why is it so hard to get fucking replies on tinder?
i have no problem getting matches but this is BULLSHIT
why is it so hard to get fucking replies on tinder?
i have no problem getting matches but this is BULLSHIT
1. Be good looking.
2. Be good looking.
3. Be good looking.
4. Some bullshit about having an interesting profile, a picture of you smiling and well dressed, a picture of you with some friends, a pic of you in the outdoors, and a pic of you on a boat.
5. Be good looking.
i fucking am good looking
these whores hardly reply, it's fucking bullshit
i'm not chad thundercock but i'm a genuinely handsome guy. i've had lots of girls in the past say it but this app is still HORSESHIT
What's your opening message?
Whatever it is, however clever you think it is, it is clearly not working.
Change it
what's a good message then
Literally have to be flawless or its hell. I get a lot of attention in real life, but on Tinder its a shit show. Get likes, usually a good amount and it always dies at that.
Also Tinder is pay to win, if your a payong customer your results will improve dramatically and there have been repeated cases of people trying to chat that have known each other already and messages were never delivered if they had not paid. Everythings being manipulated to pry money out of you.
> Literally have to be flawless or its hell.
Fucking bullshit, I'm a 6/10 at most and my profile consists of a few selfies and one badly taken picture in full sunlight with some friends. I'm getting roughly 8 matches a week and usually 1 of them turns into a date
> Also Tinder is pay to win
It's not, Tinder Gold is not gonna increase your chances significantly except that you'll run out of swipe options close to you much sooner. But I do believe Tinder is always trying to get guys to subscribe to gold. It's a company after all.
>I'm getting roughly 8 matches a week and usually 1 of them turns into a date
Are you dating fatties?
I swipe left on girls that I think MIGHT even be fat, so no.
You're either dating uggos or you are Adonis yourself.
If I were Adonis myself I sure as hell would pull way more matches than 8 a week don't you think? It's all about being in a positive and dgaf mindset when you start talking to them and don't overthink it. It's better to be controversial than being too standard. If she doesn't like what you say or appreciate your humor it's not gonna work out irl as well. And definitely call her out if she says something stupid or something you don't agree with.
Something different than you’re using duh. I’m not even trolling. This is the ultimate lesson of Tinder: If it’s not working, try something else. Anything else.
It’s like that movie Groundhog Day. Each new match is a chance to try something a little different and see how the reaction changes. You’ll still get a lot of no-responses but you still have to try.
This. I weigh 350lbs and stand 5’8”, and I get matches and dates all the time with normal girls. It just happens that I’m an attorney, and I exploit the shit out of that. You need to find your own draw.
Thanks bro. From what I have experienced guys who are not having any success at all at Tinder are usually taking Tinder (or themselves) way too seriously and/or place women on a pedestal. Just have a bit of fun, try some stuff out, who cares what she thinks.
Strongly recommend reading Models by Mark Manson if you still try to rely on crappy PUA tactics. Find your own game. And in recent weeks I discovered this works for Tinder too.
>This. I weigh 350lbs and stand 5’8”, and I get matches and dates all the time with normal girls. It just happens that I’m an attorney, and I exploit the shit out of that. You need to find your own draw.
>Thanks bro. From what I have experienced guys who are not having any success at all at Tinder are usually taking Tinder (or themselves) way too seriously and/or place women on a pedestal. Just have a bit of fun, try some stuff out, who cares what she thinks.
you guys sound like shills
Says the Jow Forums incel cultist shill.
Honestly sometimes, Tinder’s just retarded. Had my profile up, for like 15 matches in my first week, 8 or 10 or so the 2nd. Remade my profile, a single match. I’m in NYC too. Maybe the fact that I’m average-to-slightly-above-average hurts a bit, but by no means am I unattractive.
*got like, not for like
Also I meant “hurts a bit”, in terms of the fact that most of the guys in NYC look like and are built like Calvin Klein models.
I do the same girls. I do it for you bros.
I do it all the time.
I wouldn't reply to those either
Just trying to make you guys feel better.