I’m an attractive girl. Since I broke up with my ex I can’t find the right guy.
so many people here who can’t connect with someone either, just makes me wish could we could all close the gap already
Don’t give up though user. I for sure am not planning to.
Too late, I already gave up. But thanks
I'm an unattractive girl and can't find a decent guy either
Good to know not only uggos and social rejects struggle with that
I'm neither an uggo or a social reject, but I struggle with it too and I'm fucked up because I don't intend to fuck around with random hookups or shit like that, since I wouldn't like a partner who did that. But I'm a guy, so it's not really the same
I’m sure you’re not unattractive
Wish I could do more to help you
Keep at it hon
Never to late to change your mind
I gave up for a reason, though.
I realized I'll never meet another girl as good as my ex. I tried meeting someone else, but none of them even came close to her in terms of chemistry, interests, mindset. Trying has become too time consuming, and there's no guarantee for a good result. And even in the unlikely case it goes well again (and I doubt that), something external could fuck up a perfectly good relationship right in the moment when things between the two of you couldn't go better. The tiny chance that my ex could get better is the only reason that keeps a spark of interest in women in me
Why can’t you ever be with your ex then?
And you’d be surprised at what’s out there
Because she's the only person I could really be myself with. I didn't have to pretend anything. Also, being with her was stimulating, challenging, funny, interesting. We could always find a common ground for everything. Then her depression came back and she withdrew from everyone and everything except for her sister. And I want to be there for her in case she gets better, also because she never had someone who truly appreciated her for who she is. I don't think I'll ever get over her, it's already been 3 months and we were together just for 4. That should give an idea of how big an impact she had on my life.
Sorry, I read it as "why can't you be over your ex then" and I misinterpreted it, I'm tired from work.
Anyway, I implicitly answered to that too, I think.
I guess there's nothing absolute, but for now she just reads my messages without responding, the ball is in her court
>I can’t find the right guy
what is your requirement? For example I find it hard to find a guy to date but is ok with me seeing other men. Many say they are ok with this but the horns come out first time I'm unavailable. They start trying to micromanage my time. I can find weak guys but I want a confident good looking guy that is ok with this.
>I'm a girl
>Thinking you know what it means to not connect
Advice dropped, you know nothing.
Meh, I gave up. Too many people want to find perfection and "finished products" which is just ridiculous.
Don't put the blame on them if they want to be exclusive, it doesn't mean they're "weak". They just have a different set of values
When you say >seeing other men do you mean friends or side dick ?
You sound like you are 12 please get over yourself
Well user maybe you should tell her. Show up with flowers and a meaningful card
S.w?
I guess I want a confident good looker too, who is smart and funny and employed. But most of all quirky like me
user and you wonder why you’re single
I agree with you almost. They pretend to be ok but I find out they really aren't and were lying and resort to sobbing occasionally in an effort to shame me into an arrangement we never had.
seeing friends isn't dating so if I meet a guy I kinda like I would like to see where it goes and that could involve sex. However, so far I never broke up with a bf even after sleeping with another guy so I can be committed.
confident goodlooking smart funny and employed guys are unicorns
She already knows that, I told her everything I could to make her understand my stance on her, but has such a low self that deep down I doubt she believes it. She always said that I destabilized her, that she couldn't believe I was real because she had a shit past. I thought she would be finally convinced of it, but then she started withdrawing and avoiding me. I kept texting her after we broke up, but eventually she got annoyed, so I told her I'd give her space and that I'll always be there. Periodically I keep sending her text to remind her that I'm not going anywhere but she doesn't respond.
If I tried to show up I think she'd just think I'm a stalker or, in the best case, she'd feel annoyed and/or anxious. I don't know if there's something else to make her understand I'm not like the other people she met in her life and that I won't abandon her for this. But whatever
She's probably getting fucked in her ass right now by Chad. How do you feel about Chad taking advantage of her weakened spirt? Maybe she'll finnaly call you back to drive her to the abortion clinic.
