How to get rid of the incel mentality as a Jow Forumsizen ?

>Wtf is "incel"?
an autist acronym, like khv, cico, ed, and other newfag bullshit

Your dick is an incel

this. go socialize guys.

You can't rethink something that's actually true. Once you start noticing these things you can never stop noticing them. You just have to accept the unfair rules and play within them.

>Even thought a lot of them are attention hungry whores
So fucking what? I keep hearing this bullshit about women being whores and vapid cunts, so what?. They don't thing about you AT ALL.
Improve yourself and stop giving a shit about whores, look for other kind of people/women, stop being resentful. You at least aknowledged your cringe-worthy behaviour , now you can dismiss it brah, you have to do something now or will end up like nu-pol virgins.

>rejected countless times.
Give us the honest, not exaggerated to prove your point number of times you were rejected in the last 3 years.

Stop going on Jow Forums OP, it's the first step to actually making it

If you’re really ugly as sin, just know it’s OVER. There’s no gym for you face brah

What's an incel

What's a google

>I'm going to get mad and resentful about the fact that people are having fun instead of using my time to get shit done and enjoy myself.

>have the ole preworkout fap session
>not wearing underwear in my gray gym shorts
>walk outside of apartment
>girl walking her dog
>dog runs up to me
>start petting him and talking to girl
>stand up, girl is smiling at me
>she looks down
>look of disgust
>quickly runs away
>look down
>cum stain seeping through my gym shorts

i can never show my face around here again

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If all women are whores, then how are you still a virgin?

just some reddit tier nonsense that has infected Jow Forums

wtf dude. You're a disgusting faggot

>Being this unwilling to admit that you might be partially or completely wrong

The funniest people are those who are so convinced they have the absolute truth on the matter, but placidly sit by as their life spirals down the toilet.

I've been rejected at least more than 90 times.

I truly hate to say it but I'm not a virgin, I took the easy way out.

>Inb4 kill yourself

>thinks all women are whores
>specifically looks out for slutty behavior
>pays zero attention to women who don't hoe it up
>all women are whores

her shoe has a heel why squat barefoot?

Unironically this desu

lower your fucking standards, loser

you're NOT entitled to an attractive girl

Socialization is a learned behavior, unconscious learning, but something you just get better at by doing

it’s going to be embarrassing and painful sometimes if you got stunted somewhere along the way

well you have it rough but don't give up. try something new, lower your standards a bit, try to find girls who you share interests with, sharpen your wit. More importantly dont be such a debby downer all the time and come to Jow Forums less because man oh man is this place bad for your world view.

You're a victim to confirmation bias and many other cognitive defects. The first step to becoming better in anything is gaining humility.

Let me tell why is that:
>Beautiful people have a lot of attention , specially on social network
>Beautiful people have a lot of fun and social life
>Ugly people think they "deserve" the most beautiful women even though they have literally ZERO value wether it is money, looks, status ,whatever. This also means that they don't even realize ugly/average girls are maybe available.
>Ugly people always are entitled and resentful, instead of trying to fix the problem
The best example of this all is Jow Forums threads that moan about monogamy

Every woman I've spoken to in the past 3 months has been in a relationship. There's something that only draws me to people in a relationship. Is there something about them? The way the act and carry themselves, maybe. It's really getting to me.

Admit you're old and autistic. Pay for sex or fap.

Realize you're bad experiences with women are not gender exclusive. You need better people in your life

Attractive people attract people and so they tend to be in a relationship more often. The same reason you're drawn to them is the same reason they're taken.

It's not an acronym. It's a combination of "involuntary celibate"

I don't even think it's that, they're normally not stunners. I guess it's the same thing though, for an outgoing and attractive personality.

WHAT DO I SAY LADS

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you're ugly. Your "incel mentality" is just a result of unending rejection and scorn from women. If you were good looking you would not have it.

The only way is to either delude yourself about your appearance or improve it

What were you going to say you utter mongoloid.

Wake the fuck up.
9/10 people get rejected because their not attractive enough, and women are a lot pickier than men now because social media allows to them to locate and flock towards chads.

"Getting rid of this toxic way of thinking" to go after women who don't give a shit about you, will only result in further humiliation.

youtu.be/d5wPQ-ALD7E?t=79

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youtube.com/watch?v=OAYXlLCb1qo

im putting together a team, the best of the best

*9/10 TIMES, people get rejected because their not attractive enough

Unless you say something really fucking retarded, it makes no difference. She decided if she'll fuck you or not very soon after seeing your pics.

How do you even meet girls? Do you just talk to them before a lecture/class: "This prof is really boring, isn't he?"
I'm literally too scared to do that and it seems hella cringy to me.

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That's how it happens to me.
I'm tired of all the girls trying to get laid with me.

HELP A BETA BUX INCEL PROVIDER OUT

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ALSO WHAT DO I RESPOND

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This. I have Chad friends that tell me shit that you would think come out of r9k but they get it from their experiences of fucking women. The reason they get so much pus is because they know how women work and use it to their advantage and then treat them like shit.

>yea its called a blowjob [insert winking emoji]

That's a good lie, imma start using it.

I tell me friends some of the absurd shit I say to hoes on tinder and they're like "What? Really!?" I'm like it's tinder I'm just fucking around really.

pic related. on a side not this girl actually seemingly got offended because I was getting too sexual.He only picture is of her literally in her underwear and has the whole "No hookups" spiel in her bio

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Chads aren’t born. They are made. You do not understand your own potential. Your beliefs are holding you back. There is a way forward. Check out Jordan Peterson. FIT is useful too. Get inspired. It's your choice to change.

