ITT: ask the opposite gender anything

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This girl also made it seem like she *really* isn't busy and kept making it sound like she really wanted to spend time with me but actively avoids it.

She asks me for a couple grams of weed every few weeks, is she keeping me around for this?

Anyone posting 500px photos on the internet has taken them from somewhere or they are 10 years old. Definitely fake.

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Yeah probably just stringing you along for discounted weed. I've been in your situation, where a girl kept hinting that she wanted to do something but was magically never actually available to follow through. You just have to tell yourself that she's using you as a back up until you finally believe it.

I asked her on the date after she said a guy at work took her on a date and used her for sex. She followed up with a "glad you're not like that ;^)" but I think she was just saying that. Think I've been "too nice"

Christ.

Time to grow out those neck hairs and buy yourself a fedora.

Don't ever take a girl complaining about another guy as a hint that you should ask a girl out. Even if she intends it as a hint, you don't want to position yourself as the guy that she can complain to about the other guys who pump and dump her. Don't be that person.

She is clearly not interested in you except for your weed and attention and you should have the self-respect to never give her another drop of your time.

^ you talk like you have a collection of fedoras

Girls, how common is it for a guy to get put in the friend zone after you've already hooked up a few times?

I'd like to finally be able to have relationships, but the trouble is, I was sexually assaulted. I'm seeing a therapist, but I'm curious what I can do to get myself comfortable around women without risking setting off any of the defense mechanisms I created or making them too uncomfortable. Please help

It wasn't that she said that, I had been wanting to ask on her on a date since we started talking again and idk, seemed like a good opportunity since she was officially not seeing anyone.

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So I'm wrong then? It's a good idea to let yourself be the guy who hears all about the other guys who have treated a girl badly and be the shoulder she cries on while hoping that she will turn around and love you one day?

I know how it sounds but it really is about recognising when you are being disrespected, even if it's not on purpose, and removing yourself from that situation. If it's a girl you're not interested in then sure, be her friend and hear about the bad relationships, but you shouldn't be that guy who will stick around forever trying to get a date with a girl who has zero interest in you.

So I’ve been talking to this guy and we like eachother. I don’t think it’s anything serious. But he is very sexual and I’m fine with that. But I haven’t told him I’m a virgin. I’m scared that it would put too much pressure on him to be my first. I’m scared by it too. But I guess I’m asking if it’s a little bit of a turn off for guys finding out a girl is a virgin.

WOMEN, how common is this among women?

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If he's looking for a mostly sexual relationship then yes it may be a bit of a turn off. Honest question - - do you want your first time to be "special"?

Women overestimating dick size dramatically? Pretty common. I've had my 6.5" dick called 8" more often than not. Makes me wonder if women really just have no opportunity to ever use a ruler or tape measure in their day to day life that they're so shit at judging distance.

I'm an 18 year old girl, and all I want out of life is to start a happy and stable family. How can I go about finding a suitable man for this? I'm kind of shy in public, so I have trouble approaching people first (I could if I really thought it could lead to something good), and the ones that do talk to me first are usually pretty sleazy, and obviously just want to use me. From what I've heard dating apps like Tinder are just for hookups, so I guess that's out too. So then, where IS the right place to start looking?

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Christians. Church boys want to get married.

No. I mean women really liking big dicks and really wanting to fuck one when they're on holiday.

No, it doesn't really happen. And do you know why? Because dicks can't even satisfy a woman most of the time. Clit is the female pleasure center. Yes, being penetrated does feel pleasurable, but it's nothing in comparison to clit stimulation. Vaginal walls simply aren't that sensitive because a baby is supposed to come that way; if they were sensitive, it would make the whole already painful process even more painful. In short, dicks don't matter as much as you think you do. Men can stop being insecure.

I hate women.
They're weak. They get emotional too often.
They don't sacrifice enough. Show me a woman who would sacrifice everything for 20+ years.
They want friends. They want want family. They want children.

I hate them. I sacrificed everything in the military. 9 years now. I can't see women other than liberty fuckholes.

I reckon the pleasure of penis (POP for short) is really more on an emotional thing. Intimacy, security, oneness etc

Truly a fascinating standpoint. Thanks for contributing to the discussion. Where is your question, though?

Pretty much. I really enjoy the way my bf enjoys it because I love him and I like watching him during it, but rated purely on physical sensations, it's on the lower end of the spectrum.

I've watched a lot of them moan really hard when the dick is decently sized. I always look at their reactions and the guys dicks.

