So I performed oral sex on another mam 3 days ago and now I’m worried sick about getting HIV...

I had a deep cut on my finger and a closet homosexual was staying in my house because my mother is a slut. He jacked off in my bathroom and came on a shirt I later touched and discovered to have jizz on it. It was also on a broom handle as we were having renovations done in there. I am worried as fuck about that as this guy was a prison faggot.

I understand that you are feeling very scared right now. I myself had times in my life when my health anxiety controlled my life, it isn't easy at all.

However, please listen to us and your doctors when we tell you that there is no point in worrying. You had no bleeding or cuts in your mouth, correct? He didn't ejaculate either in your mouth. You are going to be fine, you'll be okay.

Keep yourself busy man, do something to keep your mind off things like this. For me, my health anxiety was particularly bad when I would just sit at home and have these thoughts looping through my mind constantly

>So I performed oral sex on another mam 3 days ago and now I’m worried sick about getting HIV
HIV from oral doesnt happen. dont worry

That is so false. It can happen to oral with a cut in a mouth.

I even told my doctor and she told me I was fine. I have doubts and I think I may have something.

The left fold of flesh where the jaws connect was a bit scratchy and gritty because of allergies but other than that I had no open cuts or sores. I didn’t brush or flush before the oral sex. I don’t know if there was pre cum involved. But yeah, no ejaculation in my mouth.

The chances that you got it are almost non-existent, and even if by some cruel chance you got it, you can't do anything but wait till you can take the test. so chill user and live your life as usual in the meantime

>so chill user and live your life as usual in the meantime

Can one of the gays or others answer this? I've never had sex before and I'm scared as fuck. The semen never got directly in the cut but I did wash my hands and the water got in it.

How long was the semen on your shirt? HIV dies pretty quick once it’s out in the open environment. Also you didn’t have any cuts so you’re good.

I did have a cut. A massive cut in my third fingertip. I have no clue how long it was there. It must have been minutes.

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My doctor told me I was fine but I still want a test.

This was months ago in November 2017.

dumbest question of the day guys...uh, where do you get tested for stds?

I was raised by a very religious family. This never came up. We were just told not to have sex.

Primary Care Clinic.

Your family is retarded.

then take a test just to be sure, it will relieve your mind

you would have gotten some signs of the illness already if you had it

What are the signs?

Rash, fever, fatigue 2-4 weeks after infection. Constant infections after a few months.

This

Never had any of that.

Constant lethargy, flaky patches on face.

Your chances of getting aids from giving head, if the person didn't ejaculate are basically zero.

HIV/Aids is a lot harder to get than most people think.

Having anal (pretty much the most likely way to transmit it) with an HIV positive person only gives you a 1 in 909 chance of getting aids. Even fucking someone who is confirmed to have it, while unprotected yourself, you're more likely not going to get it.

Obviously don't fucking do that, use a condom, all that good stuff. But yeah, you don't have aids you hypochondriac.

Chances of contracting HIV like that are pretty much nonexistent. You can get fucked by someone with HIV, have them finish inside you, and you're still not likely to get it. see

not how it works I'm afraid. The other person's viral load won't affect how quickly you present with symptoms.

95% of people test positive after 4 weeks using the DUO p24 antigen and antibody test. The 5% that don't usually have some other serious medical complications which affect the results of the test. If you test negative at 4 weeks using the DUO antigen/antibody test, you are most likely negative, and you can follow up that negative result in another 2 months for 100% confirmation that you are HIV negative. You can do the rapid test after three months which will give you results within minutes. Oral sex is a very low risk behaviour, and the epithelial cells lining the mouth are very resistant to pathogens, even if you have ulceration/cuts. The only scenario in which you would be at serious risk was as said, if you had a serious open wound in your mouth, and your partner's penis was bleeding. The fact that he didn't ejaculate into your mouth means the risk is even lower.

I know all this because I went through your exact same situation a few months ago. You will make yourself sick with worry, which is the only real risk you have run. You do not have HIV. Test to be sure, but I guarantee you that you don't. Schedule your test, and until then forget about it, live your life, have fun.

Literally zero chance, about as much chance of contracting HIV from someone airborne. The virus is destroyed upon contact with air. That's why anal sex is the most efficient route of transmission. Your asshole is pretty much a fragile, airtight fleshy sleeve that gets ripped to shreds by fat cocks, it's the most hospitable environment for the virus to be in.

unlikely and massively unreported. Of all legitimate studies conducted on the transmission of HIV, oral sex has never been identified as an independent risk factor. Theoretically it can happen, but there's no evidence suggesting that it does happen through that route. Also the kind of cut that you're alluding to would have to be so gnarly that you wouldn't be having oral sex in the first place (unless someone giving you a bloody blowjob is something you're into).

So when is it conclusive then? 3 or 6 months?

Go to STDcheck and find a clinic to take the HIV RNA Test. Its 99.9% accurate and the window time is 7-14 days. You only have to wait a maximum of two weeks to get conclusive results compared to the standard and rapid tests which take 3 months.

Free clinic, planned parenthood, primary care physician, urgent care centers. Any major city worth a shit has a LGBT center that offers free testing and treatment services

Yeah but they could be cuts of any size. Like tiny indescernible ones from eating chips or something.

Depends if you swallowed semen or had blood contact.

Fucking somebody in any orifice creates micro abrasions which is how HIV is normally transmitted. If you take poor care of your teeth you might also have inflamed and bleeding gums.

Please don't fuck random strangers, it's an extremely bad idea.

>What are my chances of getting HIV?
Oral sex is an incredibly low risk means of HIV transmission. Not only would this person actually need to have HIV but their viral load would need to be significant enough and you'd most likely need to have some kind of significant open sore of cut in your mouth. The fact that they didn't ejaculate in your mouth also decreases the risk by quite a bit. You're okay.
>That was my first time having sexual contact with anyone ever in my life.
You're fine, OP. You need to relax and stop tripping out about this. Get tested to give yourself piece of mind but I think you and I both know you're just having a bit of first time paranoia.

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How many gay men even bother to get tested after blowing someone? Is it really that risky?

hooooooooow fucking come then theres this massive aids epidemy?

why lie? it IS very contagious

Because many gays are basically mindless animals and their sexual habits reflect it

Lol, fag.

Because of unprotected anal sex. And even protected. The vast majority of gay men include anal sex in their practices. If you’re just doing oral then you’re pretty safe.

>if you're just doing oral then you're pretty safe
Still gay tho.

Why don't you just get one of those home tests from your local pharmacy. they're sold over the counter, include instructions and cost less then $30.

Because they take 3 months to be conclusive.

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Don't worry user. Transmission of HIV orally is something like 1-3% and those cases are very likely all linked to open cuts in the mouth of the person giving. Basically if you sucked off 50 guys with your gums bleeding you'd catch it, and you'd have to be letting them all cum in your mouth.

Those 50 guys would also all have to be HIV positive I should say.