So I'm a female heterosexual who sometimes wonders if it's really my sexuality. I don't see myself feeling attracted to girls, but I have dreams where I'm simply bisexual or wet ones where I have sexy moments with girls and I'm totally okay with it. I even sometimes imagine what would it be if I dated a girl and this happened when I was younger too. Also feel some kind of affection towards them, but I really don't feel attracted even when I also have masturbated with lesbian porn? So yes, it's kinda confusing when I think about it. I think I have never had a crush on a girl, so I usually think that until I do, I'll define myself as heterosexual. I'm adding that I also had a crush on a transgender girl, but I never knew she was a girl until later and I was kinda like well, I think I wouldn't mind. Does anyone know about this? Give me some help
Am I Bisexual?
from what I understand basically every girl goes through this in their life. it's pretty normal for females.
i think its usually second year at college/ uni where all girls have a lesbian stage. totally normal for girls at least
Try it out. If it doesn't work out then you'll know for sure.
I can say from experience that fantasizing and thinking something might be okay can be very different than actually doing it.
I'm a woman who was involved in a MFF threesome. I liked the other woman, I thought it would be fun to experiment with them, and I wanted to be attracted to them. But in the end, no matter how much I wanted, I just wasn't.
I'm not saying that you aren't or can't be attracted to women or to be bisexual. That may be the case, and it's perfectly fine to experiment! Just be aware that there's a difference between fantasy and reality. Attraction is attraction and isn't really under our control. But my guess is that if you like the idea of having sex with women, but don't actually feel a physical desire, then you may find that the reality doesn't live up to the fantasy.
Here is the way it works for men.
>if you would never do anything sexual with a guy even you found him attractive, you're straight
>if you'd be willing to try anything sexual with a guy, you're gay.
No gray area, no kinsey scale. Bi is something gay people label themselves if they also fuck women, but they're gay in the eyes of regular men.
Which are you?
So the fact that my husband experimented once with a guy and decided it wasn't for him completely negates the fact that 99.9% of his relationships and sexual experience have been heterosexual. Cool. Good to know.
its normal for women to find eachother attractive, you're meant to share chads cock.
No, you're not bisexual or gay, you are just young. Please don't fall for the "gay fad" it will lead you to places you do not want to go.
hahahahaha nice catch you have there
he'll leave you to be with a man once he's forty and miserable
you have no idea how many paranoid gay guys get married just to have an alibi
>can't have been bob at the gay club he's married with kids
it's a well documented phenomenon. you'd better treat him well
He's mid-thirties, confident in his heterosexuality, and our marriage is doing fantastically. Thanks for the concern.
Ehh, I think male sexuality goes like this: Straight, Gay, Jailhouse Gay and Degenerate.
This user is a disease, do not listen to it, only suffering awaits if you believe its madness.
Re: being turned on by lesbian porn
Females are designed to become aroused by pretty much anything that resembles sex, because it's adaptive for them to be lubricated and pliable if sex is happening to them. If they aren't, it can hurt them.
I thought about this too. Maybe it's because it's just sex
Yeah, the dude is a fag lol.
>vice: why straight men are having sex with their male friends, and that's a good thing!
user...
hey all the best of luck, really, if you treat him well he is going to stick around
just don't say I didn't warn you if he disappears in his forties to stop hiding who he really is.
some of these men live out their entire lives married in fear of being outed, but more and more feel emboldened to come out of the closet, even if it means abandoning a wife and two kids. you think the fat guy in the sopranos isn't based on a true story? it's a true story that virtually all of us will see happen to someone in their circle of friends during their lifetime
>citing vice
>citing an article that unironically uses "and thats a good thing"
>believing obvious lies
This is what evil looks like. Make note and do not fall prey as many before you have.
>I sucked a dick but I'm not gay
>yes you are
>wow wtf you're evil
are you sure you aren't a vice reporter
I know that it happens. If it does, it will hurt, but I will support him.
However, there is a big difference between trying something and liking it, and trying something and not. I know that not everybody would even give it a shot, but the point isn't that he tried it. The point is that he tried it and didn't like it.
Not every woman who experiments with other women is a lesbian waiting to leave. Some people experiment and find that it's what feels right. Other people experiment and find that it isn't what they want. Either way, they develop a stronger understanding of themselves one way or the other.
This is how a manipulative sociopath crafts a narrative. It is a trap, listening to their lies will only cause ruin in your life. For example:
>I sucked a dick but I'm not gay
Projects an exaggerated version of the argument
>yes you are
Claims to be an arbiter of truth
>wow wtf you're evil
Intentionally misrepresenting or misinterpreting someone else in order make himself seem smarter or correct.
>are you sure you aren't a vice reporter
Jovial quip to trigger a positive emotion in the hopes it legitimizes his lies.
Be very careful with these people, they will ruin your life and revel in it. They are, as I said, evil.
I'm pretty sure most women are at least somewhat bisexual.
It's different for dudes.
>robotically analysing a human interaction to call someone else a sociopath
take a good look folks, you'll want to develop an eye for this
Notice the same pattern displayed again. The intentional misrepresentation and "witty" quip
>robotically analysing a human interaction
Here he implies that teaching and learning are negative activities. He benefits from your ignorance because it makes you easier to fool and manipulate.
>to call someone else a sociopath
This part is important. He feigns concern not because this is an insult, but because it exposes him and takes away all his power.
>take a good look folks, you'll want to develop an eye for this
Another funny jab to get you to laugh, make you think hes on your side and hes not a bad guy.
However you'll see he doesn't actually address any of the legitimate concerns in ANY of his replies. He shows no concern for you, makes jokes of the situation, avoids giving real answers, and just constructs a narrative trap to manipulate you. He has no interest in actually helping you, he gets off on the idea of ruining your life. People can be terrible, hope you don't meet someone like him in real life. Stay safe.