I'm too shy and shit to make a tinder. I'm a virgin, 19 years old. I get told I'm handsome, but I don't feel like I am, so I'd say I'm above average.
I'm usually a sperg, but when I want to achieve something socially I can get so determined and focused on what I'm doing saying etc that it's almost as if I'm not a sperg.
One more thing, why do I attract usually younger bitches, like 15-16? I can even tell by the way they look at me, but it's always young girls.
Thanks mates
bump
make a good profile. since you're a sperg this will probably be very difficult, but you can copy the profiles of people who seem successful (even taking tips from women's profiles)
You say you are a sperg so it is probably your personality rather than your looks.
Any tips? I might make a thread which where I might post some pics so you guys can help me. The problem is my lack of nice photos and honestly no friends to take them.
My sperginess has come to a major halt after I actually gained some self confidence from talking to people and having two meme-gfs.
At my lowest weight ten kg's ago I'd get mired all the time by my face, since I wore huge oversized hoodies that hid my body.
Depression as well is a part of it I guess
tips?
in all pictures
>fitting clothes
>normal colors (depends on your culture and pigmentation)
>groomed
>best barber in your region (still shouldn't cost more than $20)
>not at all depressed (people can see this)
>making an expression you would at a human (rather than at a camera)
>no signs of low income
thinking of some more tips...
>region
sorry, *area
there are lots of tricks. for one, black and white photos are easier to take and are more likely to get noticed. you also can colorize a black and white photo (pic related)
okay found some real life examples of what I think is good photography
I'm not sure about the psychology of this one but you can't deny he's looking fresh
Thanks very much.
Fuck it, pic rel is me. I am slightly fatter now, and my haircut is different, but I'll go back to having a hitler-style haircut.
I'm wondering what I could and should change with my look and what could be done better.
fitting clothes would be a problem, I'm overweight by I guess 20kg
here's a guy doing something shocking. imo it's a little too shocking, and he looks scared, but you get the idea.
Yeah he looks really good here. I wonder if a shitty samsung phone would be able to make such photos, though. I hope to get a better phone with a solid camera soon
successful virtue signaling
note he was n OKC, a platform that really only caters to liberals
approachable, more so when the image was displayed as a square
I can't comment on your appearance because most of your body is obscured. you're not ugly or fat though, so cheer up!
fun guy, likes peace
Try posting with a dog or cat. Bitches love dudes and animals.
Also bump for being in the situation. I remember gettin mired by 15 year old girls and sometimes like 12year old girls, which weirded the shit out of me.
I know that feeling.
When I made a tinder profile it just had a single picture of my face with a blank expression.
At some point I even put "I like choking" in the bio.
If anything, it was a learning experience as to just how creepy I can be when I don't filter myself.
but his legs are too hairy!
maybe try a more muted color? im no fashion expert
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approachable
Thanks very much
I mean, 15 is legal here, but I'm leaving the country in about a months time. That's why I need help with tinder, I want to lose my virginity with someone I actually understand their words.
I thought of posing with my dog. I'll think it through.
Thanks
Yea, I still don't know about the bio. Pic rel is great imo, and I know German so all'd be good.
People worry about hairy legs? We're mem for fucks sake.
What do you mean by muted colour?
Would that photo be ok for tinder?
reasonable hobby. healthy, fun and easy for people to join
>would that photo be good for tinder?
there's no point in marketing yourself if you aren't going to take the most ideal pictures possible. that's why im posting examples of good ones.
also, no, it wouldn't.
hip
cool
wife. virgin archetype
Right, thanks.
I think you can stop with the photos, though. I understand what you mean.
Thanks again.
The problem is shyness as well. I don't even know why, but I'm kind of shy to make a tinder.
It makes sense to be shy, or to altogether dislike the idea of marketing oneself. There are plenty of shy people who push through it, but there are shy people who would rather date people they meet in real life.
So, really, it's up to you.
Social anxiety is kind of a catch 22 because you're anxious about being lonely but anxious because you're lonely. If a nibba shining on the inside, he shine on the outside.