How socially acceptable it is for a female to pursue a male?

is this statement true?

I love it when a girl comes onto me. It makes things esier.

Who fucking cares? My sister-in-law proposed.
Get over yourselves. Being female just means you have an extra hole and can't pee standing up, stop acting like it's some sort of alien status.

Its perfectly fine.
It just occurred to me that life as a woman on Jow Forums must be completely baffling. You got one half telling you that you're a slut for being a sexual creature and not saving yourself for that "special" someone and the other telling you to get over yourself if you at all think your sexuality is special. The contradictory messages around here and mind numbing. I don't know if you've been paying attention but a TON of dudes in this place genuinely view and treat women like an alien species. Its not beyond the realm of possibility that they occasionally feel like it.

it had only happened to me once that a girl directly approached me. but she was getting directly touchy-touchy, which completly turned me off, otherwise I wouldn't have had any problem with it
just know how you do it and you will be fine. no one will see you as a slut or anything like that

appeal to nature. get your fallacies straight

>How socially acceptable it is for a female to pursue a male?
Completely
It always was, but in years past women had to disguise what they were doing. Sure they didn't ask a guy to the Spring Formal, but they did walk up to a guy and ask him if he had a date yet while making steady eye contact and showing off their cleavage.
Now a days they can just ask.

who cares?
stupid sheep

I still don't understand how women think this is socially looked down upon these days

same reason why there are guys who think that women only want bad-boy chads

loads of stupid people in the world

It's fine just don't be weird about it.

I'm not completely ugly and not totally retarded, so some girls have asked me out and bought me drinks and asked me to dance and whatever.

but uh one time when I was like 16 in high school this one girl had her friend send me a handwritten written note where she confessed to me and I had no idea who she was but she was in love with me apparently and I just ignored her cause she came on WAY too strong, she then found my e-mail and started e-mailing too until eventually I told her to just leave me alone

If the female is mentality competent she would do the numbers game and realise the turnout before suffering embarrasment.

It's not thats unnaceptable, it's just that the women who usually do it are low tier and have to go for it.

If your numbers are similar, then it has to be a matter of the guy being shy, then it's perfectly normal.
Also you can pursue a male without outright inviting them, just talk to me on a regular basis and eventually they will ask you out.

>I still don't understand how women think this is socially looked down upon these days
Seriously? On a board full of dudes who call women sluts for every reason under the sun you can't understand how some women would possibly be hesitant in pursuing relationships? You don't understand how some women would be scared of being perceived as whores?

It's almost like sex and dating are two entirely different things. When women pursue men, it's almost always by a whore who will be after sex in some form, but the simple act of making the first move is not what labels them a whore.
I'm not him, but I do understand exactly why (many) women think this--it's because they ARE deluded whores who misdirect the markers of being that to some bullshit social cue.

>relationships where the girl chases after the guy are the happiest

What makes you say that?

OP here
I'm not very attractive but get approached by guys from time to time, only they usually aren't my type because they don't share my interests or are into casual dating. The guy I want to pursue has from what I gather 100% same views on stuff like marriage, sex or having children as me and we share some hobbies,

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You sure have a lot of insight about relationships for someone that has never been in one.

Then just make sure that you clarify your views early on, and suggest a neutral meeting place. Barring exceptional information (and more information on what he's like would help in crafting an approach), he should be willing to at least humor you long enough to set him at ease if you don't look like a lunatic during the approach.

These aren't difficult things to assess from statistics. Where are women very forward in the West? The places where they are most sexually "liberated" (read: whorish).
If I started explaining how to detect a gleam of approval in a girl's eye, then you could call me out for bullshit, because that's not something readily available, but the subjects I go on about lend themselves almost exclusively to statistics, and personal "experience" in this case is no better than anecdotal evidence, which isn't actually evidence.

Jow Forums is supposed to be more down to earth thing, you should post this in the women hate thread on Jow Forums or Jow Forums

where is the evidence for this

god i hate this board. everyone always asks the same quetions over and over and no one ever solves anything.

