Any tips for finding a better social circle?
>made degenerate friends in highschool
>now my only friend group just wants to go out and get fucked up
>cant make friends in college because its community and most there are losers
What type of clubs should I join?
I'm thinking of faking being religious and going to church for a Christian GF and social circle'
to keep it fit related post your least favorite lift
My least favorite lift is people who post garbage threads about shit that isn't fit related but think that by tacking some basic question on the end it'll be okay.
Go to Jow Forums, faggot.
i didnt like your response
Find a productive hobby you enjoy
ex rock climbing, mountain biking whatever
Go to rock climbing gym and start talking to people, talk to them long enough and congrats you are now friends
bump because same. OHP is worst lift.
I like dumbbell rows, this guy is kinda a dick I would also like to improve my social circle
This look like a good idea if you have time and money for it.
>blame "degenerate" friends, and not oneself in how you spent your time in the past
>judge an entire school, writing off any chance of meaningful relationships with peers
>considering faking ones own morals and beliefs for sex
yeah you're just a piece of shit OP. sorry bud you don't get to have real friends.
This, except for the climbing part
I'm not blaming my friends, I was pointing out that my go to social circle is pretty shitty.
I'm not writing off an entire school, I've hung out with some of them outside of community college but this particular college is ghetto.
I could have christians morals without the beliefs
also you're a gigantic faggot
this
OP is also a faggot
idk maybe go to a board where they discuss this, rather than a fitness board, retard.
what's a cheap hobby where i can find girls? i took bachata classes once and there were hella latinas, thinking of doing it again. biking is expensive, so is rock climbing, i'm thinking of joining a running club as they'll be girls and it'll force me to do cardio
when u do some dumbell curls to talk to them, like hey looking good looking great wanna go on a date? So you have more options pick a alpha hobby say in rock climbing, ok this is my first time im not doing dumbbells at the gym lol, the people around me have very similar interests as me, lets grab a drink. Say when youre surrounded by pretty women, by doing that alpha hobby wow its working great, look at my chest wanna go on a date?
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Remember OP, the type of of friends you have are just a reflection of your own personality
I'm in the opposite situation as you bro
>made nerd friends in highschool
>whenever I hangout with people they just want to code something or play games
TFW no retard friends to get fucked up with
Sure but I'm trying to change that pal
huh, no wonder I literally cannot find a single person I would consider a friend
Am I a rare personality or a huge asshole? Because I've been called an asshole a lot
start with what you don't like about yourself bud
also ohp is my favorite lift
My friend circle has pretty much collapsed since i stopped going out drinking and partying. I used to have a tonne of friends but once i quit drinking i realised they were just drinking buddies. I pretty much have just two friends that i still hang out with sober. I suffer from social anxiety a d making friends is really hard for me, i have a constant voice in my head telling me im not good enough for other people or that they will think im weird and wont like me.
I want to make friends but i dont want to go out drinking yet i feel this is the only way to overcome my anxiety and make friends.
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Are you me?
>going to Jow Forums for advice
You're better off asking literally any other board
How the fuck does one make a friend?
Every single friend i've ever had has completely taken the initiative from day 1 and that's the only reason we became friends.
I feel like i've missed some very vital bit of socializing in my early childhood because i'm simply unable to connect with anyone even if i really want to.
Inb4 OP becomes rapist priest
ohp is so trash, im just trash at it tho
>I'm thinking of faking being religious and going to church for a Christian GF and social circle'
Retarded, the post
>he doesn't still keep in touch with his high school buds, all of whom grew up to become decent upstanding men
feel bad for you lad. i can trust my friends with anything.
You don't have to abandon your friends if they make shitty health decisions as long as you have the self control to not make the mistakes with them.
My friends drink a lot too, and eat like shit. Every time they try and get me to do it too, and sometimes I will just because it is fine in moderation. But most of the time I say no. If they keep pressing me, I'll either leave or re-assert myself.
Your friends don't put that shit in your body, you do. If they are legitimately shitty people who don't do anything for you and are just wanting an extra dude to share laughs with then ditch them, otherwise you can't just abandon people because you have no self control or testicles to tell them you don't wanna do that shit.
I live in Scotland so if you don't drink you'll have like 1 proper friend. It sucks, I just focus on myself, works out better in the long run
And to add on to this, if you fake being religious just to make upstanding friends and get a gf you're retarded. You've potentially got people who give a fuck about you, and you're gonna walk away from that because you can't say no to their shit habits. You'd rather go pretend to be something you're not.
tl;dr you're never gonna make it like this. Re-evaluate where you stand not only with your friends but yourself.
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Definitely true. Everybody just drinks to excess at the weekend.
stop having friends then.
the true alpha lifts alone, runs alone, and sleeps alone because others cant keep up
sports clubs, running clubs, some kinda martial art.
1. Go to an elite University
2. Get accepted to an elite biz/law/med school
3. Go work with some elite company (top law firm, big 3 consultant firm, top med center, top University, big pharma, politics)
4. Congratulations now a huge portion of your peers are well-educated, relatively well-to-do, successful people
5. The sort of lifestyle and area you live will be ride with social opportunities to mingle.
Fyi. I got a great who was religious and went to church with her of my own accord. She never asked me to.
You won't be able to keep it up and it will probly destroy you. Dead serious. Eventually she will start having religious convos with you that you aren't equipped to talk about and she will resent it.