Fuuuck

No I mean she says "after what you reminded me about yesterday" what is she referring to?

Reminded her that she kissed me years ago

This

>YEARS AGO
Holy autistic fuck, abandon thread boys

"lol of course. I appreciate you being so clear"

Abort the mission OP

"oh ya ur an ugly bitch anyway haha lol no guy wants u"

the proper response

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This, play it cool, unless you're actually some sperg that's been strung along for YEARS just to get some, in which case do but a little nicer.

basically responded with
guess its time to move on, she was probably gonna tell me sooner or later anyway...

Green text needed

Bruh if a girl kissed you 3 years ago and not since it was time to move on a long time ago.

hence

The only way to respond to this is to accept it. Tell her yeah ofcourse as friends! Obviously!

Then you either blow her off sunday or cancel on her saturday saying you got some other thing to do. Any excuse. Cuz you're "just friends" right?

But if you tell her right now that it was a date you look like an idiot.

I have plenty of friends already. Have a nice day.

14 years ago
I just recently caught up with her

>Used to go to Middle school with this girl
>Had a major crush on her but was always rebuffed
>Last day of school she kisses me, never see her again since
>14 Years Later
>add her on FB years later and send her a hi
>She responds and we setup a meetup
>Catch up with her, everything goes well the first time and manage to get her to meet again for a night out
>Second night goes ok, end up bringing up said event near the end of the night
>fast forward to OP

So basically you've been trying to get into her life without actually making your intentions clear? Now tell me why she would want a romantic relationship with you?

Oh sorry I read your original thing as that she kissed you three years ago, not just years ago. 14 years ago makes it worse.

>14 Years Later

Yeah, dude this chick isn't down.

I have no idea but I think that I did make my intentions clear

The only mistake that I may have made would have been that I spilled the spaghetti too early

I am curious why she kissed you in the first place then

Probably out of pity

other girls exist user

none will be my first crush again

You want the truth?

See the girl probably was curious about you, but the moment you reminded her of something that happened 14 years ago made you seem needy, she probably didnt remember it as much as you do.

Girls are weird friend, you have to be careful with what you say because they have this amazing sixth sense to detect your desperation.

Ive been there before, it sucks.

loads of angry manchildren ITT who cant handle rejection

say something like "oh, you misunderstood something, its all good"
be vague, she thinks she all figured you out "aw poor boy in love in me but my top class pussy only gets wet for man tehee", prove her wrong, play the game
but dont forget you might not ever fuck her, thus you should play the game with other girls

vindicative and bitter replies will only reassure her you are all over her, also will blame you and try to shame you for being that "nice" guy who befriends girls only to get into their pants, which we all do, the difference is if you get busted or not

I mean shit dude I'd say you don't really have a chance. Can probably save face by playing it off that it's a misunderstanding.

Dont reply.
Leave it as it is and cut all possible contact.
Never talk to her again, even when she comes back on her knees after you get a girlfriend and shes been dumped by chad.

Yeah right, because saying "you misunderstood me" wont make you look like youre trying too hard to not make it seem that you obviously were hitting on her...

>my underage ass is on fire
why are you youngsters so shit at everything, what were your parents doing, fucking useless generation

The fact that you're so upset about this tells me you want something more with this girl, which she clearly isn't interested in by her statement, there's no shame in cancelling and being honest with her that you want something more but she doesn't so you don't want to waste either of your time

I agree with cancelling ( I would flake on her ) but OP doesn't need to give her a whole spiel about wanting to be with her and what not. She already knows he was interested and she's making it clear she isn't.

OP just tell her that's fine, don't show up and if she texts you (she won't) say something came up.
More than likely she's gonna flake on you though.

Don't respond, and delete her number. Don't talk to her ever again. You'll thank me later. Love and attractions are mutual, and she doesn't love or like you and isn't attracted to you in that way. Why would you ever settle for less than what you want or think you deserve, especially in a relationship? Ignore this bitch and get on with your life.

And if you're smart you're not going to

Admit that it's a lost cause, and move on.

This would probably be my reply.

Is there literally any social benefit of having a platonic female friend as an adult other than to be introduced other girls who are single?

Women tend to have a slightly different approach to friendship (less about doing shit together and more focused on emotional support and getting to know each other well) which is refreshing/fun to some.
More importantly though, people you really connect well with, can learn from, feel on the same wavelength with AND are loyal, committed friends are rare. Obviously OP's unrequited crush doesn't fall under this because it would be a consolation friendship. But friends are very important and most people lose theirs as they age. It is silly to exclude half the human race for potential friendship, it's going to be the exception to find a lasting one anyway.

Should I ask her why she friendzoned me?

In most cases I would suggest aborting (most people here think they are in love and can't handle being friends with someone they have feelings for) but if you're catching up with an old "flame" I'd just say "Yeah that's fine just a friendly hangout" and see how the vibe plays out.

She only said that because she perceives you're still into her and doesn't want you to have any expectations. You probably shouldn't have brought up that you kissed years ago. If you're an adult now, and that was a long time ago it's really cringey to even mention it. Don't worry we've all been there, but understand women live in the moment and don't want to feel pressured to do anything romantically. Asking someone out on a date you don't have a recent rapport with comes with a lot of expectations but maybe if you played your cards right she would realize she's into you? If you don't have anything better to do, why not spend an hour or two with her? If you're not feeling it or don't see it going where you want you could always just stop hanging with her.

Sucks to be you. I'm a great dicking.

if you wanted to fuck this bitch/gf her, the dont respond, your done move on.

if you just want to be friends ith her (fag) then respond.

>14 year starts later

What were you thinking? Why do you live in the past so hard???

>holding on to a first crush 14 years later even after she already made it clear she doesn't like you like that

I'm sorry but dude you have GOT to grow up, this is painful

the only option. vocaroo.com/i/s0zHkGFCIsVe

Text her "lol u know u gonna b riding this dick in a week anyway"

vocaroo.com/i/s1xwwJWPJALD

Welp, you are dumb. But at least you know it's not worth fucking around with now.

>wondering why something happened in middle school
People change, especially young people. The more time you spend apart the more you diverge.

Seriously, your chances are better with someone you never met before than someone who gave you positive attention years and years ago.

This.

She’s doing you a favor by being up front and clear.

If you respond at all, don’t be emotional.

No u dumbass

This.

OP, there's no "recovering" from this in the sense of getting a chance with her, and you're not really gonna be able to become friends with her most likely.

Don’t remind people of things... like when their profile says “no one over 22” and you remind them when they say “Hey” that you’re 25...

just remember friends pay their own half of the bill

thats it op either be friends or leave

Bail bail bail, you're on your own faggot.

>See you around, kid

Yes. DEMAND an explination.

Won't work. That cocky shit only works if she's already physically attracted to you, or you have undeniably high value. Otherwise, it will come off as the unaware sperg with unwarranted confidence.

... you need an explanation? It's because she doesn't see you as a romantic prospect.