How can people be unhappy if everyone have sex?
I'm not sure what you're getting at but out of respect for your numerals I will give you what information I have. I am not a virgin I lost my virginity at 14 and steadily had sex until I was 23 when I lost my confidence and stopped getting laid during no time was I ever happy but I can say that now that I haven't been getting laid the past 2 yrs I am more unhappy
You had the teenage life I always wanted, I will never know what's like to be a normal human being and a part of society
What you need is confidence and that is born from more than putting your penis in someone's vagina do something worth being proud of then be proud the rest will fall into place most people feel empty bc they have done nothing to be proud of
I can't have confidence, I'm 22 and haven't even kissed a girl, I can't stop thinking how I wasted the best years of my life while everyone around me was having relationships and sex. People will always think of me as a fucking freak subhuman who deserve his misery
Are you are me user? I'm 27 and finally getting over what's bringing you down.
Oh user, even if you finally achieved your goals of having sex with someone you'll soon come to realize anyway that you still are a "freak subhuman who deserves his misery." Having sex won't change that. You'll still be miserable and alone.
u mean u gotta be physically attractive
Dude, being physically attractive is a really fucking low bar. There are fat fucks who still get pussy, there are girls who love their teddy bears and that is not just a meme.
When I used to be a chubby fellah my girl would love playing with my moobs - then she would tell me to pound her harder before I started to throw my weight into my thrusts while I was prone-boning her and playing with her tits.
I mean like... yeah OK you can't be 5'8 and 350lbs. You gotta be able to actually get up and walk so that she doesn't have to cart you around.
You can make up whatever excuses you want, but there is a huge sliding scale of what's considered physically attractive. Bath, shave (and even that's optional if you can grow a decent beard), and wear clean clothes. Like, that's literally it. The rest of it comes from being willing to step outside of your comfort zone, pay attention to the world around you, and learn.
I'm a 19 year old kissless virgin, I feel fine.
because sex =/= love
That was exactly the point of my post, dummy
>strongman strong
>8/10 face
>highly educated with a masters and two bachelors
>dozen other licensures and certifications
>leadership position within a highly respected field
>literally saved lives with bare hands
>own apartment, clean and furnished with style
>play piano
>build computers, fix phones, general IT troubleshooting for normies
>volunteer at animal shelters
>t.32 year old virgin
So when does the pussy train arrive?
You should just try to ask a girl out, like, just like that.
Go to a woman you like and talk to her
Im gonna end up like that. Got the looks, gainz, education. Carreer about to start. Id rather be fat, uglier and stupider in exchange for whatever the fuck is wrong with me/ my brain.
I just don't occur to women as being a romantic option. I'm reliable and trustworthy, good for advice, and able to solve virtually any problem, but I just don't fit that role. The handful of times I thought there was interest they were either already in relationships or turned me down.
I'm a 35 years old virgin. I know I'll die a virgin and I don't really give a shit.
>manlet
>poor
>skinnyfat
>uneducated
>sort of uglyish
>living off welfare
And STILL I have a girlfriend.
Natural selection at work. Guess I just don't like what nature has decided constitutes "fittest". Some of us have to be genetic dead ends, after all.
Yeah, you get it
Then why are you whining about exactly?
Is she at your level or way above?
I haven't whined user. Just making a point that being "successful" and not ugly aren't always enough. Confidence only beguiles those looking to be fooled.
because they're fucking faggots and instead of just having sex and enjoying their fun, they have to fuck it up and let their feelings get the best of them and end up having stupid fucking arguements. sex is wasted on fools, i wish i was getting laid because i swear to god i'd do it right
Sex isn’t the most important thing
You can't be all of those things you mentioned and not appear to be a romantic option for women.
Hell, get a tinder, and start swiping. It's an easy, simple test. You will probably get a lot of matches and you will see how desirable you are.
I'd also include in your profile your education, own place, volunteering etc. Women eat that shit up.
How can people be unhappy to the point of suicide, despite being rich, famous, and able to travel around the world?
>buying the sex=happiness meme
Having sex with someone you don't love is like doing drugs.
The high is temporary and it will get less and less satisfying every time.
I see posts like this a lot.
Setting aside your selling points, getting a woman is work. A lot of work. If you don't put in that work you won't get laid. It's truly that simple.
Back when I was single I would date online, go to parties, talk to women at stores and shops, basically every chance I got I was talking to a woman, maybe getting a number, maybe setting up a date.
That's what it takes.
Getting women is something that in the beginning is very hard, but the more you keep at it, the easier it gets. Once you are really rolling, it feels like they just fall into your lap.
You are never more attractive to women than when you have some pussy at home already waiting for you.