How did I fuck this up?

Currently in one myself, just drop the standards and move on to the next. You aren't going to find love on tinder

Girls need attention like plants need light and water.

>be white American
>be so ugly and beta that you can't date the local white american girls
>have to settle down with foreign Asian girls instead
Good luck raising another Elliot Rodger you degenerate ass goyboy cuck.

>continuing to talk to a woman who said she was "wary of your name"
>continuing to talk to a woman who isn't enthusiastic about hanging out with you

pathetic desu OP

don't invite them to your house until you've already laid the groundwork for intimacy

when she said she'd be back sunday, i would have told her that i was going for coffee at cafe creatine on monday or wednesday and that she should come

they usually respond with their day of choice, and then you just tell them to meet you there at 7pm or whatever and end the convo

once you've had the first outing, you can quickly gauge how many dates it'll take to get them back to your place

also, just like in dancing, the man leads, so lead more than follow in your interactions with women

Looks like plans fell through. Nothing unusual. Just rinse and repeat with someone else. Here's a few things I've noticed help me marginally:

>get her number as soon as you can, within 10 or so messages
>settle on a definite place and time both of you agree on going to. The whole 'I'm just hanging out here if you want to come' is noncommital and safe, but a gamble

Don't take it personally; flaking is just part of online dating.

>Trying this hard to sound cool

lmao she can probably smell the desperados

>cool, just lmk
>He Phoebe
>k, lmk
>Let's hang
>alright, lmk
>Phoebe?
>Phoebeeeeee?????????
>please respond

Hahaha this.

Bro you need to just finesse the number before all this. Honestly, extended messaging on tinder is cringe.

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Jow Forums wtf
I was in a Tinder thread the other dat and you boyos reviewed my profile and told me ways of fixing it. I used to get 1 match a day and now its down to 0 :(

>How did i fuck this up?
>lmk

if you have to push her to hang with you, walk away

Stop looking like such a desperate faggot. I've got ZERO experience with women but even I can tell you that you come off as a needy faggot and she's got MILLIONS of potential men, she ain't gonna choose a faggot.

hah

Lol listens to fit.

Bro you come off as needy, you have to make it as if it doesn't matter if shes into you or not

1. Tinder girls are the flakiest ever, you should expect them to cancel on you
2. You should have set firm plans as opposed to this super vague meet up

>I've got ZERO experience with women

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Gonna keep it for a week and see where it goes. After that just gonna delete it since the matches with my old bio didn't turn into smashes anyway. At this point its a waste of time

You should have suggested something to actually ducking fo.

>wassup

lol

see Problem is this: Everything about Tinder is fake bs. People will act cold and distant because everybody sees so many potential partners and nobody wants to get hurt or settle too much downwards. It is the same if you study engineering, 1 girl to 9 guys, but at the end she decides she is too good for any of them and stays single.

If you talk to a none-city none-tinder girl like that, you will score huge. If you fallow fit advice, every none-tinder girl will assume you don't like her.

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I don't know why you care so much about some tinder girl you exchanged

On my first date with my current gf she tried to ignore me when we were meant to meet up as well.

So I got really pissed off as I was drinking and since I just watched Cobra Kai I was like "be aggressive" and got a taxi to her house and brought her out. The night ended with her all over me and we're still going strong.

But yeah, this stuff happens and you just need to get used to it dude

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Got em

>3 weeks relationship
>going strong
bruh..

Well, like we have plans for holidays and shit over the next 2 months familia

But yeah still early days lol

>lets exchange feels
instead of
>lets exchange bodily fluids

Realize that girls are there to just take the dick from top 5% of guys and not looking for some symphatetic guys to add to their orbiters. This is where they can get their alpha chad dick on regular basis without anyone knowing that they are total thots behind the good girl act they have to keep up in public.

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even if you're desperate dont show it. you're just feeding her ego

fuck tinder. i start off a conversation well. then i sperg out and insult her in some way, or be too direct. and then i realize i fucked up.
this shit is impossible

it's a numbers game Liam
keep messing up until it works and you understand it

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>needy
>appears like he has nothing else to do
>doesn't make concrete plans on his own

Totally this! And OP didn't even try to flirt a bit. Girls like the text shit because they are board, you have to get them interested a little or your dead In the water

Found the incel

this girl on tinder said we should hangout. should i just message her the day before if shes free to hangout?
i just moved here so i don't many spots to take her.

you're lucky you didnt end up in jail for showing up at her house and acting like a creepy stalker.

and yeah that shit does happen since most girls are scared of shadows these days. Be more careful user

I dunno what's worse, you being so needy or her just saying "yeah ok let's do that" and not responding or doing anything after.

I'm not getting how OP was needy

kept putting the ball on her court. should have said come over at X time or im done with u

Thoughts after part 1:
You're way too proper. Being direct is good. Being all formal and proper is boring. Women don't like that. They want to get the feeling from your texts that you are laid back.

This is true in syntax (word choice) and in style.

Women hate proper capitalization. Turn off auto-capitalize. You can also turn off word complete and forget about apostrophes ever again. This will give you the vibe of not being so serious but still being into her. Which she will like.

Word choice. "Feels"? Just stories would've been fine. Experiences would've been better. Women love experiences and treat life like it's about the experience. Erase "well" and "actually" out of your vocabulary. Never use them again. Don't say "spooky", it's juvenile.

The actual content was fine. I can tell there won't be humor in future convos.

Don't say "fine." Women hate that. Use a word that shows you are excited to see her. Hip lingo would be good here. Or just use a standard word like "fantastic."

Never say you "are free" or don't have plans. Even if you don't, women want a guy who has plans. So figure out something to do, it does NOT have to be grandiose.

Stop saying "cool" so much. It's fine to say but just say it once and not perpetually throughout the conversation.

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Overall, I don't think any of what I mentioned above killed it for you. I think she wasn't that interested from the start. There was no humor, as I predicted. So she never got interested. Girls don't care about bands, they care about famous people in bands.

>formal and proper is boring
At last I truly see. If you look too serious or as more intelligent/educated than she is, she won't want anything to do with you. Absolutely wondrous. It all makes sense now user. That's the missing piece.

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That’s a lot of Taco Bell!

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She's just buttering you up so after you get married she's going to do what all latina women do... get fat.

This thread hurts my soul.

Your man card is officially revoked
don't show up to the next meeting

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> i just moved here so i dont know many spots to take her
Dude literally say, "wanna show me around? im pretty new to the area", something along those lines and im sure she'd be more than willing to help you around/go on this date

i ask them out and if they hesitate i just don't reply or wait for them to set up the date. ball is in their court i'm not going to humiliate myself trying to set up a date more than once. if they're actually interested they'll let you know.

You did pretty decently actually. Not great but decent. But these girls on tinder don't give a shit and just ghost you when they feel it's convenient for whatever reason

Cringe.

I just burst out laughing at that last message.
>wassup Phoebe?
Bahahahahahaha

I don't get it.

>Women hate proper capitalization.
This is one of the dumbest advices I've ever seen on here.

>let's exchange stories and feels some time
>feels
What are you doing son?