My GF of 5 years just threatened to stab me over the stupidest thing, am I going crazy?
>At home, getting dinner ready. She's in the shower. >Prepared chicken. >she asks if I washed it with lemon >I said no, but I tell her that I will wash it again once I prep the salad. >something flips in her head
>GF: "you know I wash my chicken with lemon, why did you forget"? >me: no problem, I will wash it again with lemon >GF: starts to yell and scream, asking why I forgot to do it >me: (in a calm tone) "it's ok, I will wash it again" >GF: yelling gets worse and she starts berating me
That was when I lost my shit, I yelled back, calling her crazy.
That's when she threatened to stab me in the stomach with my kitchen knife.
I leave the house.
Today, she texts me saying how she doesn't know why she goes from 0-100. Also mentions how she doesn't even remember her actions.
At this point, I am considering leaving her while she's at work. Change numbers and just vanish.
That's not period rage, get her to go to anger management. I get moody on my period, but more in the "you raised your voice too loudly at me now I'm going to cry until you either have sex with me or buy me chocolate and tampons".
Angel Roberts
That's more than pms. She needs help.
Ayden Baker
That's fucking nuts. I don't know about vanishing, but you should probably break up. Even come up with some bullshit reason so it seems like you both want to move on.
Do you have any real reason to stay with her?
Colton Brown
What the fuck are you even talking about Washing chicken with lemon? What the fuck does that even mean?
Joseph Sanders
That doesn't sound like a period
Dominic Bennett
>Change numbers and just vanish. this gets my vote fuck having to worry about the person you live with stabbing you get out of there, user
Grayson Butler
You don't wash your chicken with lemon? How do you make it tender for chicken tendies?
Tyler Reyes
apartment lease is up next summer.
she sent me a long text about how this has been happening for about 10 years.
Tells me that I should be supportive and be there for her instead of storming out of the house.
I just dont even.
Alexander Jenkins
See how she responds to: "I didn't storm out. You were threatening to kill me."
Support her by taking her to a psychiatrist. If she refuses then you're gone, man.
Benjamin Butler
>10 years Leave, dude.
Ayden Peterson
Wash? Wtf? Am I misunderstanding the word wash?
Justin Rivera
>How crazy do girls get during their periods?
Not that crazy, wew
Nolan Butler
how can I vanish without a trace?
She knows where I work.
I'm thinking about telling my mom and then move across the county, start fresh.
What drives me fucking insane is how she makes it seem like it's all my fault. She downplays her actions, and manipulates it to her advantage.
Holy fuck, I need to get out here.
Blake Campbell
>"you need to support me even when I'm threatening to kill you" she was born on a one way street
I think you can break up with her. She may kill you.
Colton Adams
Holy shit user dump that crazy cunt
Anthony Campbell
She's gonna prepare YOU and wash you up with lemon, OP. Get out while you still can.
Or ask her if she likes knifeplay/BDSM so she can get that anger out in the bedroom.
Maybe you can incorporate the lemon washing too.
Xavier Bailey
I think he means marinate
Nathaniel Mitchell
Sounds pretty bad. Reminds me of my period girlfriend; >gf asks me to go downstairs to the gym with her >we go, get done with treadmill, start lifting >I suggest she does some lifting too >she grabs the dumbbell out of my hand and starts swinging it around yelling "there, is that enough lifting for you user!?" >I leave the gym without her and she runs after me, I make it back to the apartment without her >she walks in without saying a word >starts packing her shit and telling me she's gonna leave >I grab her and tell her she's being crazy and she stops
I'm a woman and I hang out with women and yes periods can make you sometimes a bit moody, or in my case, tearful, but it doesn't make girls go nuts. That's a meme.
Your gf has problems
Ayden Barnes
>Maybe you can incorporate the lemon washing too.
I died, thank you for the laughs user
Josiah Evans
stab = pegging
consider yourself lucky
Brandon Williams
Sounds like she has anger issues combined with maybe hormonal imbalance. Try to get her to use this app myflotracker.com/
taking her to a psychiatrist, like others suggested might be wise as well, but be considerate to her feelings, since she is probably just as frustrated and upset by her behaviour as you are. (Might be bipolar)
Can't stress the "myflo" app enough, though. It does wonders. It also sends you an email each week to instruct you on how to treat your girlfriend (Since each part of the hormonal cycle is different and needs different support from you)
Luis Long
Yeah man just get out of there. If a chick ever threatens violence it's time to leave because either: A) she's nuts and will actually stab you. or B) she's nuts and is trying to manipulate you knowing that you are socially and legally prevented from retaliation. In either case she's a fucking psycho and you need to get out of there. When you go, leave a note telling her why, just for that extra satisfaction.
Oliver Hill
My mother would do this all the time to my step-father, and she was never on her period.
Your girlfriend is just a manipulative cunt who threw a tantrum cause you didn't follow HER routine.
The threatening to STAB you is your reason to leave, that is a threat to your life and its unacceptable.
Tyler Russell
This guy washes
Robert Taylor
Listen to this user. Seriously, she's a psycho, she might have just let her mask of sanity slip for the first time and it's only going to get worse as time goes on.
Isaac Fisher
I usually see women get a little more emotional (more prone to getting sad, or ignoring you, depending). Going apeshit and threatening to stab you is behavior fit for someone in a rubber room. I wouldn't even try to get her help, I'd just bail. It's not going to get any better from here on out.
Gavin Hall
What the fuck is washing your chicken with lemon?? Is this some American thing like eating deep fried Coke or chopping a part of your penis off?
PMs is practically a myth. Studies have been done where women were to rank their moods in a journal daily.
Then later they were asked to rank their moods in hindsight from memory. During their periods they reported normal emotions, then in hindsight reported they were crazy emotional. It's all perception.
There are women who suffer from PMs, they are very rare.
In other words, more likely an excuse than a cause.
Tyler Nguyen
>Today, she texts me saying how she doesn't know why she goes from 0-100. Also mentions how she doesn't even remember her actions.
Uhhh, some bitches are crazy. There is no, should I leave. Fucking leave. Are you stupid? Yes, because you are making a thread on Jow Forums trying to convince yourself if you should stay or go. Male or female, this isn't normal.
Likely has bipolar or some other chemical imbalance that causes mood swings
Adam Jackson
Vanish. Do it. Now. That woman is going to go off the real deep end someday soon. You do not want to be anywhere remotely associated when it does happen and it will be much harder to leave - and that's if you're lucky enough for it to be manageable. Just. Leave. Now.
