Out of 7 year relationship 16 months ago...

>out of 7 year relationship 16 months ago. Had weird grace period of still talking to her while she had her slut phase and she basically told me about being raped and having threesomes
>she wanted me back
>I sent the most vicious hate filled texts, zero contact in a month told her fuck off

>find new girl who's a virgin and likely never been in love, has everything else that makes my heart beat

Anyone feel like I need a woman who has had her heart broken, this girl is not naive somehow but I feel some trace of something misalligned because of those facts.

Should people who have had LTR and heart break seek a partner who is as experienced as them

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faggots posting "how to cry" and "take my iq test" need to kys

What the fuck are you even asking

you aren't ready for a relationship with anyone yet

Take some time. Find some peace.
Don't fall for a rebound and don't damage the Virgin one

I hope I never become you, not sure how or if I could handle my first and only partner turn into a whore

Not all women are the same, but most share the same ideas.

Had an ex that was in her young 20's while i was in my mid to late 20's. Close to the end she talked about how she didn't have a "teen life". Asked her to tell me what a "teen life" is. Pretty much she summed it up as fucking around with different guys, going to parties, getting fucked up, etc.

At the end a guy was hanging out with her a lot. Told her to stop hanging out with this douche bag. She refused. Dumped her. Try being friends, but she just wanted someone to cry to about problems with this guy. Told her that is what she gets and told her how this guy is going to be. They dated for about 3-4 years and he dumped her. She sends me a message request on Facebook. Accepted. Talks about coming to see me and been thinking about me a lot. Told her no then blocked her.

When she dated this guy she would be like he saved me, he loves me, he is the one, etc bullshit. Told her wow, you use to say the same to me. Later one it because, he left me at the mall, ditched me at the movies to hangout with another girl, he went to the hospital to be with his friend that is having a baby. Told her that it's probably his kid. She got butt hurt about that and it bugged her a lot and told me to fuck off and not to say shit like that.

Some women have a retarded view on life and how it should be.

Made the mistake of dating a year and my first partner became a raging slut after. She begged to reconnect with me and like the naive fuckstain I was, I decided to give her another chance (not to date, however, I wasn't ready for that). She constantly guilt tripped me and I eventually cut it off.

I'm currently in a relationship where I'm with another girl that I love, but I have already considered ending it on several occasions because of how much stress it causes me.

I think I am just not someone who belongs in relationships. Feelings cause me stress and so does my tendency to try and figure out the motives of the person I'm with. Then again, I think issues in the past may have discolored my ability to love or have a healthy relationship. Distrust in people is almost instinctive for me, and I think I have a tendency to think that everyone that is currently in my life is trying to screw me over down the road.

If my current relationship doesn't work out I am going to stay alone.

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No one helped at all or even addressed my last sentence which is basically what I am asking

kill yourselves sluts

This girl isnt a rebound Ive dated 2 or 3 other people since my ex. This girl is real.

Its what the bible means when eve is tricked by the serpent into eating forbidden fruit.

Snake is pop culture. the fruit is hedonistic sex.

Thats why the new girl is so appealing she is religious and literally makes feminists look like degenerate whores and she would join me in mocking them. and it makes me very happy.

I love her. I just dont think she knows what heart break is.

Currently I am in my first serious relationship (23) and my girlfriend has had a serious relationship before. Does it cause friction? No, because we both like eachother for the way we are, I don't care that she is more experienced, it is all about the connection we are currently having.

Maybe you are not at the root of your problem, is this really why you are having second thoughts about this girl, or is something else bugging you?

Perhapsa fear she will want a slut phase one day. She got to 27 staying a virgin though I cant imagine she would throw it away when shes 34 or something, has very strong family values.

Sounds like Ihave trust issues I guess and love requires complete trust.

She's the second woman I have sex with, and I haven't had any urges to fuck around with other girls, because it is not in my nature. At a certain age most people change very little, so there is a large chance your girlfriend will stay like she is.

You're right about the trust, how about bringing this relation to the next level and opening up to her about your worries? (not necissarily this one) See how she responds, if you want a healthy relationship you should be as open as possible emotionally.

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When she told me shes a virgin she had said she feared I would think the exact thought she isnt experienced enough. But the way 2018 is I told her no Saudi Princes pay millions to take a girls virginity.

