Trouble seeing women as human

I've recently started seeing them as stupid/silly at best and like a completely different species, completely unrelatable or even childish at worst. This is bad because I want to function normally socially and eventually get a girlfriend. I haven't had an actual female friend above acquaintance in years, let alone had a conversation with a woman above lame small talk. Idk if my lack of compassion for women is due to recent life events, just lack basic understanding of them, if I'm just becoming misanthropic in general or if I'm just socially retarded.

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Get off Jow Forums or become a bitter misogynist. You're mentally weak, and being here amongst the misogyny isn't going to help. It doesn't matter if you don't like it, it's a fact.

I bet know when you do interact with them you'll be intimidated.

Also, forgot to ask: should I lay off the porn? Could it have anything to do with it?

Try being human for a while instead of a robot and you’ll get better, and yes, lay off the porn you dunce

Jesus dude where do they make you

you are completely correct. women are parasitic children with rights, view and them accordingly and interact with them as little as possible.
if you are dumb enough to live with one, i dont have much advise because it would be like lecturing on suicide. but, dont live with them for more than six months, or you will be considered married by law and ahe gets all the rights that entails.

See, that's exactly the attitude I'm trying to avoid.

All humanity is flawed and it's made me bitter, but I don't have to let hatred consume me and turn me into an miserable antisocial wretch to the point I miss out on possible good relationships with decent people.

If you want the same thing as you, you're gay. Women are different than men.

You need to realize your resentment towards women is your hate towards the world which in reality is just your fear of not being liked by others.

You have such a huge ego a woman can't reject you. Such is the pride in your insecurities not being insecurities and in your faults not being your faults.

Learn to be humble and you will learn to find peace with yourself. You don't need to be perfect for others to like you. Everyone has flaws. Most likely everyone tries to be a better person in what they can and everyone has a story to tell why they are like they are.

Stop hating others and start trying to understand yourself.
Allow yourself to blame yourself and forgive your faults. Accept them user.

You are bitter. Why?
Start asking yourself why

"Why are women so shit?, everyone on Jow Forums also says so. Why?"
"Why do I hate women?"

Why do you hate women but yet want a gf?
Are you sure you aren't just projecting yourself and as a misogynist should see a therapist that will help you lay down your hate and deconstruct it to understand yourself better?

Where you neglected as a kid?perhaps bullied.

You aren't at fault for being bitter. But you are at fault for not changing your bitterness when you wish to.

Not op but that's a really good response and helps with similar issues I have (not women in particular but people in general) thanks

why would you avoid the truth when you know its true.
if you know a gun is loaded, why would you place it against your temple and hope the mechanism jams instead of leaving it and livem safely. your life is way more fulfilling without the deadweight that is women

Go work in retail so you learn this is largely most of the population regardless of race gender religion etc...

Then learn that all you've done is centered your lens on women because it's their attention you want so much and totally ignored the fact most men are shit too.

Fuck you don't even need retail to learn that. You just aren't going to like most people. That's life. Stop freaking out about women and you'll see .

>I've recently started seeing them as stupid/silly at best and like a completely different species, completely unrelatable or even childish at worst.
Why?
>I haven't had an actual female friend above acquaintance in years, let alone had a conversation with a woman above lame small talk.
Couldn't this be related to the first point? Maybe learning how to small talk would be helpful.
>Idk if my lack of compassion for women is due to recent life events,
Tell me about them
>just lack basic understanding of them,
What's there to understand? They're human people with complicated thought processes like everyone else.
>if I'm just becoming misanthropic in general
low empathy and loneliness can do that. Ask yourself what a human is and why it is what you think it is
>or if I'm just socially retarded.
Empathy and conversational skills can be learned

Thanks, user, good advice.

But fuck seeing a therapist. I'm not paying for an emotional prostitute who pretends to be my friend so I can make an ass out of myself in front of them.

They’re not emotional prostitutes, they’re human mirrors. Therapists help develop self-knowledge, not act as an emotional crutch. Also, they dont care if you make an ass out of yourself so you shouldnt either.

I don't know, I can't think of something more emasculating than having to pay $$$$ to see a shrink to give you advice most self-help books could give you. If I ever go down that route it will be as a last resort.

Seems fair to me, nobody is going to view you as human

>I can't think of something more emasculating than having to pay $$$$ to see a shrink to give you advice most self-help books could give you.
Fucking lol. 99% of self help books contain nothing more than the "just b urself" truisms you obstinate fucks whine about on this board.
But totally man, it's so emasculating to pay for help. That's why when I break my hands I dont go to the hospital. Can you you imagine how emasculating it would be to pay some fag who went to medical school for 8 years to fix me up? I could do that myself. Look at you, you're a trainwreck of a human being but obviously you know as much about human psychology as any shrink.

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You're a sociopathic retard. Get over your fucking self and practice empathy. Or be miserable and die alone, it makes no difference to me.

Theres your problem. You can't see reality, you only see the reality as you want it to be. Women are just people, as such they are not you, nor are they required to behave as you want them to. As you interact with more people you will learn to accept them for who they are and realize they see things and act differently than you. You made a very ill informed judgement on therapy, you actually spoke as if you knew what you were talking about, but the reality is, you don't. You could use someone basically calling you on your bullshit and helping you separate reality from your opinion.

Are you this creep who told us how he approached two women in museum?

This is the best advice ive read about this topic. Plase keep on writing, im in the OPs same situation.

If you need a good self-help book, I suggest Dr. Peterson’s 12 Rules of Life & you’ll probably agree if you know about it.

Dont listen to those people who made bad decision in their relationships

you hate them for a reason don't let the normeis bully you out of your own self, even if you feel alone you're not.

Different fag

As one who has reached the age of 30, travelled a fuck tonne and met a lot of people, heard a lot of stories, and even experienced it myself in phases...

No one who's mean bitter or hateful is in a good place in their lives. Ever. I've never met someone with all their ducks in a row who also had a cause. Happy fulfilled people dgaf about things outside their circle.

Once people feel offended assaulted or cornered, they grab the nearest invisible enemy (women, blacks, Mexicans, whites, trans, Nazis, Arabs, you fucking name it man) and March to the war drum.

fucking rekt, OP is a confirmed idiot