Men's magazines have women in them; women's magazines ALSO have women in them. It seems women's bodies are inherently erotic, even to their own gender. A lot of poetry written by men describes women's physical features in excruciating detail, while it seems women's poetry does not.
Knowing this, what do women even find attractive in men? Are we the ugly gender or what?
PD: I'd also love to get some replies from women; I'm genuinely curious.
I only lust after a body if I’m in love, personally. Seeing a muscle man does nothing on its own.
Same
Men aren't the ugly gender
However women are the sexually exploited one. I wish we had more beauty male pressure on ads or on the streets. There is some but really little and mostly just aimed at gay men. It sucks. I like a lot kinds of men, muscly men, chubby men, wall builded men, lanky men, fit men, men with suits or swimsuits, men sucking cunts etc.
Or have you ever seen male promoters for 99% of brands?
It's tiring but we have already gotten used to it I guess
We do, but not on the same level that men find our bodies attractive. I can’t just look at a photo of a shirtless guy and start schlicking like I’m scratching my belly.
We don’t work that way. There’s a reason why male pornstars get paid nothing unless they go gay. I like to read to read my porn. For a girl it’s about the sensual buildup to sex, not the wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am rutting in itself. Men are like light switches, women are like slow burners. Even when I masturbate I need a book (or at least Literotica or Fanfiction.net or something) and a nice ritual before I pleasure myself.
Same for me
Maybe not ops question, but you must have seen guys in the past and thought, hmm he looks nice, I'd like to get to know him,/I hope he talks to me
neat, so I'm not fucked because I'm relatively short and slender, but because my character is too bad for anybody to be interested in the first place. This is motivating because it means I'm not ugly.
I think you're looking at the wrong magazines. The youthful ones have women in bikinis for men, and singer guys in the 20s for women. The mature men/women (20s+) have their own gender, pic related.
It seems obvious to me that women find men's bodies erotic. First have you seen how freaking horny they get, and second you can see them when they are wanting desperately to see a guy naked.
My girlfriend used to be adverse to porn and even complained about my own habits online. After a while she started trying out some porn sites and now her bookmarks are full of gangbang videos.
The average man is doughy and unappealing. Dad bods are absolutely disgusting. I love a man with abs, though the most important thing is that he's not fat.
Funny post. Also gave me 5% of a boner.
It's a feelings thing. I can see pics of male bodies and think 'that's nice', if I see my bf naked I go nuts, even when he doesn't have the kind of body I usually like (I like skinny fags, he's more muscle-y).
Mmh... not just looking at his body. More of and overall look/attitude does it for me.
>sexual exploitation for all!
Yes men are the ugly gender. Only 60% of you can be considered attractive.
Men are more visual. Women are visual and mental. They can fake sexual interest for years and their partner won't notice because his sexuality and strong sex drive is tied up with his emotion, until he finds her with another man, then he will know the flame has died out.
There are features guys have that are aesthetically pleasing but not necessarily in an erotic way.
Seeing any guy's perineum is pretty good though, thinking about running my fingers up and down it increases the saliva in my mouth.
Are you actually retarded, OP?
Lately I've been growing so tired of these constant stupid-ass threads that have nothing to do with Jow Forums.
>I only lust after a body if I’m in love
oh, but what makes you fall in love with them to start with?
>Even when I masturbate I need a book (or at least Literotica or Fanfiction.net or something) and a nice ritual before I pleasure myself.
what do the men look like when you imagine the ones from the stories. And what makes for a good erotic fiction and what makes for a bad one?
I was reading an article about opposite sexes traversing a forest w a predetermined path in mind. The object of the experiment was to find the quickest way to the end of the forest
There was a positive correlation for women taking the predetermined path and men taking the shortcut path. They weren't too mutually exclusive and u had extremes on both ends
But it made me wonder. Maybe opposite sexes are inclined chemically to react to a body differently, with the men either having a shortcut or """stronger""" release of brain chemicals to achieve the observed effect
Not sure how to research that but there u go
>Seeing any guy's perineum is pretty good though
the gooch? That spongy part between the balls and anus?
not the user you replied to but when i fantasize while reading erotica or hell even doujins i always imagine my bf and i fucking, when i was single i'd fantasize about whatever crush i had at the moment
most men ive talked to just think about whatever they find attractive in a person, not really their partner, including my bf unfornately
>most men ive talked to just think about whatever they find attractive in a person, not really their partner, including my bf unfornately
i can't say I'm much like that. I'll actually jack off to thoughts of my partner. But when I'm love, most other women disappear in my mind.