Well, since it's you doing the unusual thing here you should be the one making it clear since the beginning. Just say "look, I don't intend to be exclusive, I think it's fair letting you know and decide accordingly". If they say they're ok with it and decide to stay with you but then they start regretting it, with all the sobbing and stuff, then yes: they're incoherent and weak.
But I thought you referred to those who were not ok with it and pulled away when you stated your intentions. And those guys are not weak at all
Chad can't be with her, if he's fucking my ass right now. Nice try, robot
>date woman for over a year
>she leaves me because she's convinced herself we want different things from life and our opinions are too different
>still wants to be best friends
>invited me to go dancing with her and a couple of her friends
>invites the guy shes seeing a day before we were supposed to go
>doesnt understand why I freaked and didn't want to go anymore
I'm just going to avoid women who are on meds from now on. Her anxiety and anti depression meds absolutely destroyed her and I honestly have no idea how I could've done anything differently to keep her. We talked about marriage and kids so often I told myself she was the one and now that she's gone I don't even know what the point in looking for another girl is.
Bait.
For this reason alone, I'll become successful and start abusing women (I've kinda started already).
I feel you bro, I gone through something similar. Depression and anxiety are an ugly bitch for relationship
>I'm a girl
>can't find the right guy
Translation: I'm a thot with requirements too big for any living human being to satisfy.
I won’t give up I just broke up with my excellent ex girlfriend as well.
It really sucks being back on the single grind but honestly you have to find more things personally filling.
These are things like hobbies, self improvement, and overall things you enjoy.
I’ve met a few girls I'm interested in but my expectations are pretty low and if anything the alone time has been very much mentally refreshing.
Sometimes loneliness is the price you pay for meaningful relationships
And you guys wonder why you’re lonely and unhappy
Glad to hear you won’t give up either user. GL
What’s your standards and preference?
It’s a lot harder to find 22/10 Ultra chad that’s filthy rich than it is to find Med to high level Brads just looking to fuck.
I’m sorry user, that’s rough. Maybe try some therapy for yourself. Stay well
t. virgin
Just want him to be cute funny employed smart
Don’t want him to be perfect. He doesn’t need to be wealthy
Want a guy who’s happy with his life and himself.
I have a gf, you projecting retarded whorel. And I'm very happy.
Meanwhile, you suck mean dick in an attempt to fill in the gap that a stranger's cock ripped apart in your spirit. And the truth stings, thot, because you thought you wouldn't share the dilemmas of robots and wizards.
Most men looking for a woman aren't usually happy with life or himself as they're generally just looking for a woman who will validate him and make him love himself and his life. We're compelled by an instinct to breed and find that wife who will make the half of a person they are feel complete. Maybe I'm reaching here but I could be wrong but I know it's true for me at least
Virgin kys
>Employed
>In the era of the gig economy and automation
So you’re looking for someone to make you better? To save you?
I regularly fuck and creampie my gf.
Can you say the same, ya cunt?
this half one is the reason why so many relationships are shit, you enter a relationship with expectation of the other filling the hole up, instead of doing that yourself
grow up and stop seeking validation like a damn woman, damn
I have plenty of hobbies, believe me (not "hobbies" like in "uhh, the internet" or "uhh, jerking off"). I am busy most of the time with stuff I enjoy doing and I always try to improve myself, but it hasn't helped with that so far
Virgin sucks cock in the gas station bathroom for weed money
Raped repeatedly by uncle at eight years old
A hard find now a days.
I was just looking for a girl that likes anime, top down night car rides, music and lovey-Dovey talk.
(It’s my one weakness despite sounding like childish gibberish)
A found a girl in the Navy who fit that perfect description but she’s 20 and going through Divorce drama i’d rather keep my distance from.
Just be aware you tend to date different versions of the same people
My “Same girl”
>We meet she’s not but pure cuteness
>Starts listen to some her problems they start are small yet escalade to stranger and odder too down right insanity
>By the end I realize I was dating a borderline psychopath
It doesn’t always happen but it’s happened enough I can classify it
I'm looking for someone who wants the same things I do or at least close to it. Maybe I worded it wrong but honestly life sucks a lot when you're dealing with it all alone watching everyone around you be completely happy in the bliss of their relationships
Why is it feminine to seek validation from someone you care about? Imagine if you spent two hours listening to someone talk about their interests and then they tell you they don't care what you're interested in because only the things they want is important to them.
