I'm a 30-year-old woman who's never orgasmed from sex. I've been with several guys throughout my life, some I really loved, some were just FWBs or one-night-stands. I've been fingered, eaten out. I've had small dicks, a couple of big dicks, and inbetween. I've tried a lot of things. I've been with one girl too.
Why the fuck can no one make me orgasm?
Can you make yourself orgasm?
Yes but sometimes it's too much work so I just go to sleep. My sex drive is pretty high.
What does it take? Is it something you can't instruct or teach to whoever your partner may be?
because you lay there like a fish and expect others to do the work for you
Maybe you're one of many women who only can have orgasm from clit stimulation
I had the same problem. Have you been tied up? Gangbanged? Rough fucked? Honestly that helped me
you fuck with retards, ill make you cum
I don't think they're doing anything wrong.
Kind of, but that's usually because I'm pinned down and/or tied up.
Yes, it's the only way I can enjoy it at all.
Doesn't seem to really help. Getting oral especially does absolutely nothing for me.
im sure being gangbanged reaally helped you
fuckin degenerates
Can you tell us exactly how you would make yourself cum?
It's really weird I think. I massage my lips together to stimulate my clit. Usually takes about 20-30 mins to get to orgasm.
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Post on a /soc/ hookup thread and I'll find you.
See a gynecologist
Normie problems...
Have you met a man that you find REALLY hot?
Have you tried new poses other than cowgirl/doggy/mission?
Have you tried stimulating your clit while being penetrated?
Have you tried buying a vibrating dildo and watching diverse types of porn?
A lot of guys say they can... but they never deliver.
I'm not saying I can. I'm saying I can try. Worst case you'll still get sex. Not a bad deal, no?
not at all.
Have you tried telling a partner this? Aside from that, start exploring other ways to masturbate. You probably conditioned yourself to cum more easily from that one.Regardless of how you manage to orgasm during sex eventually though, it's likely going to require stimulating your clit in some way or another.
I've told them I can't seem to orgasm from someone else. I don't know what to do about it though. Dildoes never do it for me either.
I had sex with a woman Ive made orgasm 9 times in 2 hours.
Everyones different.
God decided to give you the proverbial short end of the orgasm.
Pretty much confirm it by saying you fall asleep from getting tired when you masturbate
No. Tell a partner directly how you masturbate. Not that you can't orgasm from someone else. Show them, physically, how you masturbate. And have them do it to you.
Because the kind of stimulation you're receiving otherwise isn't going to mimic what you've conditioned yourself to get off to. Beyond that, work on being able to get off other ways yourself. Less pressure, different rhythm, or other things. Vary it up over time until it's easier to cum other ways.
>Dildoes never do it for me either.
That's pretty normal. Vaginas are the male equivalent to balls, there are nerve endings there, but much less so compared to the clit, which is the male equivalent to the penis. Many women can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation, and those that can typically have their clit slightly closer to the entrance of their vagina.
Okay then. Are you in Europe?
No, USA
Oh well, too far then. Good luck on your search, hopefully you will eventually find a guy who maybe unlocks some fetish in you and can make you orgasm.
where are you?
Somewhere in the center. Though if you are in the east coast it's not impossible as I sometimes travel there.
I was gonna say I do have a thing for certain authentic accents.
have you tried a fucking vibrator? just a completely random thought I felt like throwing out there
Ah, well yes I do have an accent. It would be challenging for me to make you orgasm over the internet with just my voice though. But then again nothing's impossible.
Weird question, would you consider your clitoris small/only just protruding? I've got a theory that girls with really small clits have a harder time getting off then those with larger ones.
Anyway, they say those Hitachi magic wands pretty much force you to have an orgasm, even in people who've never had one before (they use them in sex therapy sometimes) so maybe check those out.
Have you tried having sex with guys 10-20 years older than you? They are pros.
Holy fuck. Its so fucking true.
holy shit buy a vibrator
What accent?
I don't know. It's not very big I suppose.
I've tried different kinds of vibrators. I don't know what my problem is.
Finnish. Although it's a bit of a mix, I don't sound as bad as our F1 drivers.
You need right tools for good results. Simple as that. Penis is very poor tool to make girl cum. Mouth is a bit better, but still very lacking the precision and endurance.
( sigh) ok OP, stop by my place at 9 we'll get this worked out. The sacrifices I have to make for this place sometimes..........
I love that accent.
Ok... I'm bringing my handcuffs.
Darlen, i'll make you orgasm just by talking to me, no cuffs needed.
Pfft, please. That pathetic thing?
I've got a modified 3000W 95lb jackhammer with a 12lb 40" silverback gorilla dildo strapped to the fucker.
This thing could bring your whale of a mother to a fucking climax in 3 seconds flat.
Get on my level.
Darling = Darlin' moron
@OP
Please go check big clit porn and report findings.
Do it then.
Oh, that's nice then. At the risk of sounding silly (okay it is totally silly) have you ever tried or been curious about being hypnotized? I have done it before to people irl and online. Not saying it will make you orgasm, but it could help you easen up a bit and maybe even help it get easier.
>ITT thirsty men take the bait.
Hick shaming me has no effect on me bud, I am comfortable with who I am
oh if we only had the time, sadly I have a job interview. But believe me it will sadly be your loss. Everyone before me was a mistake and everyone after would just be a downgrade
len sounds more phonetically correct than french inspired lin'
As am I dude.
>ons
tick tock roastie
I don't want kids.
well good luck.
Never thought about it. Never considered hypno legit.
There is a lot of garbage out there of it, but it is legit. It's just you being very concentrated, kinda like guided meditation. It's not like you lose control or do things you wouldn't normally do.
To be honest, I want to hear Finnish guy.
How many people have you been with?
How many times have you been gang banged
Do you have a small clit? Just something to think about. Also, start focusing on pleasure instead of, "Oh, I can't orgasm." If you're comfortable enough to use vibrators in front of your partner and so on, you'll at least be able to cum with your partner in the room.
Hear as in... You want to hear my accent?
7.
never.
It might be small.
Actually, now that you mention it, I wouldn't be comfortable at all making myself orgasm in front of anyone. I'm not usually shy sexually but thinking about that makes me feel really embarrassed and weird.
If you're ever in fl I'd bang you
Yes.
If you are here a bit later then okay. I'll be home in maybe 30-60 minutes.
Worthless slut.
Bases on what you said it could at least be partially a psychological block. You're afraid of reaching orgasm. Especially in front of someone, because you're afraid of the loss of control.
I'm going to work now. Will be home in 12hrs. ha.
Any idea on how to get over it?
Aw, too bad. How will I find you again? Can you check this thread at work? Because in 12 hours I will be sleeping... Er wait. I will just have woken up. So maybe with some luck this thread is still up. Guess I can post a vocaroo anyway if you want, in the worst case it's an archived thread.
my throwaway is mont4gne at gmail.
I did get the job thank you , back to you hope you got something that will work from here
Okay then, I sent you a little recording. Hope you like my accent.