Hello. Two weeks ago I came here for help because my boyfriend wanted a threesome and I didn't like the idea. You guys told me a lot of things and they helped me to make my mind, but now I need help: I had my first threesome yesterday and I LIKED IT, but the other guy we got for it (my boyfriend's friend) was even more nervous than me and couldn't even get hard. So, I liked it but then I felt like shit because this guy couldn't even mantain an erection, my first experience was bad because of that, I liked it but even now the idea of a threesome feels weird to me when I think about it, but I like it when I'm doing it. My boyfriend told me to don't worry and it wasn't the first time something like that happened to him.
It seems your bf purposefully choose a guy he knew may not perform. I like it too OP but for me the other guy did perform so my bf quickly lost all his bravado. For me now, sex with just one guy will never come close.
For you however, either a new guy or have sex with this guy alone if you like him.
Ryder Torres
Perhaps it would help if you got permission to fuck the friend without the bf present. His problem might have been the fact that a guy was naked that close to him. Maybe if he got used to your body first, it'd be easier for him to get an eraction with his friend around.
Levi Peterson
What happened when you brought the threesome up with your bf?
Ryder King
nothing to add also, don't expect your relationship to last much longer
Sebastian Gray
Lol my boyfriend told me: see? Other guys are not good like me. Both of them had fucked girls together in the past. I felt really bad for that guy, my boyfriend made me came and then when the guy left we had sex again .
I don't like this guy, so I don't want to try with him again (and I don't think he wants after all the shame).
Why exactly, is there a way to fix it ?
Juan Brooks
I wasn't the one that brought it up and was angry and hurt when he did. Honestly at that point I began to feel differently about him so I finally relented since I didn't care.
Wyatt Flores
Are you together with him now? When did that happen?
Carson Edwards
>Other guys are not good like me what did I tell you. as I said the guy that my bf brought in DID perform and while my bf put on a brave face he was clearly bothered.
Since you don't want this guy but want another threesome with your bf you get to pick the guy.
Otherwise I would leave your bf out of the next one. The ideal is BOTH are trying to please you and BOTH perform. Your bf is probably not the lover he believes.
Benjamin Robinson
I meant to ask what happened when you discussed your feelings post-threesome. You said he lost his bravado? Was that an uncomfortable conversation?
Oliver Torres
What do you think is in it for the boyfriend in this situation? Like, why would he ever suggest a MMF threesome? I'm having trouble understanding how it's not just an excuse to demonstrate how much of a superior lover he is.
Henry Lewis
My boyfriends likes to see how some other guy fucks her girlfriend... I don't think that is normal. I tried to talk about it but he got really bad, everyone tells him that he is retarded/has mental problems. I know that her first girlfriend raped him. I really want to help him with this because I love him
Luis Price
Nope. Like I said when he asked me it hurt me really bad and the more he pleaded and tried to manipulate me the more emotionally detached I became and didn't care and finally said yes to shut him up.
I broke up with him. He never whined much but would comment about how I responded to the other guy. (try not to respond when a guy is having sex with you and he's good). But, my bf kept trying to prove his worth to me but it came off just like it was, insecurity.
Chase Davis
Boyfriend*. Oh and I forgot to say his first girlfriend was 18 when he was 14 and she cucked him with older guys.
Robert Martinez
I didn't say anything though he wanted me to tell him he was the better lover. Typical guy sexual insecurity stuff and he ran the guy down for other reasons, like he's a real asshole or does too many drugs or cheats or some shit like that.
Keep in mind your bf also ran the other guy down but for his performance. Its always a competition
Thomas Williams
I don't know for sure. In my situation my bf obviously didn't respect me yet wanted to act out a fantasy but it didn't play out as he expected.
Thing is I know sex and love are separate but if I wanted to have sex with other guys I didn't love I wouldn't be in a relationship with a guy I do. For some reason guys today don't understand. Me loving someone and making love to them is not the same as porn sex.
Jaxon Fisher
How does it make you feel to imagine a MFF threesome with your boyfriend, and having him giving attention to this other girl and complimenting her? Is it really insecurity to feel uncomfortable in that situation?
Hudson Fisher
Well, that bf is no longer my bf and I wouldn't have a MFF threesome if I loved the guy.
Having said that I will have another MMF as long as I don't care for either guy and the circumstances arose but I'm not looking for that.
Joshua Sanders
Why wouldn't you have a MFF if you loved the guy?
Gavin Myers
Because I don't want to share him with another woman idiot and damn sure don't want to watch it. Now, I might understand if I was bi and wanted to have sex with a girl but not both of us servicing the guy
Duh
Aaron Baker
What do you mean by your last sentance? What do you consider "porn sex"?
Jose Reed
>"porn sex" Someone you don't love and fucking for fun, fucking for lust, fucking for fantasy
I'm a guy and that's pretty obvious still. No chance I'd ever do a mmf with a girl I cared about. Even a mff would only invite trouble. Certainly if I'm not willing to share, I can't expect her to want to either.
If it goes well, it'll likely leave one of us craving other people to have sex with under the guise of a threesome. It's only a matter of time before it becomes easier to just fuck someone on the side rather than convincing strangers to do a threesome. If it goes badly, then it'll just breed insecurity and jealousy.
There's no winning if you plan to keep the person you're with. Not unless you're ready to become a full blown swinger but fuck that noise.
William Bell
weird. i never thought girls would feel hurt when their bfs bring up the topic of threesomes with other dudes.
Its not weird. I was emotionally attached to him and gave myself to only him and for him to want me to have sex with someone else broke my heart. It was clear he didn't feel the same and saw me as a sex object to be used and passed around.
Just because guys talk and boast about their sexual conquest doesn't mean I want to be just another sexual conquest story over a beer.
Liam Watson
how many other girls feel the same way?
Leo Flores
Most I believe. I was too hurt and embarrassed to say anything to any of my friends at first my bf wanted me to do this but since I broke up and have told some why they all agree they wouldn't want a guy like this.
Shamefully, I went along with the MMF but the damage had already been done to the relationship but if any guy ever, ever, ever that I am in love with and in a committed relationship with even mentions sharing me I'll end it on the spot.
Why do you people think this is the norm when it isn't? I don't deny there are couples that do but it takes a different mindset and I am not of that mindset nor is any woman I know.
Ethan Fisher
Because you hear of whores fucking around while you never got so many opportunities, especially threesomes and shit.
We shouldnt be surprised though, all of this degeneracy is an ancient prophecy that simply came true.
Easton Sanchez
I think your attitude is more normal than not normal I wouldn't want to do that shit in a relationship either I wouldn't want to do that shit outside a relationship I kind of like the old sex between me and someone else maybe I'm just too fucking old for this world a lot of people need to stop pretending to know everything about everything especially when they're too immature to even talk about certain things oh well fuck me
Thomas Parker
I dunno why others have it, for me I had some bad relationships in my formative periods where the girl cheated, and everyone was screwing each other so threesomes and group sex was normal, and so that impacted me. it sort of became a thing where if i thought the girl could or would cheat that i would sexualize it as a way of gaining control. also I find MMF porn hot, but I don't think I would want to share a girl I really cared about. I think maybe I got so jaded that I didn't think monogamous caring could go both ways.
