My girlfriend and I have been going through a rough patch. I love her and she knows it. Ive been trying to get her to see me for about a week now, but she said she cant family is coming over. But last night she left town to "play video games" and get drunk with "a friend" leaves at noon comes back at 3am. She gives me shit for not trusting her. She's a fair bit younger then me (19 and 26) and shes pretty. Im pretty good looking myself and awesome in bed especially with her. She says she has strong feelings for me. So am i just as stupid as i sound to myself and shes cheating on my dumb ass. Or is it possible shes just too naive to know any better.
Ladies quit trying to make the guy you like jealous. That doesnt work. All that does is taint you in his eyes.
Angel Morris
generally speaking, you shouldn't have started a serious relationship with a 19 y/o
also, the best thing I think you can do with the average woman is go full gmode and not even give a shit if they're cheating, and just dump them instantaneously if you find out they did.
Cameron Hughes
note you have to actually find out. gossip or a hunch doesn't count.
make sure they know you'll sue them or some shit if you get a bad std
Sebastian Kelly
So what can i do on this suspicion of mine? Steal her phone while she's not looking or something. This is driving me crazy.
Angel Sanchez
Damn she was gone all day drinking and won’t tell you with who? Somethins fucky. Why even withhold that info if she’s innocent? Taking her phone won’t help, she probably deleted all the evidence by now.
Adrian Ortiz
nothing. if it was your wife and you wanted a divorce itd tell you to hire a private investigator, but this is just your 19 y/o gf. find something else to do.
Jeremiah Reed
>So what can i do on this suspicion of mine? Dump her because she's a teenager you manchild
Jaxson Fisher
>le dump them advice
Andrew Morris
OP
What i dont understand is why bother trying to pretend then? Why not just dump me and move on to new someone?
Isaac Flores
Yeah man. Its so much more productive to stall your GF and find out what weird shir she's up to. That will totally prove to her you're a completely reasonable person and not some insecure manbaby who dates teenagers because his arrested development leaves him unable to interact with people his own age.
Joseph Ortiz
>What i dont understand is why bother trying to pretend then? Why not just dump me and move on to new someone?
Something I'll never understand.
Leo Williams
OP
Dont know if any of you were in fact female but seems...
Because shes 19 its impossible for her to be anything other then a roastie; unable to have a relationship and i should just dump her, seems to be the consensus.
Okay then.
Tyler Gutierrez
one, remember you only have a suspicion she's cheating, no concrete evidence.
two, I can understand having a weak moment and cheating, but no I can't understand why someone would want to cuck men. you'd have to ask a cuckoldress that question, but I honestly think that would just waste your energy and put you in a shitty mood.
if you like societal values so much, date someone your age.
Ryan Richardson
Because they still want you but now also want outside affection to fill in the gaps they aren't getting from you.
Cooper Sanders
We're speaking in general, not in absolutes. In society, it's better to do some things than others, because one has a greater statistical likelihood of success.
Zachary Bell
She's 19. She's drawn into some world entirely within her own head where she's on some magical journey to "find her true self", which mostly involves letter her emotions take the wheel. Teens of literally all ages are like this. This is why it's a complete crock of shit when 30+ year old predator man-child types try to argue that 16 year olds are "adult" and "mature".
Matthew Cruz
I mean why does anybody cheat? Why don’t they just dump you and then go after that other person? I guess lack of respect for you. But yeah idk I’d just pay attention and be prepared to find some shit out and then pump and dump
Jack Morgan
it's all relative. in some settings teenagers are made to grow up, in others they aren't.
Christopher Turner
People do that shit well into their 30's. It was the basis of a lot of divorces in the later half of the 20th century, when women who'd been consigned to the house lusted after learning about their own unique talents.
It has little to do with cognitive ability or whether or not they can make their own decisions. Americans are fucking neurotic about sex because shit flingers like you try to use vitriol in place of an argument. >Oh, my baby girl can get behind the wheel of a car and take the lives of herself, you, and your family in her own two hands, but if some old career guy sniffs after her I'm gettin muh shotgun and shooting the creepy pedo rapist! >Totally no messed up Electra bullshit going on here, btw. I'm just a normal father with an absolutely normal urge to harm any developed males in my little angel's social circle!
If a mother acted the same way with her son, she'd rightly be labeled a fucking freak.
On topic, 19 and 26 is an extremely tame age gap. Bitching about anything between 18 and 30 get with anything from that same group is some bitter and stupid shit.
Zachary Moore
t. Toasty roastie
Owen Perez
Not a chick but it sounds like cheating. Especially getting drunk.
