How many women do you have to be rejected by before it doesn't faze you...

How many women do you have to be rejected by before it doesn't faze you? Because I approached and got rejected by two women yesterday and one today, and I'm fucking irritated.

Also, I got an idea. I approached this woman today in a museum. After I felt like she was rejecting me I walked straight to the exit. But on my way to the exit I saw another woman that was alone. I saw her earlier but then I was hitting on the first woman so I ignored her. But when I saw her on my way to the exit I just walked past her, thinking that I was in the wrong mood after the rejection and that if the first woman saw us together it would have been awkward. But afterwards I got this idea. Maybe I should have talked to the second woman. Because maybe that would have been the perfect way to forget about the first woman really fucking fast. And furthermore if the first woman saw us that would just have been good, it would have been the perfect revenge for the rejection, signaling to her "look how fucking insignificant and replaceable you are to me that I'm already talking to another woman, your rejection doesn't faze me".

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only men may reply in this thread

First you have to grow up and realize that the world doesn't revolve around you and not everyone is going to want to date you.

That wasn't the question. You're supposed to get used to being rejected after a certain number of rejections. The question is how many. Furthermore I said only men may reply so fuck off.

Sounds like you're defective in more ways than one, OP

not an argument, you're only being defensive because you're a woman and I repeated that women are to fuck off this thread

Only fuckboys have to "approach" women. If you aren't liked by enough people that you have single girls in your social sphere that at least kinda like you then you're doing it wrong. What are you trying to do by approaching them anyway? Get herpes? If that's the case then you're on the right path. If you're looking for long term, however, you're going about it wrong.

Why are you trying to argue with me? I'm just here pointing and laughing like all the women who ever have the misfortune to interact with you. No need to try to bring modus tollens into this

You're either autistic or an insecure hyper-incel. Check yourself before you wreck yourself.

Well I don't know how insecure you come off, judging by your resounded you're probably pretty fucking revolting my man. Change your attitude and go into this expecting literally dozens of rejections. It's a game of numbers for the vast majority of us.

It's time to play everyone's favorite game: "Immature child, Personality disorder, or Bait."

I don't have any friends so approaching strangers is the only option.

stick to the topic or fuck off, don't derail the thread

Make some friends first poindexter. If you aren't likeable enough to have friends then how in the fuck are you going to attract the romantic attention of a beautiful woman? You're putting the cart before the horse here.

>anyone who doesn't fit into my view is revolting and needs to change their attitude
I know enough about logic to know you don't know what the fuck you're talking about, now stick to the topic or fuck off, but this is Jow Forums and threads usually get derailed instantly.

That just proves my point. You seem like an unlikeable dickwad. Change your attitude or be alone forever.

I said women fuck off

it's usually I that reject people who want to befriend me, not the other way around

No, it doesn't prove your point just because you want it to, I said fuck off the thread if you're not going to stick to the topic, or if you are a woman.

I can say though that this winter after I had approached I think almost 10 women in a short time I started to feel like I cared a little less about being rejected and/or treated like shit. From February or something I didn't approach any women until yesterday.

I think maybe this woman that I talked to in the museum was a little interested in me at first, but something turned her off during the interaction. Because I think maybe she looked at me a little before I approached and she even stood quite near me. And she seemed to enjoy it when I first asked her a question. I think I might have had a bad breath because I was having acid reflux, maybe from eating pizza just before I got there. I think she could also hear that I was having acid reflux when I spoke at some points, the letter "g" I think you can hear it sometimes. Also there were 4 other women that MIGHT have shown interest/been interested today, and I think most, if not all, of them were hotter than this woman, so I'm trying to think of that to forget this woman. But I don't know for certain if they were interested, they didn't give super obvious signs of interest. One woman for example stood turned directly towards me when she was standing next to me at a crosswalk, which didn't seem necessary, though she was looking at her phone but still. Before the lights turned green though she walked over to the traffic island or whatever it's called in English, the division in the middle of the street, but I think that might have been because I didn't say anything to her for several seconds, probably a full ten seconds or more she stood turned towards me, though not looking at me as I said, so I might have spoiled a chance there.

Uhh.. da fuq man? Your mentality is kind of off...

You’re buying too much in to redpill shit or whatever the fuck.

Second, it’s not about the rejections so much as it is about realizing that you don’t need anyone to validate your self worth and their shit ain’t got nothing on you.

