hands so I can keep going when one gets tired

Sure thing honey

This is a world where marriage is so fucking pointless and throwaway that even the gays get married now. Of course men are addicted to porn, because there are no prostitutes to get sex from instead. If prostitution was the norm, no man would be looking at porn for even a second. A society with no working monogamy, no prostitutes, and no porn, can only be considered cruel and unusual.

>If prostitution was the norm, no man would be looking at porn for even a second.
Heh I dunno about that. I don't feel super enthusiastic about having sex with a woman I don't know, that doesn't even want to have sex with me, that I only have one hour with and that I wouldn't even feel like doing much of anything with her for a whole hour anyway kek. It must be awkward as shit. I think I'd rather fap. At least fapping is easy and free.
But if prostitution was the norm, I guess I'd feel different about it though.

Once you accept that you're ugly and uncharismatic, you stop caring about whether women want to have sex with you or not.
For me, I could care less, only the top 10% of males do women actually want to have sex with and even then there's still a hint of ulterior motives with them.

You don't seem to understand what pornography is.