I think its pretty common to want something that that someone else has and you don't.

What do I say now

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Bullshit.
I was born with superior genetics that's why it's so easy for me to get girls.
I practically don't have to do anything. Life is so great

It's really just Jow Forums invaders.

The problem is that you don't necessarily learn to be that way from a conscious effort. You really have to spend time with people in person who already embody this mindset in order to emulate it. In other words, browsing this forum won't help you.

ask her for her snapchat

I think the lad was saying that he hits on these girls prior to finding out they're in relationships.

troll pictures from Jow Forums and shitty youtube videos do not prove a thing. The "chad" mentality is a coping mechanism.

REEEE

THE WHORE UNMATCHED FROM ME

>they know how women work and use it to their advantage and then treat them like shit.

Not OP, but if I learn how women operate, use it against them than tease them, treat them like shit (basically quoting you)

then

I (literally any guy in this thread) can get women, right ?

I'm saying using what you've stated.

Yeah... You can. I thought like that way back when i was ~14, a few years later i realized that i was the jackass and got my shit together.

At least you know it's a problem, which makes you better than 100% of incels.

My advice is to never hang out on places like Jow Forums again, and avoid talking to people with that mentality.

Find something else to hate.

Here is a tip: it's been scientifically proven that people with low IQs and high IQs are both prejudice. People with low IQ hate in different ways though. They tend to hate on traits and characteristics that people can't help, ie: gender/sexual orientation/race. People with high IQs are also hateful, but they hate on characteristics that people DO have control over, ie: weight/politics/religious beliefs/laziness etc.

Find something in the second category to hate.Maybe even a trait in yourself that you are trying to overcome. In other words, come hate on lazy fat people with us!

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This is great, never seen it before but i'm stealing it. Thanks dude!

This.

Only losers have the incel mentality.

But what am I going to respond back to her

REEEE

>How do you stop this toxic way of thinking ?

you ready? take a deep breath and realize that women are human-beings just like you and me; some good, some bad but pretty much all insecure and self-interested.

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>Once you start noticing these things you can never stop noticing them.
Google twitter psychosis. You're literally delusional.

I don't know what is going on here. Are these some 15 year olds talking to each other?

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How come only the few people who can't get laid experience this?

I'm not a "chad" but I can easely get a girl.

Also, girls are human just like you. They don't all prefer the instagram dudes like in that pic. My gf dosen't even really like muscles.

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Dude.

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What?

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>How come only the few people who can't get laid experience this?
Because it's a shoop.

It cames from island mentality. Is an issue created by geographical and or cultural thing where a specific population believe they are supperior somehow to the "others".

REEEEE

I’m the fucking user that’s been posting tinder messages. Im triggered. I know I’m good looking because I get 20-30 matches a day on tinder and I get hit on by girls at my uni pretty consistently (friends are a little jealous desu). But I’m still a fucking virgin.

People at my uni all think I get laid pretty often because of how many girls interested in me and I pretend this is what happens (I never go bragging around I get laid though) because I don’t want people to think I’m a virgin. I can’t fuck any of the girls at my school because it’ll be obvious I’m inexperienced, so I’ve tried online.

I get plenty of matches but I’m honestly too autistic. I’ll get their snaps and it’ll be good and they’ll send me nudes and stuff and then I’ll say something mega-autistic than I had before and then they’ll ghost me.

I can’t help being autistic. I’m a Cocky autist it’s who I am. But I really want to lose my virginity. How do I fix this?

Anons pls

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I just treat women like I do my friends sans calling them faggots or the like. They're a bag of meat just like the rest of us and that makes them no more important than any of my male friends. Doing that changed a lot of how I approach things and dating after that became a lot more relaxed because I wasn't trying to prioritize her in a weird way. Just talked like a normal person and was less awkward because there wasn't an overwhelming wheedling voice in the back of my head trying to push me into being impressive. Either the girls would like who I was and we'd keep talking or they would be disinterested and I'd politely cut my losses and just stop talking to them or just treat them as an acquaintance. You'll figure it out user.

girl here. this is good advice.

REEEE
What do I say bros

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Kek

>I want your pussy to want me like I'm Fancy Feast

IM TRYING TO GET LAID user

I THINK MY AUTISM ISNT WORKING

HOLY FUCK

THIS IS WORSE THAN GETTING NO FEMALE INTEREST

I AM THE MODERN TANTALUS

>"I am looking for an archaeologist"

Dude, just chill the fuck out......

If you're this autistic then you should practice on ugly chicks, then practice with the hot ones when you get better.

ok then tell her that you're in it for a long term relationship and if she wants to cuck you later down the line you're okay with that, because you want to stick it out for the kids

Just be honest, that you want to hook up and go out for a fun night. Dinner, hanging out and hooking up. Casual and if something else happens because you guys mesh well then cool.

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yeah, you ain't getting pussy bro

FUCK I DIDNT GIVE THE NORMIE RESPONSE

REEEEEEEEEEEEEE

BROS I JUST WANNA NOT BE AUTISTIC

CAN I STILL GET A LOBOTOMY IN 2018?

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I TOLD YOU IM AUTISTIC

STOP BULLYING

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ugly average girls try even harder to get chad

and tinder makes it possible

game over for average guys