Marriage in turmoil

I just got happily married to the love of my life. Never had romantic feelings for any other girls since we met 2 years ago. Now I got a new job and my coworker is 10x the woman my wife could ever be in looks personality, everything. And shes into me. Im crushing on her hard. I need advice.

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What's your age, hubby?

Your coworker doesn't like you, she likes to fuck up marriages and enjoys the thrill of cheating with a married man while also keeping him under her thumb by threatening to tell his wife.

Yeah, they aren't uncommon user. Avoid that trap.

"happily married" man with "love of his life" can't keep dick in his pants after only two years of marriage by comparing his wife to someone else, sounds about right

Guys not used to attention suddenly having a qt mirin them get led by their dick pretty hard.

No matter the sacrifice, adoration and loyalty from a woman it doesn't take much for a man to throw it all away. There's truth in a mans brain is in his penis. Men are horrible.

Hardly. Op is anot idiot for risking a good marriage for strange, but by and large I have known far more women to cheat on men then vice versa.

The most successful couples I have known are the ones with a money earner and a house keeper.

>Never had romantic feelings for any other girls since we met 2 years ago.
Congrats, you jumped into a huge commitment too early and how your having second thoughts. You need to weigh how much you value this marriage vs how much you value some stupid crush that will probably fade in a month

Totally false. If another woman looks at a man he's hooked and blow up his family. Men do this to brag about it and makes them feel manly.

Which is why he should smash that pussy ever chance he gets. Never tell his wife and remember it when the wife decides her libido is taking a rest.

Nothing more manly than having a new woman squirming and moaning as he makes her cum hard.

This person gets it. She will only use you as leverage for promotions and whatnot. She'll keep you interested because if you crush on her you'll be her bitch and make her life easier.

Best thing to do is act like you don't give a shit about this actress and focusing on being successful yourself.

Presumably you've gone through issues with your wife by this point and overcome them - stupid arguments, one of you making a mistake, getting angry at each other, saying dumb things you don't mean. And yet you've both worked through these things together. This is a valuable asset for a relationship - far more valuable than 10/10 looks or liking the same jokes. It sounds to me like you've grown familiar enough and comfortable enough with your wife that you aren't noticing nor appreciating the aspects that led to your marriage in the first place. The attributes of a partner can't be properly measured in such superficial metrics as "looks and personality" - those are things that initially draw you to them, but they aren't what makes you stay - they are more properly measured in experiences you've had together, things you've accomplished together, things you've struggled through and overcome together, joys and sorrows you've shared. These experiences are like a stockpile of gold in comparison to a shining silver facade. You need to recognize and appreciate what you have, not get stuck wishing for something lesser. A few years from now, when your wife is still by your side comforting and supporting you, if you think back to this attractive woman at work it'll be like a scribble in the margins of the greater manuscript that is your life...unless you decide to throw that entire manuscript out.

What a bunch of ideological garbage that ignores biology and human interactions. If OP gets some strange he will feel better towards his wife because he's got some strange and is more fulfilled, unless the crush is indeed a better match than the wife, in which case now is the time to cut the wife loose.

Don't let a poorly matched marriage continue. Why doom yourself and her to future misery.

Nah, it's true.

t. Happily married to partner of 10 years, both of whom went through periods of attraction to other people early on

exactly, and all that men care about really

yeah and which of the two of you fucked someone else? the male I'm certain

Is this bait? Because I don’t OP replied to anyone or is reading any reply yo him.

Neither did. We just talked about it and dealt with it together.

This seems a lot more productive than fucking cheating

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I think what's happening is now that you're married, you're finding yourself kind of reacting to the fact that you can't just break up with her and date someone else. Don't do anything with the girl, OP, you've made a commitment and now you stick with it. If she tries to come on to you, decline. Be careful.

What's happening is you're human. You can do what you want. Either way someone will be hurt, someone will be happy. You can flirt and be friendly, take your time, get off Jow Forums to do something productive.