I'm a girl and I have two potential love interests lined up right now. The problem is I'm worried about what they'll think of my kinks. I have a lot and some of them are really out there. What do?
I'm a girl and I have two potential love interests lined up right now...
>What do?
Stop being so degenerate
what are they
tell them both, pick the one that likes it more
My big ones are blood, encasement, and sensory deprivation; my most out-there are cannibalism and necrophilia
>this lot
nope
Be careful femanon. I would run the fuck away from person like you in seconds.
Can you live and have sex without your kinks?
I have so far. Still wanna get encased at some point, still wanna drink these guys' blood.
They'll probably be into those things. Now how about this idea? Stop being a bitch and leading them both on. Pick one and get rid of the other.
I really like both of them though
Wew fuck no.
What a freak (and not the good kind). You need a good slap.
How attractive are you femnon? Like how would you rate your self
Kinda meh. Not pretty, not ugly.
Tell the one that makes you laugh.
Tell him what? That I want to kill him, fuck his corpse, then eat it?
hmm have you considered reflecting what psychologically made you that way?
paraphilia is a real thing and our sexual fetishes usually reflect things we've gone through or experienced in our development
that said honestly i'm pretty depraved myself and guys seem more willing to say/do what a girl wants for a nut so chances are you can just ease your way into things subtley
but still L for you having layaway/side dudes
a romantic partner shouldn't be weighed as such
Do these boys even like you? Like honestly
My boyfriend's into some of those. I didn't mind too much, because I find darker niches and paraphilias interesting. How this goes 100% depends on your pull on those guys.
Get a feel for your their kinks. If you're lucky, you'll find out they like some level of BDSM (which, IMO, is kind of a rabbit hole). Ask them what exactly they like about their kinks, and from there, you can draw some soft comparisons to your own. Obviously don't come right out and say "I want to eat your flesh", just start off with your milder interests, and say things like "I've had much, much darker fantasies, as well". If they ask to know more, what happens after is on them.
Bonus: Be all cute, shy and embarrassed about talking about it. If they're not okay with it, they'll either downplay it because they're into you, or if they're open minded, they may actually try to work with it.
I'm not sure. I'm pretty bad at reading these signals. They seem to like me pretty well as a friend but haven't made any moves on me.
How in the almighty fuck did you develop these kinks? Did you accidentally encase yourself and got turned on? Jesus fuck
probably comfort in not feeling alone being helpless trapped
things like that i'm guessing
Lol wtf
Serious advice: Please see psychological help. Those don't sound safe for society at large. I don't want to hear about another Jeffrey Dahmer killing everyone who she thinks likes her romantically. By the way, thinking people have a crush on you when they don't is an actual symptom/sort of Schizophrenia. From what I've read, there is no reason for you to assume they have crushes on you. Find a psychologist and just have one or two sessions. It can't hurt to see one and it can possibly really help you if you aren't there mentally.
The more OP talks the more this shit sounds like bait
Your fucking stupid, they don't even like you yet and your not even dating them so who gives a shit what they think. Get with one of them first then ask this board.
you're being way too extreme and muddying the waters
seeing a talk psychotherapist would be a good idea to reflect where these things came from and how they could be unhealthy and unsafe but a simple 'psychiatrist' is just going to give you the one-two for prescription without actual development
also
>By the way, thinking people have a crush on you when they don't is an actual symptom/sort of Schizophrenia
stop projecting so hard
I assume the worst because I know barely anything about the situation. It would be much better if she went to a psychologist when she did not need one than her needing a psychologist and not going to one. With the "projecting" Schizophrenia thing, I'm again assuming the worst as a safety net. No matter how unlikely, it is an actual symptom, and user's ridiculous reasoning of "They seem to like me pretty well as a friend but haven't made any moves on me," is obviously flawed and could be a sign of something greater. Again, these are all just my most negative suppositions. I just want to make sure because the info we've been given is a bit worrying.
As long as it doesn't involve certain disgusting fluids, you'll be fine honey.
thread should have ended here
be my gf