Situation: My gf and I planed a trip to a tropical paradise. She booked the tickets, I booked the airbnb
One week before the departure, we had a figjt and she bailed out on me. She doesn't want to go anymore.
I have been thru hell and back these last couple of days. I feel like an idiot because I started the fight (should've kept my mouth shut)
Anyways, my question is -- what would be the right thing to do in this situation? Should I go alone on the trip feeling like an idiot or should I just cancel the entire trip altogether?
He can, but then his wife will probably blow it out of proportion and wonder who he's fucking on the side.
>What would be the right thing to do Apologize and both of you go, if that doesn't work sell the tickets or see if you can trade them in for something of equal value.
Tyler Jackson
Oh man, I tried apologizing, I begged her and pleaded, she just yelled at me and blew me off.
She has the airplane tickets, I can just cancel the airbnb and its flexible they will keep just the service fee
Anthony Ward
What did you fight about?
It takes two to fight but I wonder the details. If she is being ridiculous to this point either it was a really sensitive thing, or you fight often and should break up.
Charles Reed
... Jesus OP what the fuck did you say?
Sebastian Gonzalez
I asked her why has she been so distant to me these days. I felt like she's avoiding me. She told me its because I was too cold with her to which I replied yeah I was upset at you for being so stubborn and domineering this past week and then all hell ensued, she started yelling, and then bailed out. We have been dating for about five months
Christopher Wright
It's over. Go on the trip with a friend so the money doesn't go to waste. Learn from this and find someone compatible and you both should learn to communicate with the next person you date.
Live and learn.
Matthew Peterson
It's a really tldr version but yeah it was inane
Andrew Morgan
Wow... Just, wow.
Yeah, I - um... wow.
If she blows up over trivial matters like that then imagine what would happen if an incredibly serious issue came...
Ayden Evans
I know, i know, that is why I avoided bringing up all her issues and instead became cold to her. I just wanted to finish this trip and get on with our lives
Jose Davis
I understand OP. :/ I was that kind of girlfriend before so I won't say LOL DUMP HER just yet, if at all. Let me ask:
>Has she started any new medications, birth control being the top of that list. >Do you still love her? >Does she still love you?
Benjamin Cooper
1. No but she might be on her period. Our plane leaves tomorrow.
2. Yes shes a wonderful woman . Always smiled and sunny. Always cheerful. Except when she's not yelling at me ofcourse :)
3. Don't know. She was pretty dismissive of me last time we heard. She didn't even cared to speak to me in person I had to speak to her on the phone in front of her building.
Angel Sullivan
>1. No but she might be on her period. Don't blame it on her period. Hormones can do some fucked up shit but, something like that isn't something that you could blame on a period.
Carson Martin
>1 I'll believe it, we become quite, uh... Psychotic during those days; hormones all out of whack, plus our cervix throwing a tantrum for us not giving it a baby to cradle; cramps are..ugh... Birth Control x Mood Elevators made for a fun fucking ride 1000% of the time. Hence why I asked about medication.
>2 She may be sunny and cheerful, but if it's not only the hormones, then she may have deeper demons to deal with and you just happen to be the punching bag. She needs to realize that if she continues acting like a little shit she's gonna be a SINGLE little shit. I'm extremely lucky my guy stayed with me - of course, I got my share of drama from him but holy fuck.
>3 I hope she still loves you OP, and I mean that. Women can be quite unpredictable in our emotions, so I hope she isn't stringing you along...
It kind of can, actually. I can't speak for EVERY woman, but her exploding over trivial matters screams hormonal.
Camden Roberts
Sorry, womb.
Eli Nguyen
Thank you for the kind words and explanation. I definitely understand her, I know she's very emotional. I would really want to go with her together but I don't know how to address her needs and worries. I was really honest poured myself before her but that didn't work.
Ryder Baker
I hope it helped.
Another question, as it just popped into my head...How often do these explosions happen? Before her cycle, during- or whenever the fuck she wants. I don't wanna go that path, but something tells me she may be doing this to test the waters...Get a rise out of you, play the victim - that sort of thing.
Elijah Thompson
Almost every time we get in a disagreement... She doesn't start out frantic but if we argue for some time say an hour, she will
Noah Peterson
It's all right tho, I accepted her that way and we were cool. Sorry for replying somewhat later btw
Jaxon Harris
Cancel the trip. Save your money.
Easton Robinson
Take that girl from the sandwich shop. Just be all like, hey how would you like to spend a week in paradise with me?
