I’m gay and I’m having sex (bottoming) with a guy for the first time tomorrow. We’ve been seeing each other on and off for a long time so I’m comfortable and he knows it’s my first time I wouldn’t trust anyone else but some of my close friends whose a girl said it’s really painful. She said theirs nothing I can do but just deal with it, which sounds really bad. Which is why ive kind of skirted around doing it also besides being just shy (I’m 23 and Ive never had sex) but I trust this guy enough. Is their anyway to make it less painful besides just a lot of lube and prep? I’m hoping because she’s a girl maybe it’s different and it will be fun for me.
You're going to be sticking another man's penis inside your butthole. Yeah, that'll likely hurt. Get ready for anal cancer, rectal cancer, HIV, AIDS, Hep C, anal fissures, eventual constant leakage and future suicide attempts.
Daniel Parker
Ha! Gay!
Noah Allen
what kind of fucking ass backwards logic is this comic trying to say?
Brandon Perry
>moralfag still bothered Teehee so funny! Uh pic completely unrelated but some people can’t handle rejection so they never try, and then they wonder why they’re alone/end up feeling sorry for themselves when they’re really just content in their own rut and won’t self reflect. I used to be like that lol so I have it saved.
Benjamin Torres
>she >he Are you fucking a tranny?
Also please use a condom.
Jacob Bennett
No my female bestfriend told me about her experiences with anal.
We’re both clean but yeah I wouldn’t let him fuck me raw the first time lol
Owen Lee
Ive got a gf. We do very rarely anal because it hurts like hell for her. Sometimes she is very horny and we start off slowly with a finger or whatever but no matter how much prep we do or how much we use spit, after 3 cm of dick it seems to be waay to much. Btw im also on the girthier side.
Also we have some dildos and plugs which are at my place and I found myself experimenting with them.
Beeing overall 30cm higher in height and also beeing at all bigger my asshole might just be more flexible or whatever, but if i am in the bathtube and horny, i dont need much spit that i can slide in a good portion of a rubber or glass dildo nearly painless, or so little that the pleasure actually is way much stronger than the pain.
Btw. Sometimes she puts a finger up my bum and this hurts way more than a much larger dildo. It really depends on the object, the way of insert and salvia or what ever you are using.
I suggest also a way of enema for more room down there.
Christopher Sullivan
No moral grandstanding in understanding that this is a horrible idea
Aaron Lopez
Maybe it’s because she’s a girl then, my friend said she can only handle it for a little bit before she makes her boyfriend stop.
His dick is a bit above average length wise but it’s not that fat so maybe it’ll be easier.
I’ve fingered myself in the bath/shower before and it doesn’t hurt really for me (I’m not that tall 5’11 and I’m skinny but everyone’s different I guess) but I don’t really feel pleasure either. I don’t have dildos (live with roommates).
Yeah I have eaten all day and and I won’t till after we’ve fucked tomorrow, Ive heard I should do an enema but I have no idea how to do one I guess that’s wikihow is for lol,
Thanks for actual serious feedback and advice I’m nervous and I’ll go get the enema.
Jaxson Allen
HAVEN’T EATEN***** lolll
Ayden Perez
Why would it be horrible? If I don’t like it he’ll stop, I want to try it.
Luis Mitchell
Just get lube and go slow
Lincoln Martinez
future incontinence, leaky bum, bloody bum, etc.
there's a reason nature intended it to be for exit only. Not saying you two shouldn't or can't be gay, but anal is just asking for trouble.
Asher Sanders
This guy is exaggerating because of he's obviously fagophobic but he's sorta right too.
It's going to hurt like a muthafucker. The anus and rectum was never evolved to be a pseudo-vagina. It is intended to handle soft, malleable waste materials in one direction only. It has delicate membranes and its structure can be easily damaged leading to permanent medical problems.
It's well established that bottoming guys have very submissive and often feminine mental patterns and the desire to be fucked overcomes the fear of hurt. Just like girls fear the pain of first intercourse but are driven to overcome it.
Guys fucking each other up the ass is not normal, not healthy and leads to physical and mental health issues for the recipient. There is a ton of research behind this, a lot of negative findings get redrafted to lay blame on depression linked to oppression and homophobia, but no matter how it's dressed, bottoming gays kill themselves more often and likely due to self disgust.
The whole anal sex is cool meme has been spreading over the Internet because of the gay movement trying to normalise male anal sex and the porn industry's attempt to push the boundaries (once it was blow jobs but when that became normal it moved onto anal).
Suck cock, give handjobs all you want OP. Getting your ass reamed is going to be painful and something you may not recover from, physically and mentally.
Ethan Rogers
>moralfags still bothering, now with full paragraphs the expect me to read I know I have lube, and he wouldn’t hurt me he’s just more experienced and I dunno it’s scary the idea I’ll hate it and I’ll never have sex
Noah Sullivan
>>moralfags you know what, fuck you OP. get fucked in the ass, hell raw feels great go ahead you're using lube anyway. you won't hate it, you'll fucking love and should keep doing it
Thanks babes if I like it we will go raw next time ;)
Liam Roberts
dude stop being a bussy and take it up the ass, it won't hurt.
Jose Russell
I can’t help I’m more comfortable with thrussy:(
But I’m gonna dw el o el
Caleb Bell
Lube, prep and relax, what the fuck is this even a question for? I'm a straight guy and I prep for anal better than you. Step it the fuck up, homo.
Importantly, most of this is on the giver, not the taker, so if you're one of those rubes who gets catfished easily, maybe consider having an out. Seriously though, just fucking relax and get into it. Worry less, it'll take some pretty fucked up ignorance to really damage you.
Camden Perry
I’ve never had anal sex lol I’m shy:( I’ve done all of this but relax I just can’t lol I’m gonna take some zzzquil soon though so I don’t stay up all night being nervous and idk I’ll try when the time comes I can’t see it though
No we’ve hooked up quite a few times and we see each other all the time were close friends or a thing or something I’m not sure anymore but yeah he’s definetly not a catfish LOL
Anyway I did the enema so yay for me I’m doing this properly
Joshua Campbell
>>moralfags still bothering, now with full paragraphs the expect me to read Has less to do with moralfaggotry and actual advice.
If you don't prep for this shit you could damage your sphincter, which will absolutely lead to problems down your life. It's a muscle like anything else. Lube and full relaxation are absolutely mandatory too, otherwise you can tear something.
Daniel Kelly
I know but telling me not to have sex ever is nonsense, I have plenty of friends who have lots of sex an are fine, i refuse to acknowledge that. I’m not just gonna stay a virgin forever and topping doesn’t appeal to me I will maybe one day if my pal guy whatever wants me too but idk he’s never asked and I don’t wanna Also I probably would have alreadyI’m just a baby who had to wait for a real person I liked.
Already said like 50 times I’ve had lube, yeah idk how to relax I just am a nervous person but I’m gonna start by
Leaving this thread at least till tomorrow
And I guess I’ll take a Xanax tomorrow since relaxing is so important
I have lube and
Lucas Bennett
It’s gonna be fine I know if I made this thread because I was nervous and I’m not gonna sike myself out I wanna do this and he wouldn’t hurt me
