What are some ways I can get more matches on tinder
What are some ways I can get more matches on tinder
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Don't be a chud and show off your genitals. If your genitals are underwhelming or you're a chud then you're shit out of luck.
1 Have few pictures, but make them all good.
2 Don't take long to ask for a date.
3 Put in the numbers.
Main pic should be an action shot of you doing something interesting.
Have a natural photo of you doing something else like socialising.
Summarise yourself in a couple of lines, don't mention your job as that should be visible.
Avoid having more than 2 group pics.
A pic of you with your dog (if applicable) will go down well too.
Also, don't wear fucking sunglasses for your main picture. Preferably, don't wear them for any of them.
how many pictures is too many pictures
is 4 pictures too many?
This user gets it
>is 4 pictures too many?
If any picture doesn't present you in a new situation you have too many.
You don't upload more than 1 selfie, you don't upload more than 1 group photo (which won't be your main pic), you don't upload more than 1 pic of you with your dog.
If you have an action shot, natural shot, a selfie, a group pic and you at a wedding, you don't have too many photos.
If you have 2 selfies and 2 pictures of you with your dog, you have too many photos.
Adding to this post, if you struggle to get a natural photo, prop the camera up and set it to take photos every 5 - 10 seconds and then stand around with a drink/cigarette (poor examples but you get the idea of a "natural" photo) or play with the dog for a minute, pick the best one from those.
Failing that go out with someone who you know can't stop taking photos, my friend's wife is a photographer and after an afternoon visiting them I have at least 5 photos tagged on social media.
Basically unless you have some faggot pet you're outta luck OP.
>thou shalt not
As an artsy edgy literature student type trying desperately to be mysterious, who doesn't even have any typical normie pics on principle, how can I present myself?
I have friends and a relatively normal life but showing it off makes me feel sick.
there was an autistically detailed post on /fa/ let me search the archives really quickly
Here it is:
First picture: Something that clearly shows your face
Second picture: You with friends, it's important for you to have friends
Third picture: Some hint at a hobby or travel
Fourth picture: A picture that hints you have a nice body (so that there's no doubt that you're too fat or too short) OR that you dress well but nothing gratuitous
Fifth picture (optional): something that shows you have a sense of humour
Like a bunch of pages on facebook so you have stuff in common with people and don't let tinder optimise for you
Just gonna treat this as the tinder advice thread. I cannot read any sort of mood over text. Should I ask for a number or straight ask to meetup? The conversation has been pretty uninteresting small talk up to this point.
She means she wants to be all three you idiot
See, I think that, but crippling self doubt combined with mixed messages from other girls in the past always makes me wary about over assuming
>Be girl
>Cute guy asks if I'm looking to be a smoke, cuddle, or fuck buddy
>FINALLY he's breaking into the playful tone
>Ok, I'll play it coy but still obvious that I want him
>I have to pick?
now your next step: don't ASK her when she's available, just make the plan and give it to her
Femanon here
Practice taking good photos of get some professionally done.
Wear a suit or fashionable outfit for one
Have an adorable puppy or kitten in one
Get a hot haircut or wear a nifty hat
Never have the first photo be a group shot
Have a fun photo like you’re in a costume or doing a sport or something wacky
>dur how me imprass wymen
blows my mind you idiots fixate over this every waking hour of your life
If I'm 27 and balding am I basically fucked?
Here's my Tinder pictures. Any advice? Honestly I get next to no matches. And the few that I do get are on the girls I was only so-so about anyway, or stupidly swiped on when buzzed one night. I'm not even going for super hot girls. I have a thing for slightly tom boyish and cute, basically just set my standards at roughly what my ex was.
Its making me feel like maybe I'm just fucking ugly
I think you'll get better luck in real life, Tinder is a cesspit of female hypergamy
Looks fine to me but i'm not a woman, so don't know how you'd rate out of 10, would guess in the range of 4-6. Maybe remove the last one though?
>4-6
Welp that makes my day. Not that I ever thought I was hot or anything.
And yeah I was iffy on the last pic but part of me just said fuck it, its funny and I can't just pretend to be someone else entirely.
Tinder's got me feeling like my ex was some sorta fluke or some shit. She was fucking super cute. Met in uni, dated for 4 years. Now I can't seem to get a girl nearly as attractive as her to look my way twice. Makes me afraid I'm gonna have to die alone or settle knowing I've already been with the hottest girl I'll ever be with and its all down hill from here.
if you decide that's all there is to you yes
it's very telling that the only aspect of yourself that you described is that you are balding
protip: tons of dudes start balding in their twenties and still slay pussy
Again, don't take my word for it, I don't know what girls find attractive. But it isn't like you are hideously deformed or something without knowing it.
Also in case you haven't seen picrelated before.