I'm a britbong sperg and I've spent the last month or so trying to find the opportunity to ask her and while I've had several near-perfect opportunities I never actually do anything.
We get along well enough, she laughs at my jokes, and I don't even care that much what she says at this point. Obviously I hope she'll say yes but desu it's more important I get this off my chest and stop disappointing myself with this autistic bullshit.
I've been told I'm pretty decent-looking, my mates are all behind me and I don't think she'll react badly, but I'm just making excuses and procrastinating like I always do with stuff like this.
>hey anonette, would you like to catch some drinks at XX this saturday starting 20:00? :) Copy paste, send to crush, switch xx with the name of a bar you two know. Here's a few things I've learned. >many women don't consider you as a partner (sexual/relationship) but will start doing so when you actually make moves like asking her on dates >if a woman seems to like you she'll react very positively to your date invitation 99% of the time, even if she refuses for any reason >if you're single and crushing that hard on a girl it's basically a sin to not act on it and initiate something.
Isaac Scott
This, it's 2018 and texting as ask people on dates is the norm, no need for autists to try to make it work in person.
Brandon Cook
>send to crush Don't have her number, don't have any social media. I was going to start off by asking for her number but I never initiate conversation with her, always brush it off with "I'll just do it next time" or "I'll have a better opportunity tomorrow" It's been weeks of those same excuses to try it later. I try convincing myself that all the good signs are there or "if I'm going to do it now is the time" or "if I don't do it today I'll never do it" but it doesn't work. Can't hype myself up to do it, can't just impulsively do it, all I'm left with is this nagging idea that I NEED to ask her out.
See above, I don't have any way to contact her outside of college email network.
Oliver Fisher
well picture it like this: -worst case scenario she says: >no wtf gtfo creep -best case scenario she accepts
WORST FUCKING CASE SCENARIO: -you torment yourself and waste precious time regretting (aka feeling bad)
that rejection will be brutal but will heal faster, regret just slowly roasts your soul away
William Mitchell
>no need for autists to try to make it work in person. >it's autistic to ask someone out in person Fucking kids. What would you without your phones?
Robert Reed
I know man, I know. I'm not scared, it's just in the moment I'm struck by an intense bout of apathy and I can't get myself to do it. I guess I'll have to keep trying or maybe get one of my mates to force the situation so I have no choice but to ask her out? idk.
Christopher Smith
>Can't hype myself up to do it, can't just impulsively do it, all I'm left with is this nagging idea that I NEED to ask her out. Listen to that nagging idea. If you crush on this girl it's basically a sin to not ask her out. Your time's running out
Jack Torres
don't get me wrong I do the same shit as you. Waiting for the perfect moment, and the perfect me but I begin to slowly realize that shit ain't gonna happen.
But now I hate that feeling of regret more than getting rejected or being awkward. Maybe you will feel the same. Problem is that time is draining away and the regret will get bigger, so learn from my mistakes and just act, learn, adapt and act again until you make it.
Parker Young
I'll try mate. Don't want to end up missing another shot and never knowing what could've been.
Yeah but there is always chance she could just not respond if he texts her. Asking in person is better, he just needs to force himself.
Aiden Perry
Don't wait for the perfect moment. It's a delusion. Just fucking ask her that's it
Cooper Ross
fuck off
Ayden Turner
Take the advice of old /b/ and do it faggot. Here's my story:
>be 25 year old khv with below average dick >get hired at ice cream shop as shift manager >uniform is hat and bright orange apron >my store is a corporate owned location that hosts training for other locations in the franchise >21 year old qt grill comes from another location to train new employees on machine maintenance, mixing flavors, inventory, etc every few weeks >she's gorgeous, friendly, sassy, creative, helpful, and plays Fire Emblem Awakening on Classic Lunatic during her breaks >trains me to be middle management >my store is all high school girls so I work the day shifts from opening to 4pm except Wednesdays and Sundays off >most kids graduate and quit at the same time >qt now works 4-9pm with a high school chick from 5:30-9pm except Wednesdays she takes my shift, and someone from another store closes >spend several months staying after my shift to talk to her until her helper arrives >put off asking her out for a while after learning she's single >decide today is the day, worst case she says no >she's cleaning a machine in the back while helper is up front with customers >gather every ounce of testicular fortitude in my body to ask her out for tacos after work Wednesday just as friends >have raging erection hidden by untied apron >"hey qt do you have a minute?" >"what's up user?" >ask "are you free after work Wednesday?" while walking towards her >slip on a water spill, hit my forehead on a machine, roll onto back on floor >am laying on the floor in pain bleeding with a pounding headache and boner >she grabs the first aid kit and an ice pack and begins tending to my cut >this 9.5/10's undivided attention gets drawn to my small undeniably erect dick draped with a bright orange apron for extra visibility >she blushes, laughs, and is embarrassed >agrees to the "date" >ends up enjoying herself, requests a movie "date" >3rd dinner "date" she asks to be my girlfriend >3 years later we're engaged
Nathan Reed
That was amazing user, hope you and your other have a happy life
