Seeing a guy who's in a relationship

Oh in this case he obviously wants you to meet his friends and family because he will soon break up or divorce his missus and marry you

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Alright that's reasonable. My next guess is that when he's not fucking you, he's giving the okay for his friend to fuck you when he's not around.

You need to dump him and vanish. Men get run into the ground for being cheaters all the time, and it's about time the roasties who participate get run down with them. Both of you suck, so get your head on straight and stop and be a normal person.

How do you not feel guilty?

I slept with a guy and afterwards he revealed to me he had a gf and it made me feel like a piece of shit even though I didn't know

I do feel guilty

If you're OP then you have to reply to some of the comments we are leaving here because it may sound harsh but it's sound advice. Otherwise it just looks like you're ignoring us and just bailing on the thread.

Sound advice? Which one? All I got from you was judgmental comments.

>be a whore who sleeps with a taken man
>waaah, people judge me!
What did you expect, a round of applause?

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And the sound advice the other user mentioned would be ditching him. Why are you with him if you know that it's wrong and feel guilty about it? Do you think he will choose you over his gf/wife eventually?

This is the advice section, yes? It should be helpful

What you've done is shitty but also understand that dudes here use stories like these as surrogates for all the shitty experiences they've had for women. You're just a stand in for the woman they wish they could scream at. You need therapy. You're attracted to dysfunction and are seemingly so adverse to admitting it that the fact that people are judging you for it is more offensive to you than the fact that you are actively choosing to do something so degrading and deceptive. I think you need to stop coming up with reasons why this arrangement is okay and focusing on inconsequential details and start facing the reason why you've allowed yourself to participate in something so obviously damaging and wrong.

Advice I think is good (I'm qouting mine too because I'm egotistical)
>It doesn't matter what his intentions are. He doesn't give a shit about you.
>My next guess is that when he's not fucking you, he's giving the okay for his friend to fuck you when he's not around.
You need to dump him and vanish. Men get run into the ground for being cheaters all the time... Both of you suck, so get your head on straight and stop and be a normal person.

I don't how you expected us to not be judgmental. If your friends know about the relationship and they haven't been judgmental to you in front of you then trust me, behind your back they're talking up a storm with each other about what you're doing.

I still stand by what I said that maybe he wanted a threesome, but you seem sure that's not the case so the next logical step is that he wants his friend to get in on the fun when he's not around. I'm not passing judgment since almost everyone else here is doing that already, I'm just addressing the question presented to us. If you have more to add I'd be happy to keep talking and thinking.

I didn't come here for you to tell me what to do. I'm very aware of how wrong this is...i don't need a lesson. I asked a very specific question.
Also I don't think he will choose me over his gf, i wouldn't let that happen. I don't need someone in my life who i know is a cheater.

I agree with that user saying that he either wants a threesome or is greenlighting his friend to have sex with you. Before I got together with my gf I used to have causal fbw thing with a bunch of girls, and sometimes I would take them to parties and such because my mates wanted to meet some girls who were into casual sex and I never minded sharing.

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That's definitely not the case.

>I didn't come here for you to tell me what to do. I'm very aware of how wrong this is
Obviously you aren't very aware. You came here to hear what you wanted to hear and nothing else. What you're doing is fucked. We're not going to gloss over that so we can talk about some meaningless bullshit about his friends.
>i don't need a lesson
I beg to differ.

Maybe he is just bragging
Guys gossip just as much as girls do, he probably told his friend that he is bonking a piece of ass on the side and his friend asked him to show you

Sweetie: what you want to hear is
>he wants you to meet his friend because he sees you more than a cumdumpster he fucks when his gf has a headache
>he wants you to be a bigger part of his life
>he is developing romantic feelings towards you
You want to hear all of that or some of that, doesn't matter. All other women have these delusions, and more often than not, these delusions are just that. We gave you some possible explanations and you keep saying that "that's not the case", but what makes you think that's not the case? And what are your own suspicions in that case?
I for one think that he is about to dump you, but his friend needs a free prostitute, so he brought you along so his friend could assess whether he wants to bother with you or not.

I know exactly what to expect here. I didn't come here for an applause, i actually needed this negative bs cause it's a reminder of what i'm doing. actually, i came here for you to tell me how wrong this is, but i expected more constructive and creative responses.

>i expected more constructive and creative responses.
Stop doing the shitty thing that you know is shitty and get some therapy for your fucked head. We really can't word this any simpler.

>no
>no
>no
i said earlier i'm not interested in being a part of his life cause i don't need a cheater. i don't have delusions.
this is why that's not the case:
-the friend we're talking about is a very close friend of his who's come to visit for few days
-the friend has wife and kids (which is probably irrelevant considering the type of friend he is)

I offered my best guesses as to why he'd want his friend to meet you, I'm out of logical ideas...

Oh shit user nailed it

A free prostitute overseas is not very practical

I'm stumped for ideas. Anyone else have anything that does NOT involve shaming OP, but actually has advice?

>it's a close friend with wife and kids
>he came to visit for a few days
This is super obvious, his friend wants to have a fling and needs a trusted discrete woman who wouldn't mind sleeping with a taken guy.

You're so persistent with this threesome and prostitute thing.
I'm sleeping with the guy cause i like him and this attraction goes beyond just physical.
We know each other from lets say an art class, so it's not that we met at a bar and decided we wanted to fuck. There's more to it.

>there is more to it
Thanks for confirming You hope that he is deeply in love with you and thus wants his best friend to meet you.

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lol

>so.. i'm wondering why he invited me to meet his friend, what was that all about, what are his intentions?
what do you care what his intentions are? you've acknowledged for yourself that you are
1: not going to engage on an emotionally important or meaningful level
2: that your needs for a relationship are almost only purely physical as well as financial (i'm sure he pays for some of your shit and dinner)
3: that he's emotionally dedicated to some one else on off limits on that level.
4: every thing else you or i will not list.

you want speculation about what his intentions are about bringing you in front of his friends? he probably just wants to show off his fuck toy.

Sorry if this came off dickish, I'm just pointing out the obvious consequences of poor life style decision making.

This is what eve eating the forbidden fruit meant

This OP. We've tried to rationale every other avenue and it all boils down to pretty much this post. This is subjective, and not bashing or trolling. This is the exact answer you were looking for and as close as we can get, because we can't get inside his head to find out exactly what he's thinking, but this is the closest possible.

>male
Stop being an unholy faggot.
>female
Stop being a whore, your future husband will drop you the instant he finds out that you did something like this.

OP: this is the fucked up shit im doing. Please help!

Anons: Your a dumb cunt

OP: NO PLEASE! I want advice. Why?

Anons: These are the only reasons why.

OP: No. none of those could be the reasons. Anyone with ACTUAL advice want to chime in? Anyone at all? Please? PLEASE PAY ATTENTION TO ME!

We've moved on. You refuse to take advice or listen. Theres only two realistic reasons he's introducing you to his friends. He's either going to try and set you two up to fuck (with or without him) or he's trying to make you a bigger part of his life. That's literally it. There's no other answer. Also, you're a shitty person and I sorta hope you die alone.

I see nothing wrong with what he's doing, to be honest. He's just taking what's offered to him.

You're still a bitch for even offering that shit, though.