The way you’re going at it, you could take a million rejections and still be butt hurt over every single one.

No one cares bro

I think you're reading into shit that isn't even there and aren't presenting a real argument. I think after you've had a few successes or good experiences you start to care less about the failures/rejections/bad experiences. For example I approached a hot girl this winter who was very open and chatty. After that I have been rejected by many ugly women.

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Clearly no one cares about the fucking topic at all so that's not surprising, people here only care about derailing the thread and name calling such as child, autist etc. to make them feel better about themselves.

One woman was looking at me when I was going to take a seat in a coffee shop. She was sitting there alone and there weren't anyone else in that section, and I was walking up to a table 2 or 3 tables over from hers. She didn't smile or anything but she looked at me a little longer than seemed necessary. Women pretty much never smile at me, they just sometimes look a little longer than seem necessary or normal. Fuck, I don't know why I decided to sit with my back towards her, might have spoiled a chance. Maybe I should have sat face towards her. Back towards her I guess signals clearly that I wasn't interested in talking.

"wasn't anyone" I guess is the correct way to say it, not "weren't anyone"

I approached a rather fat woman yesterday who was wearing a short skirt. How she first made a look like she didn't want to talk to me at all, and then totally ignored me when I tapped her on her shoulder hurt me. Because a)she was fat and still rejected me, b)she was dressed like a slut so probably trying to get men to talk to her. I also approached another woman, young girl, still in school, probably high school though, maybe even last year of high school. I asked if she went to the school just nearby, she said yes but then immediately asked in a pissed off tone why I wanted to know. Then seconds later said she had to go because she had classes, which most probably was bullshit. I'm thinking of maybe approaching only women who have given me at least some sign they might be interested, like looked a little longer than necessary or normal, that way saving time and minimizing unpleasantness.

Because we literally get this exact same thread on an almost daily basis. Same picture of Rodger "She Better Be a Dodger", same topic of women spurning man's affection, same responses of man turning into vitriol no matter the input.

We get it, Jow Forums is full of sad people. But Jow Forums are the ones who turn it against people. Here on Jow Forums, we just want that numbing, all-consuming sensation to be gone so we can enjoy, feel, and see what everyone else sees in life that lets them do things besides damn themselves for waking up yet AGAIN, failing to pass in our sleep.
Trolling Jow Forums is neither an accomplishment nor interesting. We offer droll, windy replies to everything and are focused on results above all.

So, for a thread like this to be taken seriously is quite tough at this point. Not only-- if it is real, that is-- is this particular OP/these OPs/whatever leads to this daily thread just an absolute basket case that has one-trick replies to one-trick answers... but Jow Forums is pretty much required by nature to be genuine, so it's less like trolling draws these answers out. It's just a general, mild inconvenience to a bunch of people like me who probably see this thread, go, "Oh, THIS thread again?" and post a reply to satiate OP's ravenous desires to snag a few extra (You)s.

I suppose I'd wonder why if I didn't already have theories, but I definitely know that dispensing THOSE would be useless.
Nobody has ever cared about this topic, though. We all know the answer and we all know the solution, it's just that it's hard and involves hard work and nobody can put that in. Not with the internet gratifying your every action instantly.

I don't read Jow Forums every day, not even particularly often. Besides, I posted a very specific question, not even fucking hard to stick to that question, except for people here who haven't done that. Your excuses are bullshit, and you people are insecure and just want to feel better about yourselves when instead you should fuck off the thread.
>Nobody has ever cared about this topic, though. We all know the answer and we all know the solution, it's just that it's hard and involves hard work and nobody can put that in. Not with the internet gratifying your every action instantly.
I care about the topic, and I don't know about the multitude of threads you claim are on the exact same topic, they probably aren't anyway except your mind is lumping them together, again you should have fucked off instead. And no, we don't all know the answer/solution, I don't. And women don't because they don't have the male experience, hence why I asked them in post no. 2 to fuck off this thread.

>puts terrible, aggressive attitude on full display when people don't give him the exact easy answer he wants
>expects entire board to not point this out
>predictably begins lashing out at anyone who doesn't bend reality so that he can have his magic number
We have this thread every fucking day.
Next Track: Side B, "You don't know what my attitude is like fuck off or stay on topic"

I know a little bit of logic, as opposed to you clearly, so I see right through your bullshit.