>implying porn is a reliably indicator of the average persons sexual habits

That's a fair criticism. I am violating the rules somewhat.

My question is general. How are you ok being like this? How do you allow yourselves to be ruled by emotion?
>I can't go without 6 months of not having sex! You deserve to be cheated on! It's inevitable!
I'm gone without sex, companionship, intimacy, for YEARS.
I am not special.
I am a normal man.

Women are weak. I hate that I desire one so much.
Where are all the hard women?

simple. it's not a question of being ruled by emotion. if she did that to you, she just didn't really love you. in fact, i would say that sleeping around is quite mannish, and it makes her less of a woman for it.

>if she did that to you, she just didn't really love you
If that's true, I can ever trust a woman again.
It's a Catch 22, right?
If she really did love me but screwed me over anyways
Or if she didn't love and I couldn't tell the difference

Then what's the point? I obviously can't tell "true love" from faking it.

To Men:
I'm a relatively straight guy, I'm married to an entirely straight, traditional immigrant girl. All of my friends that I've made before and during our relationship are women. How do I make more guy friends?
To Women:
How many guy friends do you have that you entirely trust to not try to get into your pants? Literally all of my friends are women, from hippie art chicks to weeb otaku girlrs.

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amateur porn

I'm also struggling with making friends with guys. Do you have good relationship with your dad?

Even so user, most people don't film themselves having sex and put it online. I'd say your science is flawed.

Clubs and coworkers.
Internet search for clubs in your city. There's always a bunch.
And coworkers too. How offensive do they have to be that you wouldn't even get a beer together?

I will give you the benefit of doubt and assume for a second that you really are interested in an answer and are not spewing venom at random women in a place that allows you to get away with it without any repercussions.
We are all ruled by emotions to an extent, except that some men have a tendency to think that their purely emotional stance is actually logical. Right now, you're being ruled by emotions as well. What happened to you was shitty, but it certainly doesn't mean that all women (or even the majority of women) act like that. You just see them as an acceptable target of your vitriol because they happen to share sex with the one who cheated on you.
I realize this is an anecdotal evidence, but what happened to you is a personal anecdote as well, so I feel that I'm justified in bringing it up. I was a virgin until 23 and I was just fine in my state, not a raging incel and not depressed. I just did my own thing until I found someone I really loved. We're still together and he's the only one I've ever slept with. All my female friends have sex lives similar to mine; maybe their partner count is slightly higher, but all of them are in committed relationships and faithful. Cheaters are looked down upon. Maybe you're looking for partners in wrong demographics?

So I should convert? Any suggestions on what kind of church (e.g. Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox)?

Go to places where men hang out. If you drink, the bar, if you're an athlete, maybe your local basketball or soccer park.
Or if you like video games join a local fb group.

Just find a place to do your hobby of choice in the presence of other men, eventually you'll start seeing the same people and in the time between doing whatever it is you're there for little conversations strike up. Next thing you know maybe you're having a cigarette or smoking a bowl in somebody's car.
Try not overthink it, I guess

Short answer no, though we're fairly similar. Listen to the same music, same taste in tv and film, same demenaur, same interest in firearms.
Considering my fulltime job volunteer work I can't really incorporate a whole club into my life, and all of my coworkers are women. (I'm an elementary school special needs teacher, I'm the only male staff on campus including janitors)

I bullshit with who I see at the range, though we're all just there to shoot and unwind, not really "hey let's go shopping" kind of environment. Also I don't drink/smoke anymore

The more devout they are the more likely they are trying to settle down. If they practice religiously at all at this age I'd say you're good to go.

I guess it's not the religious part that matters so much as it is the associated conservatism

>hey let's go shopping
Got a solid chuckle out of me.
Try to strike up a conversation with someone you think you vibe with and if it's a good conversation they may invite you to their home. I guess this is when it's important to have similar interests, say watching films or any other activity I suppose

Guy friends is mostly centered around doing shit

>, except that some men have a tendency to think that their purely emotional stance is actually logical. Right now, you're being ruled by emotions as well.
You're right. I am feeling rather emotional now.
I can recognize that I am compromised.

But don't the stats support my prejudice? The legend of "Jodie" didn't come out of no where.
The thing with military service is that there is the idea that 1) they deserve sex and 2) if they don't know it doesn't hurt them.

It fucked up my dad and it fucked up me. I should have known.

>I can't really incorporate a whole club into my life
If you can't do that, how the fuck are you supposed to have a girlfriend in your life?

