Okay, so I asked a girl that I like to go hiking with me. She accepted; however, said that she'd rather it not be just the two of us because she'd be too nervous so we're going with her sister. She actually is a really shy and introverted person. What does this mean? If she didn't like me at all she wouldn't even accept?
Okay, so I asked a girl that I like to go hiking with me. She accepted; however...
We don't know her. It's possible she likes you. If she's shy she might be freezing up over being alone with a boy the way neets on Jow Forums talk about their social problems.
She might also hate you and be too afraid to say no.
She might think you're a murderer.
She might be trying to hook you up with her sister.
Millions of possibilities. I'm leaning towards the first one.
>What does this mean?
It probably just means that she's shy and introverted. the simplest answer is almost always the correct one.
but uh also hiking is 100% not first date material, she maybe invited her sister because that way you're less likely to murder her in the middle of the woods and wear her skin as a hat. For a first date you want somewhere public with lots of things to see and do and whatever and not being stuck in the middle of the woods. If there's an akward silence in the a conversation you can just be like "haha look at that homeless woman masturbating over there" or whatever, and if you need to take a shit you can just go to the toilet and not run into the forest & wipe your ass with a fallen bird's nest. A hike one a first date is just a bad idea overall. definitely later relationship activity though.
you can also invite someone to go somewhere private like your appartment/mother's basement to watch a movie there but that's typically heavily implied that you're dtf before the credits start to roll
I actually never even thought of that. We already made plans for it though and it'd be weird to ask to do something else. Plus there are a lot of people at the place we're going. I joked about the serial killer thing but she said it was only because she'd be nervous just the two of us "at first"
Don't make the serial killer joke.
"Lol what do you think I'm a serial killer!?" Is exactly what a serial killer would say.
If she's feeling threatened by you, the violence joke will confirm her fears.
You may have got off this time. Don't try it ever again.
She is probably just scared of being alone on a mountain or wherever you're going and being raped and murdered in the wilderness
Are you black?
Literally, my first time even trying to go for a girl so I'm pretty bad at it. I will definitely keep this in mind
no i'm not black; however, i am mexican. That's probably worse, isn't it?
Yes, yes it is. Unless she is Mexican as well.
Nope. Well, I guess I'll see how it goes.
>she said it was only because she'd be nervous just the two of us "at first"
yeah it's probably just that, but the setting probably does make it worse even if there's relatively a lot of people at a hiking spot it's still a hiking spot. If you went to a movie or a museum or outdoor concert or whatever there's always something to look at and talk about
but uh like that other dude said maybe she's trying to have a threesome with her sister and you that'd be cool or maybe they're the ones that's gonna murder you in the woods haha
her sister is way young so it's not that. She said her sister invited a friend as well.
But yes i totally should've picked a better first "date". wouldn't really consider it a date
You're going to create more la creaturas
WE NEED THE WALL
>friend ;)))))))
I know sorry m8.
lol they're way young. That's gross.
>build the wall
>lock in all the mestizos and castizos like myself
The ship has sailed, frogman.
You sure she does consider this as a date and not just friend activity?
Maybe she's very dependent on her family and wants to see if you get along. If yes, good luck with super family-dependent gf
i said myself i don't even consider this a date. And when she said that we should invite someone else she said "at first" so it wouldn't be too weird. She asked me to invite my friends, but my friends are hella autistic so I told her to invite people.
she is introverted you arent in her inner circle yet so she needs a chaperone to check you out and get a 2nd opinion.
understandable
I have had the opposite problem. I met a guy from the internet once and he told me he didn't want me to bring anyone else. So that kind of creeped me out so I brought my friend to dinner with us and then he was kind of angry and I thought what a psychopath.
Also I met him back on Yahoo and I think he worked for Yahoo chat so it was pretty funny.
why even accept if he explicitly says he doesn't want anyone else to go? Sounds sketchy af
..dios mio, el oeste esta terminado
why is this board filled with 13 year olds
>She accepted; however, said that she'd rather it not be just the two of us because she'd be too nervous so we're going with her sister. She actually is a really shy and introverted person. What does this mean?
You answered your own question, dingus.