How do I find a boyfriend as a trans girl? Obviously most guys don't want to date a tranny...

Don't even think about that. Few men would date trans. Why mislead them? They will find out anyway sooner rather than later.

Not being upfront about it will immediately cause more problems than concealing it, especially if they don't 'pass' well.

And if they pass it can be even worse once things get intimate and both get attached.

This is how people get murdered

Let's hope it doesn't come to that.

there's more to trans people aside from being trans
I meant like go on a date first to make sure personalities match or whatever. Pointless prejudice and social stigma can get in the way before people even get to meet each other and that sucks

Why though.

Trans are not girls. Period. Straight men will not even consider dating a trans. Stop pretending that it's being bigoted.

What do you mean?

Of course, but it's not a thing like a kinky fetish you don't want to share at first because it's too kinky.
A straight person more often than not won't consider dating a trans person, it's essentially a different sexuality.

True. I want my wife to be able to have my children. This will cease to be an issue if gene therapy can ever actually turn a grown man into a grown woman. But short of that it isn't realistic to ask a man seeking a woman whom can bear his children to be anything less than annoyed at a trans wasting his time.

Why everything.

All of it.

You're going to need to be more specific.

Most young women consider trans women women. Transphobia is a male problem. See: Ipsy, Lush, Sephora

>unironically using the word microaggression
Wew

Do you have a source for this?

>i'm a cis girl so idk if my opinion matters
No it doesnt

It's no different from a gay man whining that a straight man is bigoted because he won't date him.

I don't see how is this a problem.
OP is already going to have a harder time because of that condition.
If someone is close minded enough to reject seeing a trans person once they know they're trans or think much less of them instead of starting on neutral grounds it's probably not going to work.
You have to be rather open minded to be with a trans, if you're willing you'll be willing from the beginning.
Hoping to make them like you only to then drop that bomb once they're attached is plain sleazy and will be much worse.

Of course it's a predominantly male problem. Trans women are usually, "Straight".

>Most young women consider trans women women
Perhaps it's less of a problem for them since they can't reproduce with other women anyway.

Stop trying to put your dick in my mouth and tell me that you're a woman.

No one here except OP is trans.

You can be upfront and lacking in pride on Tinder and it might work out. Say "I am trans female and if my penis bothers you swipe left" be very upfront about it. I don't know what trolling is like on there though.

You make a dating profile that states you are a tranny looking for men
Are you retarded as well?

Only tards look for men. That goes without saying.

How dare those close-minded straight men not want to date another man!

Don't look at me, I wouldn't either.

In the beginning there was nothing but nature does not suffer nothing well. Very slowly, over many trillions of years, through random chance quantum particle production began producing significant amounts of muons. These muons eventually became dense enough that gravity allowed them to aggregate together. This further increased gravitational variation which further collected up muons until pressure finally caused them to begin fusing.

This dim slow spark began heating the universe, which add more energy to the systems developing around clusters of muons. As those energy levels increased, and muons continued to fuse and break down again, non-muonic hydrogen made its first appearance.

Once there was enough hydrogen in the universe, the first star in our local universe formed, lived and super nova'd heavier elements which would form the basis for all the galaxies we can see and is now known as "the big bang". Which is quite appropriate for how big it was.

And from there you can pursue any given history of the universe thus far. That's the "all of it". The why is that there is no why. The universe doesn't care and you don't matter. But that's fine, nobody does. We're all equally unimportant in the grand non-scheme of things. You're free in a way you may never truly understand. Try to have a good time of it.

Yuuup. Idk ANY dude that would do anything even remotely similar to consider it.

And they don't have the body of a man neither, so gays won't be interested.

>close minded
I need a "woman" with a uterus. If science someday makes it possible for a trans woman to grow their own uterus, then we can talk about this being an issue of being "close minded".

Wouldn't it be just WAAAAY easier if you look out for a trans boy? Just sayin :v

This seems the ideal solution.

If it works, perfect, but to me it sounds like arming a bomb and hoping it won't explode.

Be up front about who you are and what you're looking for
Unfortunately, trans people are often fetishized especially in the online dating scene; you'll find people to have sex with you but any kind of LTR action is going to be rare.

Specificly why? Please expand on that concept.

So then be upfront about wanting to settle down/get a real relationship, someone will be up to it.

If a woman is born without a uterus does that make her not a woman?

Btw this is true for almost any relationship xD

If man is born as a man, that makes him not a woman.

From my limited experience with trans people they're dealing with a lot of image, identity and self esteem problems.
Surgery not being what they expected, the idea that they're never going to be what they want, that they can't relate to normal people, etc. Because of that lots of trans people are very depressed, and putting together two depressed individuals doesn't tend to be a good idea.

It would be more effective to say "If a woman is born sterile is she not a woman"?

That has nothing to do with what I asked
Yeah

Male or female isn't simply a matter of organs, or their functionality, it's a distinct and irrefutable differential at the genetic level. It's something that shapes the individual, and not something that can simply be changed retroactively.

You're just bullshitting. Just say you don't want to fuck a trans.

No straight man wants to fuck a trans.

I'd fuck a train.

Yo, OP, your best bet is to aim for bisexual people.

No stable minded cis individual wants to fuck a trans.

You can call bullshit all you want, but that's the reality of your situation. You were born a man, and you have grown and become who you are as a man. To claim that has no bearing on who you are today is only to further prove how detached you are from the reality of your own situation.

Please, get some help.

>I'd fuck a train.
Sounds painful

Okay, how do you define male and female then, because it's much more complicated than XX and XY, even when you ignore identtty.

He seemed to just define them in the post you replied to.

