How to choose a good woman

I grew up without my father. My mother was basically a whore. Grew up without a hometown to call me own because I moved around a lot, therefore also have no long lasting friendships. Grew up morbidly obese and the constant new kid. Never had much female attention other than pity.

But things are much different now. Listening to hours of Jordan Peterson I’ve sorted myself out. Lost over 150 pounds. Cleared up all my acne. Have a decent job and about to get a promotion soon.

But there’s one serious problem now, I’m getting a lot of female attention and I don’t know how to handle it. I want a wife and kids and a big family. It’s the one thing I’ve always wanted and never had but I don’t know how to determine who is a good fit for me or what qualities I should look for since I was never really taught these things.

27/M if it matters

And advice would be much appreciated.

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I'm sure your internet daddy has the answers.

> I don’t know how to handle it

you won't unless you try, fail, and learn how

>I want a wife and kids and a big family

Saddest thing I've read today user. Why would you want to shackle yourself to such a burden when there are so many ways for single men to make themselves happy? Open your mind bruh, there more to life than toiling to make some woman happy.

I think you need to look inside yourself. Sit yourself down and have a think about what qualities in a girl matter to you the most. Do you want her to be traditional? A good cook and carer for children? Or do you want her to be career driven, someone who would postpone having children for maybe getting a new promotion?

It’s all about you and what you qualities you hold dear. Imagine if you woke up next to the perfect woman tomorrow morning. What would she be like?

user, whatever you do, promise me you will not date a former slut.

The reality is that this question does not have a single answer. You need a woman that fits your needs. Let me give an example that illuminates why: I think most men would agree that a woman who cooks is great but is cooking a fundamental skill? Imagine that you are an entrepreneur or just a businessman in general who is constantly travelling or at the office never goes home because you are taking care of your business. What would you even a need a woman who cooked for? You wouldn't. In this case, a better fit would be perhaps a businesswoman who would understand why you are never home and may even increase your own net worth with her investments.

I hope that with that you understand that woman are like Pokemon. What you need is to make a list of things that you want in life, and have a sense of the general direction you are going. After that, you simply need to get a woman that complements you in some meaningful.

I have the time so I will also tell you what I look for in a woman, and why it helps me. I am a mathematician (Ph.D.) so I am great at math and have a comfy job at a big university, but that's about it. I suck at doing literally anything else. So I need a woman who can handle cooking, cleaning, and any other basic housekeeping skill so that I won't have to. After that, I want sex out of a girl so I need either a girl with a sex drive to match my own or a girl that is willing to satisfy me whenever I feel like (blowjob is fine). Beyond that, in terms of personality, I want a woman who is as much as me as possible. This is because I am great at dealing with people who are like me, and I feel it tedious to deal with basically anyone else. If I could clone myself and attach a pussy to it I'd do it but I can't so I have to look for it.

Those are my priorities. By now you probably realized they are nothing at all like your priorities. So you need to look inside and see what YOU need out of a woman.

If you’re looking for a wife type, be on the lookout for the following traits

>High empathy (sign of high estrogen)
>High IQ (less likely to cheat)
>High consciousnesses
>Introversion (less likely to cheat)
>Good relationship with her family
>Father isn’t a domineering turd or a pushover cuck
>She or her Mother brings you water when you ask at her house at first (you quickly learn the established gender roles and hierarchy in her family)
>Physically attractive (less sexually promiscuous on average)
>Few or ideally no previous sexual partners (drastically higher odds of successful marriage l)
>College educated but too much (chicks with no diploma are sluttier, women with too much education are unbearable cunts)
>Averse to conflict
>Fond of children
>Has never travelled alone or with “girlfriends”
>Few if any male friends at all
>Doesn’t associate with slutty girls
>Feminine digit ratio
>Wide hips
>High pitched voice
>Large eyes
>Likes or loves housework
>Works hard
>Has never used illegal drugs or if so, was one of those “eh, not for me” after trying only pot types
>Goes our of her way to do you kind favors when she has no incentive to do so
>Enjoys traditions
>Generous
>Self-disciplined, good at fighting impulses
>Clingy (it signifies honesty, she’s just being upfront about who she wants)
>Positive attitude
>Good tempered
>Submissive to your thoughts
>Nurturing even to animals
>Likes you to decide things for her
>Does allotted tasks for you without being asked because she’s anxious about disappointing or angering you
>Aims for cute, practical, or fashionable in her dress rather than sexy

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you seem like you have some power control issues

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>disrespecting your own mother
Disgusting. You're never going to make it, all good women can discern incels who don't care about their mothers blindfolded.