>married
>children
>teacher
>making lesson plans/grading
>volunteer once a week
>jam-packed social life

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Then stop bitching you cunt.
Friends need time. Stop virtue signalling with your faggy volunteering

I'm afraid that I don't know what you're referring to with Jodie. (I'm not American, so I'm likely missing the cultural background and when I try to google it, I only get mentions of Jodie Foster).
Can you link me these stats of yours? When I look for cheating statistics, I always find ones that claim that men are slightly more likely to cheat on their partners. Again, I'm not American, so I can't really speak about the military service culture. We don't have this concept.

Call me, you beautiful angel.

Oh man. All of these sound really intimidating and I probably will end up overthinking and being embarassing.

In the American military, the guy who fucks your girl is always named "Jodie".
I don't know where that came from.
But it's always Jodie. Jodie is the guy you hate and fear. Jodie is there the day after deployment wiping her tears away.
Same in Canada.
I guess nations with mandatory drafts don't have that concept since only an idiot would assume a girl would stick around at 18 if everyone knows that men go away for so many years in their youth.

I can't find any studies either. But I guess it would be against enlistment if it were publicized.
JOIN UP AND GET CHEATED ON
Yeah nah, no one wants those numbers out there

All I can talk about is anecdotal evidence. And you can just get fucked if you try to tell me that it doesn't mean anything.
>All your friends drank this potion and died? Heh, you're a stupid fucking retard if you think it's dangerous. HAHAHA what a loser. Look, you haven't even consulted one fucking peer reviewed statistically relevant paper. So drink up you pussy.

We don't actually have any kind of draft, but that is beside the point.

So you admit to having no data, but instead of accepting that your prejudices may be unfounded, you proceed to create a conspiracy theory and cement the absurdity of your statement with an obvious logical fallacy. I suggest cooling off a little before attempting to have a discussion.

Get fucked.
You're acting all superior with similar lack of evidence.
We're having a friendly fucking conversation and you want to get all autistic?
Where's your proof retard?
We are both similarly without any sort of "peer reviewed paper"
Go reconsider your fucking autistic life so that you can fucking talk to a person without sperging out.

You are making a claim and therefore you are the one required to bring evidence. I am not stating anything with certainty; I am just pointing out your lack of proof and drawing conclusions from your behavior. I'm also not the one "sperging out". You're the only one here who is lashing out at your conversation partner. I haven't been anything but polite to you.

80 IQ detected

Men: what's your job/what are you studying? Do you enjoy it? If you don't have a job or aren't studying, do you intend to?

I pity your friends that you cannot even have a conversation without going "AKSHAULLY WHERE IS YOUR PEER REVIEWED PAPERS?"

All I wanted was someone to say "Hey I feel you man. It's gonna be ok".
You can't even fucking do that.

You were the one who mentioned stats for the first time, mate. And I actually did acknowledge your woes in my very first reply to you. Please decide what it is that you want.

I work as a stage hand part time, but I will be moving with my parents soon. My dad has set me up with a part time work from home job, but I think there's only a finite amount of work to be done, so I'll have to find something later. I do not intend to go to college. I enjoy my work, my boss is extremely nice, and I'll probably never work for a guy as chill as him.

Thread got archived so in response, yes, he is 2 years older than me

Depends if that's in a good or bad way, really. But if you are great I wouldn't mind.

Ask for a picture with your name on a paper

I don't think it's popular. Girls friendzone guys, guys just cut all the contact with girls.

If my boyfriend didn't tell me I wouldn't even know he's bigger than average. We just take your word for it, it's not like we have any means to measure accurately just by looking

For me it is a bit of a turnoff if a girl tells me she is a virgin, if you like this guy and want something more with him I would be upfront about it with him, otherwise I wouldn't tell him to save yourself the awkwardness, you'll have a lot easier time convincing a guy you're at least somewhat experienced than a guy who is a virgin convincing a girl the same.

bumping for this, women please.

is a big dick a nice surprise?

Yeah but I think to a certain length, probably if it would be 25cm or more I would be like "oh, fuck. It will hurt"

okay well that answers my original question. I mean, I think even 16 cm would still be a nice surprise. Unlike 11 cm, which can make you miss your big exes sometime.

Depends on what girl likes and what size she is. Some girls had bad experiences with bigger ones and then don't want them, like I kinda wish my bf was smaller

>like I kinda wish my bf was smaller
you said the big ones are the nicer surprise..

