Maintaining a guy's interest

I would like the young male perspective on how to keep a guy's interest in a relationship past the 2-year mark? They always seem to get bored with me by then. Note: sexual frequency is not the issue as exes always lost interest in sex faster than I did.

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>exes
How many did you have & what's your age?

Just how old are you to have had several 2 year sexual relationships?

Also, I'm going to assume it's actually a gay relationship.

Lol, I am a heterosexual 32 year old female. I've had 4 long-term relationships.

What's your life plan? Swinging or what?

> sexual frequency is not the issue as exes always lost interest in sex faster than I did.
Actually, it is the issue. They lost interest in having sex WITH (YOU). Probably needed to spice things up and change things up sexually, exploring fetishes and fantasies more.
Also, 2 years is about the time a woman should be doing the cooking and cleaning and raising children around the house. If you two aren't developing intellectually, then there's no practical reason to maintain the relationship.

Become his wife, and/or take a deep interest in his interests so he'll actually want to sustain a conversation with you for longer than two years.

I haven't formulated a plan yet. I'm torn between going full on crazy cat lady or trying again. I've always clicked more with men younger than myself (2-6 years younger) so that's why I'm seeking advice here.

Most long, long term relationships revolve around children. Having dated for two years without even planning to get married is just code for eventually going to break up. Once kids are introduced you essentially become a team rather than lovers. Its a different dynamic, but fulfilling in other ways.

You aren't going to find someone to collect cats with, if that is what you are looking for.

Activities. Bring up ideas for new interests to look out for and activities to do. According to love psychologists, proximity is good (being around them makes you more attractive to them) and frequent non sexual touch is also good as a bonding thing

Ah, I'm noticing a pattern. I have no interest in marriage or children, just a nice long-term relationship. I'm getting the feeling my expectations are too high in this regard. Crazy cat lady plan it is. Thank you for your input.

Could be;
Nagging
Lack of being interesting
No fun
Overweight
Looks of a washed up whale

Hello I am 26 and I want to date a a girl in your age range, where do I find them?

Isn't that basically just friends with benefits?

Those issues would definitely drive me away, so I can understand that. I don't believe I'm the nagging type, I'm a size 3 so I don't think being overweight is the issue, the not being interesting is probably the big one of those. I am a bit of a workaholic.

>32 year old female.
When did you start using Jow Forums?
When did you start watching anime?
To be honest, anyone who is 32 and still on Jow Forums, probably has a lot of issues. Moreso if a woman due to Jow Forums culture.
That being said, I'm 32 as well, male, been on Jow Forums since it started, more or less, and have been watching anime since I was in the single digits of age. I have a lot of issues.

I think friends with benefits implies lack of sexual exclusivity. I want the exclusivity. As for finding women my age, I would suggest Tinder and set the age range for what you want. I'm certainly not an expert on that subject though.

>I haven't formulated a plan yet.
Jesus Christ, girl... You have only 5-6 years before the "red line".

>workaholic
That's only your shelter & excuse.

Lol, this is my first time on Jow Forums. Someone was telling me about it the other day and I'm just seeing what it's all about. I don't like anime either, just seemed to be what people post on here. I'm trying to fit in.

I'd love an older gf but would expect her to be more proactive. Make plans for trips, initiate sex and so on. Maybe you're too passive?

Clearly since you can't even do replies correctly

> I'm trying to fit in
You're doing it wrong then.
Please be a troll.
It'd be too disappointing otherwise.

Then tell us another worldwide anonymous site.

Got it, I'll let you get on with things then and enjoy the rest of your night. I appreciate the interactions, it was interesting.

It's not really worldwide.
I'm mostly only North America and Europe.

Young guys are looking to experiment. If you think women are putting off marriage and children for the sake of career, imagine what guys are doing when they dont have a "red line."
Unless you are both absolutely and openly commited to a long-term relationship, and this often entails a religious background, or at least the financial planning for marriage, joint home ownership and children, then this is just a way for the young guy to have regular sex. Nothing more. Young guys in their 20's have all the time in the world to explore and have multiple partners.
If you want to keep these guys around forever, I think you might have to be an absolutely creative demon in the sack, or date a conservative-ish christian boy who is serious about total monogamy and raising a family in his late 20's/ early 30's. Otherwise, you're just his excuse to not jack off to porn.

You missed the part where she has no interest in marriage or children.

Why does it have to be anonymous?
Reddit works just fine, as do many other pseudonymous sites.

Then glorified porn substitute it is.

Delusional

You need to be more than a vagina on legs, that gets old after a couple of years.
Find someone with shared interests, enjoy each other's humour and company.
Help/support his interests and career, learn to cook and do other housewifey things.
Be nice/sociable with his family and friends, especially his parents.

Tldr: be a lady, not a 17yo girl in a 32yo body

Where else then?
I didn't say there wasn't elsewhere, simply that it's mostly that.

Go on any board with flags and you'll see I'm right.

Start getting kinky.

Darn you sound like my type.

Mix things up. Don't get stuck in a routine.

Please, absolutely don't get more than four unless you live on a farm or something; Mr Scruffles has feelings, too.

No it's not. Go a bit on boards like Jow Forums where the flags show. We've got a lot from Asia

this always works to keep them interested but don't wait for two years

every 6 months or so start telling him about a guy you met and you want a new guy friend. you really have to have a guy though to make your bf believe it and try harder. it works perfectly. your bf will pursue you again and again and again with the added bonus of a new guy pursuing you.

So you're literally retarded and lack the mentality to mature past the 2-year mark. Maybe you would be better off with cats.

Peter pan syndrome. i'm glad I don't know you IRL

sage

What the fuck did I just read