A question I have is what are the stages or process that a woman goes through to find a guy attractive?
In my experience it has been kind of malleable. Especially post sex. Like, if I can just get a girl to like me enough to have sex, and then I make her come, I become her type. Its nuts. Like I'm a hairy balding guy. But after that first night, she's all about balding hairy guys.
My gf always mirin' on my arms, my torso and my ass.
She also loves my eyes and when I stare at her she often initiate sex.
I don't know, I don't think I'm "that good" but it's still nice
women really like my penis. when they are into me, they like to look at my face and my hips and my arms
I know you’re biased because youre a straight male. I’m curious to what degree you are right, though, as I’ve had similar thoughts.
yes,"taint" is another slang term
i'd kill to have a guy like you omg
i dont know about other women, but if a dude really catches my interest before dating he'll become instantly attractive to me even if he's considered unattractive by societys standards.
maybe the process is slower for other women or something, im not sure? a lot of women seem to build up feelings overtime.
They usually how it goes
Once a woman is seduced by you you’re her “type” suddenly
>her bookmarks are full of gangbang videos.
user...
There's a book named " Come As You Are" that explains female sexuality.
Femanon here. I tend to find women much more physically attractive than men; their hips, thighs, breasts, collarbones, waists, etc. are just so fucking beautiful. Men usually emotionally attract me more. I have never found “masculine” men attractive; I don’t like very muscular men or men with facial hair at all. I also don’t like men with stereotypically masculine hobbies.
I’ve dated women in the past but currently have a boyfriend. Because I’m emotionally attracted to him, I find him physically attractive.
While I understand that women aren't as visually stilulated as men, the responses in here are still irritating af. How come girls im the past approached me if it wasn't for my appearance? I'm not talkactive or social at all
Because the women in this board are lying in a way and telling the truth in another.
Welcome to life.
They say, “Oh, I need love to be sexually stimulated.” And that is sometimes true... but they’re pretending it’s THE TRUTH.
It’s not. Many women fuck men simply because “they’re hot and available to me” ... same as men. Most of us are limited by our drive/work ethic and our options.
Think about what kind of mental and emotional fortitude it would take for men and women to get on this board and type out deep sexual and emotional truths about themselves?
Do you really think most people look inward and question their own drives, motivations, morals and ethics? I think you know that’s not true.
So these women are telling a half story - the half where they’re the good girl and live in the land of love = intimacy.
The truth is actually more in the middle called “Real Life.”
>Do you really think most people look inward and question their own drives, motivations, morals and ethics?
I know the answer but I still struggle to believe it. How do other people no fucking question this shit?
>i'd kill to have a guy like you omg
Thank you i dont know about other women, but if a dude really catches my interest before dating he'll become instantly attractive to me even if he's considered unattractive by societys standards.
>maybe the process is slower for other women or something, im not sure? a lot of women seem to build up feelings overtime.
I hope we can get more girls to chime in. I have a feeling there is some fundamental difference in the way guys start attraction and the way women start attraction. And I think that is at the heart of a lot of these problems everyone has.
Like, for me, its almost like a light switch. Like I might know a girl for a month, or a year and one day the switch just gets flipped. And then suddenly that girl is just hot and she is forever hot. And i will find other girls with similar features attractive. And the feeling will be bold and all consuming. She'll be the first thing I think of when I get up, and the last thing I think of when I go to bed. She could move away and I could get over it and then if I see her again and hear her laugh or see her smile, the switch will flip again and it will start over.
The closest thing I could compare it to would be something like doing a stimulant. Like a drug. Hearing her hopes and dreams, her thoughts on things, listening to her complain about work, it all brings me joy.
Also, as aside, this is why I get irritated with how critical people are of teen nice guys. I'm in my late 20s now, but I was a teen once. It was never about trying to trade friendship for sex. Or feeling entitled to sex. It was that this girl made me happier than anything else in the world. Spending time with her was a joy. Have to choose between a freindship with her and playing it more cool so I could be her bf was like choosing between happiness and happiness x 2, and there was a 50/50 chance happiness x 2 would come up snake eyes, and I'd lose everything.