Big ask.
this is the world women created
or rather, the result of their destruction
have fun, thots :^)
Haha don't worry I can't find ANYONE
> the 25 year old boomer who has given up on finding a woman
Don't see an issue with giving that up. It's annoying, it's painful even when you are done and it's time consuming. If anything it's probably the best thing to do so you can focus on getting real problems solved instead of letting your primitive instinct take over like some degenerate animal
I'm pretty funny with my 401K
I’m curious, what is “the right guy” mean to you?
As long as you aren't a white woman you're fine
So you want an actual cuckold?
>Don’t give up though user. I for sure am not planning to.
That's because guys won't label you creepy for wanting a little bit of intimacy, something we all instinctively crave.
Fuck you, I'll give up if I want.
I've made my peace with being alone, and am I better man for it. No more of that goddamn anxiety.
If a girl wants me I feel bad for her because I'm never making a damned move again, and chances are she won't either.
Why'd you break up with your ex femnon?
What kind of guy did you break up with? How did it happen? It's possible you've developed a reputation that makes decent guys wanna bolt if they see you.
>4 months
Omfg underage b&
>I’m an attractive girl
See The only one that gets it.
Jesus Christ you can't find a decent man because you aren't a decent woman.
>author of "Dirty and Thirty"
>why can't I find a man?
Hmm....
I'm afraid I just want my ex back, and I know I'm never getting her back.
I'm just going to stay alone and remind myself of how I ruined the best thing that ever happened to me through pure incompetence.
Do any of you ladies have any advice for me? Every girl I ever have any interest in, whether it's just by looks or personality or both, if I go after them, there is never any reciprocation.
I've been told I'm very handsome/cute (I would classify myself as a 6-7/10 on average). I am good at conversation, I have fun hobbies, I like going out doing things and I enjoy staying inside too, and whatever else.
But whenever I try and go after a girl, it just never works out. I seriously don't know what I'm doing wrong. I've tried everything I can think of, changing myself up, how I approach things, how I do things, and so much more. It's never mattered. what the fuck do I do?
Mgtow is a responsive to 3rd wave feminism, your were sold a bum deal. The social contract has been broken and modern relationships are fucked. Most guys dont even bother anymore.
Hope it was worth!
Avoid that shit, tried 3 seperate times with a girl who had horrible anxiety. She kept getting anxious over nothing and exploding, talking her down usualoy just made her worse.
The problem is they convince themselves everything is fucked and flee.
At least you can blame yourself, mine was just crazy and i couldnt help her.
>4 months
Listen dude, I wanna sound as serious as possible and I'm absolutely not shitposting you, and I wanna let you know that you're story sounds very similar to what I've been through but I just wanna say this: A 4 month relationship is nothing. I hope you can get over this literal fact because if you find someone else, you'll quickly realized how much you overreacted. I had an ex that meant the world to me, saw her everyday and was with her all the time. Shit happens and you get over it man, 4 months, I'm being serious, is really fucking nothing.
this is hilarious to read because if you live in the real world, you know none of it is true
right there with you sister.
I'm surrounded by moderately attractive guys, some of whom I don't mind hanging out with, but I really don't feel a connection with any of them.
but I haven't given up, I've got a lot of time ahead of me and plenty to do in between
I decided women live to be unintelligent wastes of time and money.
Too bad im not gay
I see threads like this and just assume its a larp by some random dude. Lol
quirky = unemployed
too smart = unemployed
too funny = unemployed
I think maybe by "like a damn woman" it could have meant, "stop doing this things, like a woman should (not do)"
I feel you OP.
I'm male and attractive, employed, many hobbies and confident and i also can't find any woman that i'm seriously interested in.
My desired girl should be young, attractive, fit so we can do sports together, intelligent enoug to talk politics / news, and a good cook / housekeeper because i resent housework.
I feel like finding such a girl is almost impossible nowadays. It gets even harder because i work intensively for short amounts of time and big amounts of money in foreign countries, and then go surfing the rest of the time. I don't even have an apartment, i just constantly live in hotels.