Checked.
I don't hate women, I hate whores, and nothing I said remotely implied otherwise. Secondly, Jow Forums is a board for advice, which I presume is best given with accurate information--and repeating platitudes based on nothing but feelings is not a good example of this.

its pretty normal especially in this social climate its preffered

You're not giving advice, you're spreading hatred of women and everyone who is not a bitter incel like you. Your posts belong on Jow Forums or Jow Forums.

what did he mean by this

>I don't hate women
>You're spreading hatred of women
If you weren't caught up in your low-IQ leftist hysterics, you'd notice that I don't shy away from criticizing manwhores as well. I don't hate a woman for being a woman, I hate a woman if she's a whore. Similarly, I'd imagine you don't hate men, but you might hate men who have views like mine.

>You're not giving advice
>Be one of the only posters to provide sources for everything he says
How do dipshits like you function in life? You just repeat the same baseless, vacuous statements ad nauseam and somehow think it makes a difference.

Satan, you always lie. It doesn't matter if the thread is about asking advice for gardening tomatoes, you will invade the thread and shit on it with your rabid insults and telling everyone how much you hate them and wish they would die. Because only whores grow tomatoes in their garden.

This is true. Make her feel like its all her idea

>You just repeat the same baseless, vacuous statements ad nauseam and somehow think it makes a difference.
Think about what you wrote there for a minute. Does it sound like some autistic tripfag? Hmmmm.

Anons, don't derail this thread

Oh, the pathological lyingposter.
Hi.
Providing sources and putting them in context is hardly "baseless". Baseless is saying something either unsupported or unverifiable, or both, like saying "you hate women". If you said "you hate some women", then you would be correct, just as I hate some men.
It's always the same brigade of degenerates, pay them no mind.

just go away

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Make me

Jow Forums is inherently garbage, never delude yourself about this

Too late, he derails every thread he posts on. Let's just hope he gets banned again, he usually does because sooner or later he posts Jow Forums shit that will do it.

I'm the OP and I really don't want this thread to keep gettinng derailed. I asked a simple question and I want anons to share their opinions, no need to get into whores and Jow Forums stuff

>he derails every thread he posts on
Let's see my first post I was talking specifically about the social perceptions of women approaching. Then an user decided to attack me (as usual), to which I responded with And I even replied directly to OP's post in this one. I'm not the one who derails these threads, it's always the assblasted degenerated who come out of the woodwork.

See above. Out of consideration for you, I'll stop regardless, though. Good luck.

Dude seriously get a life, this is the worst board on Jow Forums and you are the most hated poster.
Lol no you asked a stupid question without an answer and we gave you some solid advice anyway, enjoy your derailed thread roastie

>When women pursue men, it's almost always by a whore who will be after sex in some form
[citation needed]
>I do understand exactly why (many) women think this
What are your qualifications
>it's because they ARE deluded whores who misdirect the markers of being that to some bullshit social cue.
[citation needed]

See above. My previous posts also explain it.

After thinking about it quite a bit, I couldn't think of anyone I know who'd say the think it's unacceptable or wouldn't like it.
HOWEVER, in almost every case I've seen where a girl has pursued a guy, it's ended poorly. Typically they've either approached in an awkward/ creepy way (think: crying about how much they love their male friend while dead drunk on prom night) or they've been completely unprepared for rejection and acted like every cringey niceguy post but worse. So if you plan on doing it, be more concerned about what you do than what people think of it.

It's socially acceptable and men are so afraid of the consequences of rejection that they'd be happier if women approached them.

Yeah just try not to be retarded, come right out and say it and have some kind of immediate offer ("lets fuck" is pretty solid but asking them on a date also works), don't just make them instantly take on the whole responsibility of loving you and being loved.

I've had a girl who asked me out to the movies once.
This was before I was formally diagnosed with autism.
During the entire thing I never engaged her in conversation.
Nor did I even make eye contact.
She grabbed my thigh several times during the movie, and shook in that little gesture to get my attention.
Nothing sexual, but you could tell she wanted me to like her.
We went to a sushi place afterwards.
I talked a bit, and she seemed sad.
It was only about a month later that I realized how I'd hurt her.
Women don't take rejection well.
Not that women don't approach men, but it's definitely a rarity.

Basically every serious relationship in my life has been because a woman seriously pursued me, not the other way around