There's something you should understand. Trust is more complicated than just packing it up and handing it over to someone. Trusting someone, in part, requires trusting ourselves. If we aren't willing to open up parts of ourselves to vulnerability then trust doesn't even get a chance to develop and, ultimately, there isn't anything your partner could have done to earn that trust. Giving your trust to someone, in that way, is often a double edged sword.

My point is that there's nothing inherently bad about being attracted to and simultaneously intimidate by her inexperience or even having these concerns about trust or the future but I would really caution against developing this mentality where you're putting an expectation on her to be the antithesis of your last girlfriend; like because my last girlfriend was like this, this and this I'm depending on you to be the opposite. Who knows where she's going to be years from now but along the way I really encourage you to be mindful of your trust issues and why you have them. I'm not meaning to chastise you at all because I think you're coming from a genuine place but understand that forcing your current girlfriend to pay for the sins of your ex will result in resentment and eventually relationship death. There's a real possibility that somewhere down the line she might do or say something that reminds you of your ex, your trust issues will react violently and there will be some big blowup fight because of it.

Maybe one day she'll decide she wants to leave you and try different guys. Who knows. All I'm saying is that while there is a chance that her leaving you could happen it is 100% guaranteed that subjecting her to the insecurity and trust issues carried over from your last relationship will destroy this one.

Lol i imagine how "virgin" this new girl is. You sound like an insecure faggot that needs to project his shitty mental problems by forcing girls to love only him.

Newsflash, every girl you ever been with and will ever be with has had sex and loved, and probably will have sex and love other males, and theres an incredibly big chance youre not even amongst top 5 they had

Idk man. As the man it probably makes it easier for you to take the lead and to see where it's going

Go suck a cock you giant gaping pussy.

I am not insecure I respectully asked do relationships need some level of the same experience to work.

She is not the antithesis nor do I feel it is all unreasonable to be sensitive in my situation. I learned alot from my ex ans suppose yes trust goes both ways. I appreciate your advice thank you

Yea thats why every girl after my ex has been heartbroken after I left them. Hope your dick isnt as tiny as it sounds

Yea enjoy your polyamory. You sound like a psychopath.

>She is not the antithesis nor do I feel it is all unreasonable to be sensitive in my situation.
I never said it was unreasonable. I understand that you know she isn't the antithesis but all I was saying is that the subconscious expectation you have of her to not be anything like the kind of person that your ex was may be a more influencing force than you may realize. That sort of underlying fear and expectation you fear this current girlfriend will go through a "slut phase" despite the fact she hasn't given any evidence that would suggest she would. There's nothing unnatural about being insecure, user. We all are insecure about all sorts of things. I'm not implying that it is unreasonable, merely encouraging you to be mindful of it.

"Phase" lol
New girl's not a virgin unless you're a pedo. If she's 20 or older she's had sex.

Thanks. I can appreciate what youre saying I had a hand with deteriorating my exs relationship. I am not as fearful as it happening again as I make it sound. But I do realize that fear in the back of my mind needs to go away.

Shes extremely religious. I didnt believe her until I kissed her and totally checked out that she has little or no experience.

She isnt some random girl who would lie. But I know how hard it is to hear it I was in denial too. She had a very good father who told her boys want one thing.

Anyway enough bragging like I said Saudi Princes would pay millions for her. I am lucky I found her for sure.

>so retarded he thinks you can only have one rebound

Well I defined what I was looking for even more but go ahead and suck your dads dick you kike homo

Wow you do sound affected,don't be a tard, one of those was legit advice

lol, three different butthurt answers. Seems like i hit the nail in the head haha. Sureeee all girls you left are heartbroken, they probably aren't sucking another cock right now.

>Shes extremely religious. I didnt believe her until I kissed her and totally checked out that she has little or no experience.
Lol i love how easy it is to deceive adults who missed out on teen sex, 19yo girls who've been fuckign since 14 try to sell to them that they are virgins. top lel

Don't ruin the virgin. If you put that trait before any other positive talk to her, you're going to use her for that.

You are the scum of the earth, wait for marriage before you have sex with that girl.

why do you WANT to look for the girl who is emotionalally broken?

just thankfull you dodged a bullet.
just be happy with the one your with not the your next ex-gf

Jelly?

Wow thank you

No youre just calling her a liar. Not suprising from some faggot who claims no girl over 20 is a virgin. Très trollable topic. Like I said Enjoy missing out on a fairy tale you tiny dick faggot Id one shot you and take a dump on your face.