Why would people care about derailing the thread? Your thread's shit you're shit quit flailing around in a vain attempt to blindly insult strangers by guessing at their motivations you retard

No-one owes you shit, if you expect validation even when you come begging Jow Forums to suck up to your hurt fee-fees no wonder no-one irl can stand you.

Lol, you people are very stupid. Dumbass, answer the fucking question in the OP or fuck off, simple as that.

I'm a faggot. Hello.

Fucking weird how I can go weeks without any woman showing any signs of interest and then 5 in a day, I guess part of it is you see what you want to see, as none of them showed super obvious signs of interest, women pretty much never do with me, except when I had bulked up and weighed like more than 10 kg more than now, then some did.

There is no set number of rejection for a person to get over as everyone is different. Quantifying this would require generalizations of mental fortitude, normalcy, self confidence and other attributes, which would then be useless to you as you are an individual and specific person, and not a manifest of a generalization.

Really OP unless you are fit, well dressed, handsome and socially savvy you will simply be unsuccessful in any further attempts at approaching women. Your time and efforts are better spent building a friend circle if you have none. This is mainly because with friends come references, in that they will vouch for your dateability to other girls they know. But you should know that of all women out in the world, the chances of you finding someone who is single and willing to go out with a stranger who does not know how to make conversation is slim to nothing. Statistically and mathematically speaking it is a waste of time for all involved.

fuck my parents for putting me into a world where even ugly women reject me

>reply is just vitriol
Crazy.

Not really true, it is possible to get laid from approaching strangers even if you aren't Mr Perfect. Most of my lays were from dating sites but I also fucked two women I cold approached.

It sucks every time. It never doesn't faze you unless you're a sociopath.

You're missing two important things here... One: do you just dead ass approach women? Do you not know how to just casually meet and socialise with people and recognize signs of attraction so you know when you have a good chance?

I havent been rejected much. And that is NOT saying I'm king player of the chads. I just know when I'm desired. It's not hard.

Two: do you have enough other things in your life to be proud of and happy about that "this one woman doesn't like me" doesn't demolish your entire self worth because it's all it hinges on?

Because if not.. that's why women don't want you ya boring passionless fatty.

clearly you people see what you want to see

>spurns blame and criticism and turns it around onto others
>angry and temperamental
>demanding of receiving female attention
Yup, you're a catch. Panties like the everglades when you're around.

>Do you not know how to just casually meet and socialise with people
No, not really. I have been thinking of going to meetups or something though. There are "language cafés" for example, where people go to practice the language with natives. I've been thinking of trying to go to one and then only hit on women that show signs of interest.

just fuck off and learn some logic, that way you're less of a waste of space

That's what you do. But pro tip, the majority of relationships start from meeting through mutual friends. Better to build a social circle and then Branch out into.their circles.

But that's the idea, you meet people with no expectations, and make your move when you feel mutual attraction is established.

>"Your attitude is driving women away."
>"FUCK YOU I KNOW LOGIC"
I'd say this is amusing but it's the tenth time this week.

After reading OP's responses I can safely assume that he is role playing. There is just no way someone is this fucked up.

Try 100 times. If you don’t make it, shotgun your face off.

Don't just approach strangers and expect it to go well mate. If you're in a club or something that's one thing, but no one wants to be creeped on in a museum. Meet women through mutual acquiantances if you don't want to creep them out.

This kid I went to school with has asked out 38+ girls and been rejected by every single one. Pretty sure he stopped caring after the 8th.

I can only tell you the experience I had in one month on Tinder 4 years ago
each and every rejection was insanely painful, I don't think it ever gets better
it was so bad that after a couple hundred matches yet a dozen rejections I uninstalled the app and never tried again

no one here has any advice
they just shit on you, but then again OP invited it

>the majority of relationships start from meeting through mutual friends
the majority of relationships started today start from meeting online
after that it's work or school

You get used to it when you grow the fuck up and realize no one owes you anything, especially not strangers you just met.

