Tinder

I've been casually going on dates with a dude since I met him on tinder like two months ago. Our schedules have been pretty busy so we've only hung out like 5 times since then, but I get the vibe that he's interested in a long term relationship. We haven't done anything more than kissing but he always wants to chill and seems really interested in just hanging out. Me too personally, wish we could meet up more but we text a lot. i'm honestly still a virgin/never been in a relationship at 20 ys old and i haven't told him yet but he hasn't pressured on sex at all. he has never really dated anyone either and I believe him because we're both awkward dorks, which I find cute

i noticed 2 weeks ago he uploaded a new profile pic on Tinder. I know we aren't exclusive or anything but i feel kind of betrayed. is that wrong? should I still be using tinder too? he told me he saw another girl on tinder the week after we met and he said they didn't hit it off and I trust him. it's understandable that he was going on dates with other girls at that time. i am confuse and too innocent for this scary world of dating i guess

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All humans are scumbags, especially on tinder. Everyone on tinder just wants to smash.

I dont understand his behaviour if hes secretly a scumbag though

When he decides what we do for the dates, he introduces me to a hobby he thinks ill enjoy. We go somewhere to chill for hours and then kiss goodbye and i go home. He has never even implied sex and hasnt tried to netflix and chill me. Do you think hes smashing other girls? I think hes really cute but hes also super socially awkward..

I don't like playing games but should i upload a new pic to try to see if he cares enough? I have no idea how dating works

It's tinder, not dating, don't take it personally. He might just be casting a big net to catch one good one. You're free to do the same unless things become serious between you two.

: ( damn reality hurts. ok thanks for being real with me, hard not to take it personally though

Youve been seeing each other for about two months and you said hes a dork. That means hes probably waiting for you to make a move, and its been awhile so he might as well start thinking about trying his luck elsewhere.
Hopefully for your sake thats not the case.

Well, you can thank your own gender for creating guys like that.

nature created men like that, everyone just wants to spread their seed

Yeah, but I'm pretty sure there are more men than women willing to spend their life with one partner. Why else are most marriages and relationships ended by women?

I don't care about other men and women, why are you getting into a petty argument

I've never even had sex or have been in a relationship and I'm not even the person in the story possibly seeing other people. fuck off

Sounds like you kinda tag along with the being "friends" part but don't make any moves yourself. Being too passive and reactive isn't helpful

Is it wrong to not want to have sex this early on anymore? I've only seen the guy in person 5 times.. I told him my intention was dating and he agreed

Send him some nudes or something

Seriously it’s not hard to get a guys attention

Girls are so dumb I swear

It's not about the sex. If you haven't said you're "exclusive" then no one is obligated not to see other people.

ya you're right. alright, i'll have the exclusive talk tomorrow see how it goes

Nah it's not, but there's a lot of stuff between a goodnight kiss and sex. Being touchy, cuddling, holding hands, kisses. Give the man some sugar.

This.

we definitely do all of that, which is why I thought we were somewhat exclusive. all i can do is have a talk with him i guess

Upload them her first tho, so we can evaluate the quality

Also dont take this teenagers advice

Bitter incel detected

If you already have that I can understand your frustration and a talk is necessary