Seriously women, what fucking traits do they have that win you over?

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But it's true. The initial sight of a bigger dick is a turn on to the majority of women. It might be uncomfortable during the act but there are ways around this for the most part.

A smaller dick on the whole is underwhelming and I'd go as far as to say that some women would be put off or turned off by something smaller than average, but that isn't to say it can't be just as satisfying.

A personality that isn't synonymous with Jow Forums, probably.

A good personality and not being bitter about other men getting women

They probably cheat on them anyway.

Okay. It's hard not be sad and pissed about this. It doesn't matter if I satisfy them, because no matter how much they love me, the initial sight of someone else's big dick will make her wet anyway, it would make me unwilling to fuck her anymore. Or anyone. It makes me not even want to fuck or approach anyone.

Aye, but he is just, big enough to can't fit in me while without hurting me organs inside

It's a good pain, that makes you see him as a strong and uber virile man. Big dick is the symbol of heterosexuality and masculinity.

It indeed is quite masculine but at the same time i would rather fancy it being around 3cm smaller

God, this is painful. Yes and it would still be big. Women keep proving me right. I wished yous would prove me wrong.

I should be done with all this shit but tomorrow I'll probably ask the same question again in another platform. I can't stop hoping and thinking about it.

Idk user I'd imagine women feel similarly about their tits.
Obviously the sight of some girls massive tits turns me on but that doesn't make me stop being attracted to my less endowed partner

I can tell you something for sure, the most important thing is your skill. Just fucking won't make me cum nor feel satisfied. I would rather date skilled 10cm than derpy 30cm

Yeah, I used to feel insecure about being A/B cup until I realised that it isn't the end of the world. Although women would be rather embarrassed of their labias due to "roastie" meme

I have noticed women are more commonly self conscious about their labias. I personally couldn't give a what it looks like so long as you have proper hygiene

That's a fucking cop-out.

Next you're gonna accuse me of being an r9k incel serial school shooter.

Seriously, what is a good personality. I need answers.

Tits are different. Some women even feel embarassed about having big tits, because it attracts unwanted attention. Tits don't make the sex better, and tits won't make a man cheat on you. Tits don't dictate your self worth and self esteem and adequacy, and trust me, feeling of inadequacy is one hell of a storm.

Of course but it's still VERY discouraging to know that I'm small and everyone else will turn on my partner even more than I'm able to. It sucks that I will always have my mind in competition mode with other men, even though she's already my gf. I will always have to go out of my way to compensate for my small dick. It really sucks and it makes love not seem to worth being pursued.

I think it's quite a recent thing about "roasted beef", some girls look like that naturally and imo it's not okay to laugh at it, the same as its not okay to laugh at how penis looks like

I think that if you are attractive you would turn on a girl more than a fatto with huge dick, unless she is into them. Every decent girl won't care if you are 13cm or 16 cm, really, don't worry about it, you are worth love

>tits don't make the sex better
wrong
>tits don't dictate your self worth/esteem and adequacy
can't say as I'm male but I'm not so sure that's true, user
>trust me
Enough with the pity party. To presume you're the only one who's ever felt the way you do, don't be such a child.

>girl dated aquitance in high school
>follow each other on instagram
>never really talked to her at all
>likes my pictures

Is it worth trying to DM her and get something going? And how should I go about it if so?

>roast beef
It's a shame such a shitty meme has caught on, it's no laughing matter indeed.

I mean, you don't have to laugh at penises, you just lost interest in it or you cheat on them. Or you just see them as less of a man compared to the more adequate guys out there.

also,
>fatto with huge dick
>derpy 30cm
Don't you realize that MOST big guys aren't fat and are skilled at sex?

>To presume you're the only one who's ever felt the way you do
Never said that. Take a stroll to r/smalldickproblems

Are you being sarcastic or not? I can't tell

I never thought about how manly a person is based on their penis, although I would guess you could get a not too nice surprise if a person had literal micropenis. Cheating is awful and disgusting

Dunno I'm just saying that your situation isn't awful, you just need to know how to lick and how to use your fingers and length to your advantage

Maybe you just aren't a very sexual person. Sex would be like a chore to you. But being "filled" is always better than just getting orgasms. I think if I had a big penis, I would have achieved a lot in life.

I was being sincere. Idk vaginas are vaginas, I didn't think there was a "normal" way for one too look until the internet. It's ridiculous as my dick does not care how one looks, to put it bluntly