>a)she was fat and still rejected me, b)she was dressed like a slut so probably trying to get men to talk to her
Because she doesn't know you and obviously didn't want to talk to anyone/had somewhere to be. Dressing a certain way doesn't mean someone wants attention, it may simply be what they feel most comfortable or confident in

>young girl, still in school, probably
because she's a teenager and what do older men do to teenage girls they don't know but are for some reason hitting on?

kek, bless you sir for creating a little bit of humor in this thread

Honestly op, if this is real I feel kinda bad and suggest you see a psychologist to start learning how to treat others better. When you do that not expecting anything in return, you'll have people be shitty to you, but you'll also start attracting quality people and friends and, maybe even dates.

stop fucking starting threads with this guy
not even reading your shit jesus fuck

Right? Holy shit, you'd think they'd get fucking tired sooner or later
This shit is the most fucking redundant. Yes, dipshit, it's clearly every other girl on planet Earth who is flawed and not your smelly, Elliot-Rodger-worshiping ass.

JUST BE YOURSELF BRAH

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>posts question
>replies all kinds of bullshit that's got fuckall to do with the op
>points this out
>wah wah you're a child/autist/fucked up
That's what learning a little bit of logic does, makes you see through stupid shit like this, which is so common on Jow Forums.

>no one wants to be creeped on in a museum
total bullshit, women love to be approached if they find the guy attractive

>Meet women through mutual acquiantances
Also, as I said earlier, I don't have any friends, so this isn't an option.

>OP invited it
How did I invite it? I didn't. I only said that only men should reply in this thread, which is because how the fuck are women supposed to know what it's like to be rejected when approaching women? And no, it's not the same thing for women, it's usually the men that approach, and the women that decide whether they want those who approach or not. Women being rejected is mostly through not being approached or hit on which is a totally different thing. Women simply don't have the male experience, but I know from experience that when you ask questions on Jow Forums on male topics, women will come in and think their input is interesting. It's my business whether I want to hear their input or not.

>Dressing a certain way doesn't mean someone wants attention, it may simply be what they feel most comfortable or confident in
I said women fuck off this thread, retard

>because she's a teenager and what do older men do to teenage girls they don't know but are for some reason hitting on?
>suggest you see a psychologist
take your fucking retarded liberal feminist female ass and fuck off this thread

if you don't like the topic then fuck off

Dude why would you try to pick up women in a museum? That seems like a recipe for failure.

>Dude why would you try to pick up women in a museum?
Why not?
>That seems like a recipe for failure.
Why?
Also, as I said she seemed a little interested at first. Maybe she was interested at first but lost interest during the interaction, I don't know. As I said I might have had bad breath, but I don't know why she didn't like me. I'm also not totally sure she rejected me but that was definitely the vibe I got so I left. At another time when I was in the same museum I was sitting in a room where there was a screen showing some video. I think it was just me there and then a woman came in and sat down there too, at the other side of the door but there were only like 3 seats on each side of the door or something. She kept sitting there for a long time. Then I left. I think she even sighed a little as I was leaving IIRC. I think she might have been interested from her behavior. I think in many cases a woman would not stay in such a small room alone with one guy if they didn't want to be hit on, they would leave and check a little later to see if the guy had left. I went back to that museum because I remembered this situation and thought it might be a good place to meet women. But I didn't go there only to meet women. I went there because I was free from work and I like museums and if I could talk to women that was a bonus.

Genuine question.. are you a real person? Are you being serious with all this shit right now or is this an elaborate troll? I honestly can't tell.

Also, nobody has commented on the second part of the op, the idea I got that I should have talked to the second woman after I got rejected. I think from now on I will try to find a new woman to approach instantly after I get rejected. Not wait until the next day or next week. That makes you think too much about the rejection, when you should instead forget the bitch instantly.

I'm not trolling. I'm saying what I think is going on in this thread, which is this:

I would be more comfortable if you could just admit right now that you're trolling because its a definite 10/10. I'm a little frightened of the possibility that you could be a real person.

If you can't maintain friendships you're going to have a bad time trying to maintain romantic relationships. You can't run before you can walk.

only 4 posters will read this requirement, next time put it in the comment field of OP (dipshit)

he put that there so he could claim that anyone who says something he doesn't like is a woman. he came into here already knowing that he wasn't going to listen to anybody that disagreed with him.

but this guy has a point, do you think he looks like an orange retard because he cares what people think?

whoops there's your problem right there

me too
if this is real you are clearly deeply mentally ill and need to seek professional help
>inb4 t. femoid
i am a man (Male)

