How To Deal With Mocking?

How do you deal when someone mocks you/laughs at you? Jow Forums

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I give it right back to them

Act like it doesn't phase you. You look really weak from the outside when people can get to you easily.

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>Get away with it...
What a fucking load of horse shit

I find out where they live and order things to their home. They might not have to pay for it but they still have to waste time returning everything.

DEVILISH

What you need to do is look at them and say "X why would you think it is okay to say that to me, we are not that familiar"
And if they say ohhh its just a joke repeat back
"That may be but we are not that familiar"
And keep repeating that back

Remember what gets rewarded gets repeated so if someone is mocking you they do thay because they are looking for a reaction and as long as you give them that they will keep coming back. No one wants to go to an atm that eats their money so instead of giving them what they want dont. If they mock you as a friend in a passive aggressive way try this

"Hey you had it east but you lost this game for the team"
Say
"So what you are saying is I deliberately did not try and messed up on purpose to humiliate you? Is that what you are asking me"
And they will back off

That or say

"Why would you say that to me?"

Another tactic is if this is around a group of people use the apology method and sa
"Hey john I don't know what I did to offend yoj but I want to know that I appologize for whatever I have done to make your say what you said to me. I know you and I know that in a normal circumstance you would not use that kind of untactful dialogue so I must have done something to offend you. If you want to meet with me one on one to talk about this later I want to let you know the door for communication is open. I would like to oncr more appologize for anything in the past I said to offend you"

You mock them/laugh at them back.

>Another tactic is if this is around a group of people use the apology method
Pathetic.

Are they right for laughing at you?
Yes ---> Sort yourself out on that specific matter
No ---> Realize you are superior to them and ignore them

You meme trash them. Subconciously get in their heads by making quips about shit you dont like about them and say it publicly. They wont realize a mountain of insults until you give one small hint.

Amish the fuck out of them.

This sounds like the right way, but HOW? You might easily give away subconsciously that they got to you, before you even get a chance to regain your composure.

If you are bigger talk shit back if you are smaller make them seem immature

if under 18, get the fuck off this site and deal with it, kids are monsters
if over 18, ignore them, what fucking adult gets upset from people making fun of him?

Learn how to talk shit, listen to Opie and Anthony and take some notes.

Just order 10 tons of fresh cow manure delivered to their house. A few hundo with instructions to dump in the front of their house...

>Act like it doesn't phase you.
This is the best.
Another option is to amplify and laugh at it like it's a poor joke.
"you dress like a fag user"
a little bit, but I'm thinking of getting a half shirt and some cut offs. then I'll really look like a fag.

barreling full into the joke is always the best bet
>"you dress like a fag user"
I'm glad you noticed, what are you doing tonight?

That would be fine if it was your buddy joking with you, but if someone's seriously giving you shit, this makes you look like you're bending over and taking.

skip the social sparring match and crack their skull open

>this makes you look like you're bending over and taking.
Not if you have the right tone of voice.

I feel sorry for the generations of children that never saw Looney Tunes

What if it's true, and it hurts you?

Self deprecating humor
Honestly and ironically the best way to stay calm and cool and not become juvenile.
Its very difficult for someone to make fun of you when you do it yourself and its clear it doesnt phase you.

based

From my personal experience the strategy of pretending the other person isn't there or giving no sort of reaction doesn't work at all. Words only hurt if you give them value. Hell I've been insulted for just about everything ranging from my personality to all of my physical attributes. I didn't get a character selection screen when I was born and if it's something I can't change then I won't hesistate to just shrug it off. If you don't take the words to heart then you'll have an easier time going through life.

Assuming you're a man..

Depends if they're clearly teasing or just being cruel, some piss taking can come extremely close to being actually hostile, especially if you're in a competitive or closely knit team environment. Usually silence is a grave indicator that you are not wanted in those situations.

If it's just bantz then you can either laugh and put it to bed with a good humored fuck you if you're caught with nothing else to fire back (usually people will move on after you do this, of they don't it means you are the designated buttmonkey which ranges in severity depending on your standing socially).

Our you can learn the skill of being able to banter without being edgy or an asshole. It takes an understanding that in most cases when people poke fun at you (even if what they're saying is true) they are doing it because that is how normal people test for friendship, it's what takes someone from an acquaintance to a buddy. If you have a stick up your ass like some aristocratic humanities professor, people are going to make sure you are miserable by taking you down a peg and rightly so.

>apologizing
Jesus fuck, get out. You are absolutely not someone qualified to give advice on this subject.

Unironically this. Get a job in a factory or construction too, or do pickup sports.

Like the other user said, don't fucking do this if you aren't already friends. My God you people are hopelessly retarded.

>be a passive aggressive fag that does people's work for them
>Implying they won't either find something else to go with or just laughing even harder at you for admitting something they would have never thought of
This doesn't work, please just leave the thread.

I've always got time for some banter.

You got a few options:
>Laugh with them
>>Make jokes about yourself
>Ignore them
>Punch them
>>Not recommended
>Try to reason with them
>>This will most likely not give you good results

Really, don't give them the reaction that they want: if they see that you are bothered by what they're saying to you, they'll continue. How do you usually react?

Ignore a few times then if they persist just look at them with disgust and laugh. If they try to ask why you laughed say that they are pathetic and you find pathetic people laughable.

Either respond with "Mhm" and go on with whatever you were doing or make a witty comeback, which is only a bonus. First thing is good enough.

Well if you really want these people to continue shitting on you, then you better show that it hurt you, because that's what they are waiting for.

Depends.
Are they right to do so? Change myself so they are not.
Are they wrong to do so? Why would I care? Their words hold no weight.

bump want to know too, in the past I've resorted to violence but I dont want to do that, I want to stand up for myself or even make a comebacl