Would be nice to have someone waiting for me to come home and go surfing with me.
Out of curiosity, what is your job?
I'm an ugly girl who found a fantastic guy clearly out of her league. Don't give up, user, there's someone out there for anyone. You just have to be able to contribute something to the relationship and it doesn't have to be looks. Sure, you should strive to look like the best version of yourself, but it's not the end of the world if your best isn't dazzlingly beautiful if you have other good qualities.
I install cables for soccer championships and olympic games. I only work during those events, which are the olympics, the winter olympics, the soccer world cup and the european soccer cup. Mostly it is 3,4 months a year. The rest of the year i just move from beach to beach looking for waves and, frequently, chilling a fuckton.
i just returned from moscow ( world cup) and have to chill in germany, my home, for 5 weeks because i injured my foot and can't surf.
I really would like to have someone to take along on my travels. I'll be sent back to moscow in 5 weeks and i'll take the transsiberian railroad to Peking once i'm done and then explore China and check if they have any good waves.
Like i said, i'd love to take a girl along but even if i find a good one they are usually tied up in family / work and can't just pack their bags & leave.
You sound like you want a housekeeper and not a girlfriend
B my gf plz
Also solid advice
I'm a fucking Video technician and I don't even make enough money to save for a vacation, let alone touring the world, fuck.
The moment you propose that to me, is the moment I stop talking to you.
I don't have time to waste with whores.
cardio, and lots of it.
I'm all of those things. I just have a hard time finding a girl who is:
Young, beautiful, witty, clever, funny, edgy/alternative, quirky, shares similar interests, has good taste, passionate, not a slut, not mentally ill.
Ok, good, better to not waste my time and pretend you are ok and then cry about it when I date other guys.
However, I really don't think someone like you would make it far with me to even get to the point of asking. I would be able to tell you hate women and think them all whores. Men think they can hide this shit but it oozes from their pores.
no, I just want to see other men and not have any questions asked. Every guy I date I'd don't have sex with but if I do its none of my bf's business.
I am decent and tell them up front the only way I'll be in a relationship with them is for me to retain the freedom to accept when a guy asks me out.
does that mean the guy can also see other girls?fuck and date them?
I don't hate women, and I don't think all of them are whores. I just think whores are whores, and I don't date them, I pay them for their service and move on with my life. You're a dishonest cunt who wants to have her cake and eat it too. You'll never get a decent man, because you're not a decent woman, your moral compass is totally whack. Law of attraction, you attract what you are, fix your life or don't complain, end of story.
she will find a spineless dude to enslave at thirty.
sure, he isn't decent, but his wallet is open and his back is broken and her lawyer is ready with divorce papers. that's all she'll need.
Yes, and that's not a decent man, nor a man she'll respect or be truly attracted to. Women want men who are in control of their own live. Men who are self made, and have risen above the rest among their social heirarchies.
A pussy beta male is opposite to her, but still beneath her, because a spineless man has betrayed himself. Which imo, is worse than what she's doing.
>smart
>unemployed
Nigga what
That's the coolest job I have heard of a Jow Forums user having
Why do you want a bf when you just want to sleep with random guys on the side?
No self respecting man will be happy being your bf unless he is Chad and women are falling over him and he gets the same deal, but then this type of guy doesn't need a gf.
she wants stability and freedom at the same time. a handsome man to fuck and one who pays her to to be around. have her cake and eat it, so to speak.
women are literal parasites.
A chad wouldn't date a cheating whore. It's dehumanizing and humiliating. Also, someone who can't respect themselves will never respect you or her relationship. In fact, because you're letting her do this, she'll resent you, in tge back of her mind she's hoping you're the kind of guy who would be good enough to snap her out of her life style, failure to be that, will cause her to resent you, even though you "dud what she wanted." Yes, women's psyche is fucked up like this. The way women behave around chads is very different to how they behave around other men. She acts like that, cause she doesn't respect men, and expects them to let her do what she wants. Chads have a lot of self respect, and don't allow that kind of bullshit.
t. a Chad