I am intimidated by my rough tomboyish GF

She has this brash and aggressive attitude which makes me feel like a little bitch. I strive to be a Chad, but whenever she's around I feel like a phony. I just can't handle the aggresion. How do I strengthen my character?

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You don't. You dump her and give me her phone number cunt.

pls don't bully

Alright I'll give you some actual advice.

There cannot be two aggressive people in a relationship, one has to be dominate and one has to be submissive (to an extent) so you should know by now she is the dominate one, not you.

You strengthen your character by standing your ground when in conflict, it is hard but it gets easier.

Well that's a shitty advice, I don't want to "give up" and be submissive. I just want to be able to be aggresive and be able to respond to her without feeling guilty for it. I guess it's self esteem problems, I don't feel like I have the right to be aggressive.

When i act brash and aggresive it's usualy because the man i am with is too passive.

You're dating a man. A chad doesn't want an aggressive tomboy. Aggressive tomboys are bisexual. Dump her.

You have to face facts cunt, she is the dominate one, not you.

Two aggressive people in a relationship is what causes a dysfunctional relationship, you are literally asking for a dysfunctional relationship.

If you want to be the dominate one in a relationship then she isn't the one for you, you will constantly butt heads and break up harshly with her taking all your shit since you are such a beta in this relationship.

Exactly. Girls want men who will set them straight and give them limits and boundaries. A woman that doesn't get that will act like an aggressive bitch woman.

A chad can handle anything. If I can't handle a tomboy, it means I'm not a chad. Tomboys are just girls who happen to be morally tougher than the average guy, so all it takes to feminize them is a guy who is stronger than them.

The best horses can often be the most difficult to break.

Yes, that's my view on it.
Obviously she's the one breaking me right now, because my self-esteem was much higher before I met her. But limiting myself to weak women only would be the easy, thus, wrong path.

>Tomboys are just girls who happen to be morally tougher
>morally tougher
wat

You know, tougher in general. They don't fall in line because they are stronger than the guy mentally, and they often make guys insecure.

i am not sure i like how you explain it.Maybe that's how men expirience things.
For me it's like this:if man get too pushy i can tell him to back off and we can compromise until we are both happy.
When the man is too passive there is simply no communication.

Women act like this because they want a guy to make them feel like a girl. Even the toughest bitch wants a guy who makes her feel like a blushing delicate maiden.

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Then nut up and establish boundaries. The last thing you want is your s/o not respecting you. You could start in the bedroom and dominate her sexually. Tomboy or not, women like this.

Not gonna lie. I like tomboys because they love to fuck out of love for the fuck itself. Not annoying mating rituals and moods and foreplay.

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so much this
I guess that's why I have a short hair fetish, they tend to be tomboys who enjoy sex, unlike boring girls who just lie there

>one has to be dominate and one has to be submissive (to an extent)

Why can you only be submissive to an extent? Shouldn't the same apply to the dominating person?

What do you mean when you say she's 'breaking' you?

Dominant...

send her to me, i would pull the plug on my grandmother for a qt tomboy

I mean don’t get me wrong, I love leading the action but if she’s not fucking back it’s basically just masturbating

I can't tell whether this post is just some insecure masculinity, or someone being emotionally abused by a girlfriend under the guise of her being a tomboy.

You can have a tomboy demeanor that still retains respect for their partner. What exactly is she doing that is too aggressive for you, OP?

Advocate for yourself and if she is disrespecting you, speak up or get out of the relationship. I've been working in construction for 8yrs and a completely a tomboy with a lot of "masculine" interests, but don't neglect my boyfriend of love, care and respect. Don't excuse shitty, abusive behavior and blame yourself.

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This is me :/
I'm actually a fucking submissive but my boyfriend is so passive yet sweet that I become this dominant and bossy character lady with him.
I don't want to change him because I love him with all my heart but the time he does get aggressive with me, it makes me uncontrollably horny and at his feet.

I'm like you boyfriend. I have a hard time being dominant sexually. Only when my gf has been a brat all day I manage to put her in her place.

a real chad doesn't have to try. with a tomboy you just fuck the tomboy out of them and they become a docile little pussy

basedboy

Stop trying to be something you're not meant to be.

It's more pathetic than to try to be a "chad" when you're obviously not, than to just accept who you are and do what pleases you.

You're either an insecure bitch, or a submissive lad in denial. Either way you need to learn who you really are and what you really want. Don't let Jow Forums decided what sort of man you need to be, and that goes for my post as well. But jfc, feeling you have to be a "chad"? Fucking hell grow up lad

Rape that bitch
See what come

Do you actually want to be dominant, or to you just that you have to be dominant as the male? Would you prefer to submit to her?