>Female - Thing I want to fuck and has pregnancy
>Male - Thing I don't want to fuck and causes pregnancy

it's honestly not hard, the difficult part is getting a boyfriend who is not just a chaser

If you pass, go on Grindr, and Tinder and you'll do fine.

>If a woman is born without a uterus
Man seeking woman
[ ] has kids
[x] wants kids

If she's not got a uterus or is sterile, she's not someone I'd waste time dating. If a trans woman finds a magic stone that causes them to grow a uterus, then they meet my criteria. I would be equally upset with a woman born with a fully functional uterus that had became sterile.

It's not about the fact that they're trans, it's that they're explicitly part of the group that is not what I'm looking for in a woman.

This isn't so much a problem for trans men because science has already figured out how to make an egg with dna only from two women.

There's no point to transitioning if you have to lie about your true nature, I believe in freedom of association and people doing whatever they want to their bodies but that's a retarded answer and anyone who transitions is always going to be worse off than just going to therapy for their condition. Most transexual men are repressed homosexuals who have a fetish for straight men and they're actually deluded enough to think getting their cock cut off and wearing high heals will fool Chad.

So they go on a date and their personalities match. And then what? They become friends? No the best personality in the world will want to make straight man date a person with dick.
OP should go for bisexuals instead.

>Most transexual men are repressed homosexuals who have a fetish for straight men and they're actually deluded enough to think getting their cock cut off and wearing high heals will fool Chad.
wat

>Most young women consider trans women women.
Yeah well that says a lot about the intelligence or lack thereof of young women. The reason women are more accepting of it is because they don't have to largely deal with trans 'men' and people screaming in their face that they're bigoted for not wanting to date a guy with a fake dick. I can almost guarantee you if the tables were turned and most transexuals were women transitioning into men, most women would be a lot less accepting.

Those fake dongs are so sad looking. They're like corndogs.

so you think it's better to drag it out and waste people's time?
oh nevermind you're just a delusional leftist

If you wrote this have a (You)

How about a kiss? For luck.

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So you up for it? Very thoughtful of you to clean your stomach so I don't get a bad taste.

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They are the exact same "corn dogs" regular men are stuck with for the time being if they get their natal dick blown/ripped off and need one reconstructed, just so you know

So? What's your point?

If this were regarding non-trans (ie. cis or intersex) men I doubt any of you spineless fucks would be this edgy.

get a transfaggot male (female). Then you can kill yourselves together.
*diamond dozen

Because one is an accident we're sympathetic to, the other is a case of a delusional degenerate mutilating itself.

I'm not being edgy. It's objective fact that the genitalia we can "scavenge" nowadays is pretty bad and barely functional.
Whether you're trans, a man that lost his penis, it doesn't matter. The situation unfortunately sucks absolute ass.

Because real women (with natural vaginas) don't typically have strong moral compasses or principles. They were also some of the first to accept faggots in our culture too. Meeting women with strong backbones is hard these days. They are too busy grabbing at leftist brownie points.

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Who's being edgy?

Change back to a guy and become gay

so who's left for trans people to date? bisexuals and weird fetishists? other trans people?

Bisexuals and other trans people sounds about right, yes. It's not cool but it is how it is.

Sure, but let's not get carried away. It's almost never about future improvements or about making the best of things; a lot of discussion on constructed genitals dives straight into endless tranny bashing. While not purposefully directed at cis people who get these exact same surgeries, the same destructive messages of worthlessness and inauthenticity carry over.

People in general don't typically have strong moral compasses or principles. Men just have more responsibilities and less social support, so they need to be more cautious about rocking the boat.
If UBI ever becomes a thing I'm convinced everyone, men and women both, will make Babylon look like Puritan Massachusetts.

No she isn't.

>People in general don't typically have strong moral compasses or principles
Why? What constitutes a strong moral compass?

Oh boy, you walked into literally Hitler's delusional wheelhouse

Sounds like fun!

Get to fucking know them just like everyone else has to do to make sure their partners are real and not just in it to hit it

I don't know why you fuckboys think all this attention you're getting from fat uggos on the internet makes you different from everyone else. You're still human dipshit, you still have to get to know people the same-ass way every other human does. By being exposed to them, interacting with them, and seeing them in different life scenarios.

Pro tip, and this isn't just for hatchet wound survivors. If you're not willing to spend time with someone platonic, as just a friend, you shouldn't be getting romance anywhere near them. Start with the basics.
You niggas want to make a sandwich without bread, the way you talk and act about this shit.

A set of beliefs in line with basic principles (that is, things which SHOULD be but aren't necessarily), which are made and followed specifically to further those principles. For example if one holds a principle of non-aggression, a moral stemming from it would declare assault to be wrong.

Most people don't do any of this, they simply have vague ideas of "good" and "bad" implanted in them through exposure, and any attempts to form "morals" by these people are really just ex-post-facto attempts at rationalization by connecting a given action to known "good" or "bad" actions. In reality, they're just justifying a feeling they had to begin with by proxy. I'm sure you've seen this--in political debates, when opposing sides start fighting over values, it almost invariably devolves into the meaningless platitudes from "love is love!" (implying love is a universal good) to "every life is precious!" (usually by the same conservatives who support hunting and the death penalty).
This isn't to say that either of those beliefs is necessarily wrong, either--I just want to point out that they are only surface-level. And that itself must be qualified by saying people can sincerely and strongly believe in things on a surface level, it's just that they shouldn't be called morals.

You're welcome to join us, user.

Date faggots, OP

>I don't know why you fuckboys think all this attention you're getting from fat uggos on the internet makes you different from everyone else
Where did that come from?

I think he replied to the wrong thread

That's a surprisingly fast answer for this board.

dont be a dick