any married guys here? why'd you get married?
how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
how do you feel about her now?
any married guys here? why'd you get married?
how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
how do you feel about her now?
>any married guys here? why'd you get married?
Married guy here. Asked her to marry me a week after we met, married her a few months later. I knew right away that she was my sweetie and that there was no point in waiting.
>how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
She was my sweetie. I was also a bit surprised that I managed to score a 10/10 qt after a lifelong string of
1. I'm physically disabled. I need a handler.
2. She has a medical family background. She's understanding of my needs. She's not a fucking idiot.
3. She's all of those things and completely insane. Thank god I know how to deal with insane as well as she does with my crippled ass or we'd have been doneso a year ago.
Met on WoW. Been together for 9 years. I got phenomenally lucky. She says the same thing but I fail to see how.
R u rich?
Fuck no! I only get $900 a month and she works at subway. Life is expensive man. I'm not allowed to work because of my lungs so I stream vidya where I make a whopping $0.
We're happy but we sure ain't rich.
You sound deluded af.
That's cute
You are just jealous
Insane?
Kek, you wished he was rich so you could call her a roastie that uses him
You should start a business or something small on the side on etsy or something. Something that needs more brain work than phsyical work. Or learn to code
No. My brain works. My eyes, ears, lungs, and CNS do not.
Yeah, I wish I'd known that back in the day. Might have been able to go to college instead of be rejected for 10 straight years without any reason given. Incidentally, if you're disabled and you live in California, you are a fucking idiot and will fail in life. Take it from someone whose life mission was to escape that pit (succeeded.)
As is, I stream. Blind Ryan. I don't make money but I like talking to people. It keeps me busy in between having to work my joints out so the fibro won't get worse.
I mean why is she insane
Crazy Christian mother mixed with Graves disease mixed with pills for her ladybits. Last year was a baaad time.
>any married guys here?
Yep.
>why'd you get married?
Because I met someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.
>how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
During the ceremony or during planning? Either way, overwhelmingly positive. We didn't have a big expensive ceremony so didn't have a stressful time planning one either. Did literally everything for about $7k.
>how do you feel about her now?
The same. I got very lucky.
I knew when I met her she was different, we got married in the first year and have been married for 6. Love her more today than I did that day. She's my best friend and the mother of my children.
Not him but you sound very envious. None of that post sounds delusional, just happy.
Aw sounds bad. Good you can deal with that
Trial and error, as with anything. Eventually you fuck up less, you know? That's good advice for life, actually.
Thanks I will take it to heart. Have a good life user
>why'd you get married?
I wanted the security of her knowing I'd bet half my shit to stay together.
>how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
You mean the wedding day?
I thought she looked stunning.
Later on I was pissed off that she got drunk and couldn't consummate the marriage.
The morning after all she did was complain about how much free* booze she had and demand things to make her head feel better.
>how do you feel about her now?
She greets me when I get home, she keeps the house clean, keeps our finances in order, cooks dinner and looks after me, I still love her, but I'll never love her as much as I thought I did around the 6 - 9 month mark.
Got married because I know that's how you begin building the traditional family unit, which is the foundation of White, Western Civilization.
Felt like I loved her?
Still do after 8 years. Not changing.
Wanted stability in my life.
Never loved her.
Feel trapped.
>any married guys here? why'd you get married?
Because she's incredible and if I didn't do it, any number of guys would be banging down her door to lock her down. I knew there was no way I would ever find a woman like her again.
>how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
Like I couldn't love or want anyone more than I did at that moment.
>how do you feel about her now?
6 years later, I'm still trying to figure out how it's possible that I love her more every day. It's always growing.
God, you people are faggots. I'm the cripple and, while I feel that way, I'd never say it like that. It's the love of your life, for fuck's sake. Get poetic!
I love my wife enough to not splatter my cripple brains all over five states. Every day, she pulls me kicking and screaming inches further away from that grisly precipice, that yawning void. In return for such kindness, I keep her M.C. Escher-esque crazy headspace tethered to terra-firma, lest she carbomb (she's Irish) her mother on her way back from church for the seventh time this week.
"I love you more every day" is something you say to each other. This is Jow Forums. We're jaded cynical assholes, remember? If you want the love to show, you gotta pomp and circumstance that mewling cunt.
Fun fact, she introduced me to Jow Forums, not the other way around. I introduced her to Shad and Stardew Valley though so... we're pretty even.
>any married guys here? why'd you get married?
It's a normal progression in the life cycle of any healthy man.
I personally was bored out of my mind about the dating scene and I want kids. Marriage is a strong institution for that.
>how did you feel about her when you were getting married?
I loved her and it felt just right. Marriage wasn't that important to me, it was the commitment that was important.
>how do you feel about her now?
I love her just as much as the day I met her.
didn't know Jow Forums had this many resident slaves
>I chose to date her
>I chose to take her along the ride
>I proposed
>I want children
>I want a compatible and similarly minded-partner to raise kids
Clearly, my own choices make me a slave.
I guess I will cry myself to sleep tonight while looking at everything else going right.
I totally knew Jow Forums had this many bitter incels.