I don't care. I'm not going to fucking wait until I have friends because I want to meet women and I've had dates and fucked women before. I haven't had a proper gf though, but there were maybe five women or something that wanted to be my gf that I rejected, or one of them was more like she wanted to get married perhaps. Also, as I said, most of the time it's me that reject people who try to befriend me, not the other way around. I had acquaintances from my old job but I deleted my facebook and changed my phone number because I didn't want anything to do with them.

there's another angle to attack this problem from

you are retarded lol kys
why do i even bother coming to this board anymore

>total bullshit, women love to be approached if they find the guy attractive
consider the possibility that if you actually knew anything about women you wouldn't be in this predicament

No, I thought about it after I had posted the op and you can't edit.
Not my problem, as I said I thought about it too late and you can't edit, plus I repeated it several times in the thread, so fuck off. Other times I have posted it in the op and the exact same shit happened so it makes no difference.

The only advice we can give you is to seek psychiatric treatment. There's something severely wrong with you and we're not going to be able to help.

You're taking the rejection too personally. Even for experienced pickup artists rejections happen all the time due to a nearly uncountable amount of variables. Not only that, but you may be attractive but just not their type.

Relax a bit and congratulate yourself on attempting instead of just succeeding. Have some faith that this practice will pay off.

>if this is real you are clearly deeply mentally ill and need to seek professional help
As I've said this is a bullshit argument that knowing just a little bit of logic makes you see through and you are retarded. I posted a question. In comes people posting a bunch of shit that has fuckall to do with the question in the op. I then tell people to answer the fucking question or fuck off. Then people say this means I'm childish/autistic/mentally ill etc. If you don't see how this has nothing at all to do with the op, and is induced by those trying to derail the thread in an endless loop, then you have zero knowledge of logic and of how a proper discussion works.

>you are retarded
no, you are retarded
>why do i even bother coming to this board anymore
good idea, fuck off this board because you're wasting my time

no, you are retarded, I've already pointed out the logical fallacy you're making

What is it that you really want from women? Just sex?

>If you don't see how this has nothing at all to do with the op, and is induced by those trying to derail the thread in an endless loop, then you have zero knowledge of logic and of how a proper discussion works.
Well, I have friends and a girlfriend and have dated several women in my life. Wouldn't logic dictate that perhaps people who have actually had a successful relationship with a woman know more about how a proper discussion works than you? Additionally, every time someone gives you advice that you disagree with you just dismiss it. You aren't even willing to entertain any ideas that you don't want to believe. You're also extremely stand-offish, delusional and very unaware of normal social cues and how relationships work. It really sounds like you need some help. No one can force you to if thats not what you want but the proof is in the pudding, OP; the way you're doing things ISNT WORKING. It perplexes me why you spend so much time fighting to defend a strategy that has failed you for years. Seriously, go speak to someone. They might be able to steer you in the right direction.

I'd like for you to explain to the class how encouraging you to seek treatment for your mental health is a logical fallacy.

Take your shit somewhere else, I'm not interested, answer the fucking question in the op or fuck off, you're fucking retarded and I can't explain your fallacies enough for you to understand how you're failing.

25 different people seem at least somewhat interested in trying to help you (even the ones that say mean things to you), but you don't seem interested in helping yourself whatsoever.
reads like a starving fisherman eating nightcrawlers in a boat full of drenched captain long john silvers trying to give advice.

In some cases just sex, but normally that's just the idea I have at the moment, then when I've had sex I want sex again and to be dating/having a relationship. With some women I did meet them more than once, but it never developed into a proper love relationship, but you have to be dating for that to happen.

I'd recommend some talk therapy. You're obviously very angry about something and you're unwilling to discuss it with us without lashing out at every turn. I get the feeling we're not the first people in your life to bring some attention to your mental health or you probably wouldn't be so defensive about it.

Because you can't just go into a topic, post a bunch of bullshit and then when the op says that's not what the discussion is about you say he should see treatment.

again, you are severely retarded

*seek treatment

>post a bunch of bullshit
You mean a bunch of advice he doesn't want to hear
>then when the op says that's not what the discussion is about
You mean says a bunch of delusional, mentally unhinged bullshit?
>you say he should see treatment.
You mean recommend that someone who displays such a poor grasp on social cues and human interaction to seek some help from someone who can teach him how?

You also still haven't explained how any of this falls under the purview of a logical fallacy. Exactly which logical fallacy are you referring to? You do know that not everything you don't agree with isn't a logical fallacy, right?

I wish you luck, OP. Really. When you're ready, look up a therapist.