Why is everyone here so obsessed with wanting a gf?

Why is everyone here so obsessed with wanting a gf?

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OP has set my soul free.

Like seriously. Most of them couldn't even handle being in a relationship. I realized this. So I'm not even trying to before I got my own life fixed.

They think having a GF will solve their problems.

Everyone says 'getting a gf won't fix all your problems,' and I know that, but it would would help with the loneliness problem. It's that simple man. I'm lonely and I want to find someone to sit and eat dinner with instead of just my laptop screen. Do you really want to sit and live your entire life without emotionally connecting with anyone?

They think they can fill the emptiness in their hearts with external stimuli. It's a distraction so they don't have to realize how hollow they truly are.

Is feeling lonely the only (big) issue you have with yourself? Do you have friends? Do you see your family often?

It's normal to wish for emotional connection. But an SO isn't the only way to accomplish that, nor the best way in a lot of cases.

It really causes way more probs than it solves, the steady sex is nice for a couple of months but just not really worth it

True, the pink sunglasses disappear after 2 months

>Is feeling lonely the only (big) issue you have with yourself?
I'm not arrogant enough to pretend I only have one problem with myself, but at the moment it's the only one I can identify with a clear solution.
>Do you have friends?
I have a fair amount of friends I hang out with but that's not the same.
>Do you see your family often?
Yeah all the time.

>It's normal to wish for emotional connection. But an SO isn't the only way to accomplish that, nor the best way in a lot of cases.
What are the other ways, because it really seems like it's the only option. Hell society acts like it's the endgame of life. I know it's childish to blame society but you get my point.

I honestly think getting a girlfriend will make me stop feeling a bit lonely when I get home after work.

Having someone to get intimate and cozy with after work sounds absolutely fantastic.

You kind of make a good point and I want to believe you, but I really can't.

Grass is greener.

I was in the same boat, and now that i have one of 4 years, i miss like you guys have no idea being a neet

>now that i have one of 4 years, i miss like you guys have no idea being a neet

Not to bash on you, but I have to call bullshit on this one.

not when shes busy talking to other guys while youre at work. trust me a female will just make you want to kill yourself

That seems like an awfully dim view of half your species.

Wwhat? About missing the neet life?

Bro, after sticking to a relationship this long, made me realize that some people just enjoy a little too much being alone. Sure, it has its pros of having/living with someone, but, boy, i do sure miss spending days doing nothing, playing videogames, smoking weed and fapping away at my hearth content.

Now, in the eyes of society, ibecame a normie wageslave like everyone else.

It makes me sad sometimes.

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Society as a whole pushes the narrative hard people should be with someone. There's nothing wrong with being with someone but there is when you're doing it just to satisfy society's requirement for you as a human being.

You just have to do you. If being by yourself makes you happy then so be it.

I don't know. I had girlfriends from ages 15-25, now I'm good for the time being. People look at me like I'm weird for not trying to talk to fall in love and shit right now. It's annoying. It's all anything stupid humans talk about.

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>I became a normie wageslave like everyone else.

>It makes me sad sometimes.

Hey man, trust me when I tell you that you shouldn't be sad about this.

I've been a NEET for almost 3 months now, I've been applying to different companies, hotels and restaurants, these fuckers just won't hire me.

Maybe finding a job would be easier in the U.S, but I don't want to make any assumptions.

I wholeheartedly despise the NEET life, so trust me when I tell you not to be sad about being a normie.

I swear, I'd commit bloody murder if it meant I could be a 'normie' with a girlfriend.

Honestly wouldn't give a fuck if she's clingy, shallow, whatever.

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Because it will help boosting the self esteem by being desired by someone.

>Do you really want to sit and live your entire life without emotionally connecting with anyone?
Yes. Because "emotional connection" usually means giving up objectivity and productive goals. Relationships mean compromise and restriction and obligation. Something I do not want.

It's just objectively better for me to do something productive in my free time rather than spend it dicking around with a partner.

I guess some are lucky enough to have their partners be productively focused. Like uni professors do get married, doctors get married, there are people who are both politically active together as a couple. So I suppose it's possible but I don't know how much time and effort I want to put into trying to get that.

That sounds incredibly empty. Like what's the point of living as a robot pursuing a solely utilitarian existence? To what end?

damn who hurt you brah
I'm just not interested in anybody or anything but that justification borders insanity

What's empty to me is living your life in a dormant relationship consisting of work, coming home, watching tv and eating with your partner then going to bed.

I'm not a robot, I'm just saying there's better things to do than worry about relationships. I still acknolwedge and deal with my emotions and "non-robot" features, I just don't want to spend a bunch of time in a relationship

No one, I just think it's better to do something useful than play in a relationship

I completely agree with this, but at the same time I realize its a completely fucked up viewpoint.

In this day and age of incels, tinder, chads and staceys, how are below-average looking nerds like me supposed to compete? I have a great job, my own place and car, money saved in the bank but I couldnt tell you the last time I went on a date

Youth and inexperience I guess. I am 30 and the only advice I want is in regards to career and making money. I have 2 fuck friends who both want to be my gf but they are roasties and I don't want to get involved other than to get my dick off every now and then. Pussy and companionship are luxuries, career is the real issue.