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>Did you skip sex ed or something?
Yeah. In fact, I'm 33 and I still didn't know this.

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Oh shit I didn't know that dude.

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Anons I have no idea how to phrase this without sounding terrible but how do I get over my near general disgust for women?

Context being after working in a club for nearly six months none stop and just seeing for lack of better words the rampant degeneracy of it all has more or less killed my libido to a point where no fap feels easy and my desire to be with anyone has dropped further than the titanic, only being able to feel again disgust when I meet most women.

How do I fix myself?

As quite obviously this isn't the best reaction to have yet I have no idea where to find women with moral standards in this country that are around my age to counter balance this, of those happy and faithful few that I used to know of have been taken long ago to pic related.

Tl;dr how do I find people with moral standards anymore? I unironically feel lost

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Girls

Why do you often trap yourselves in terrible relationships, and then blame everything else around you?

What did you think a period was???

Get some fucking perspective. Only a small percent of the population actually goes clubbing more than sporadically and outside of clubs people do not behave anything like that.

user I have to emphasise its the only place I've been for the past 6 days a week for the past 6 months you get a warped perspective.

>when I'm inside I forget that the sky exists

If I ask someone to hang out and they say they'll let me know what time they're free, should I follow up on the day or leave them to follow up since they said they would?

Depends who it is.
If it's a friend, hit them up
If it's somebody you're trying to date then wait. If they don't get back to you within a day or two they're not interested and you shouldn't nag them, it won't do you any good

Leave it up to them if you don't want to be one of the little bitches who post about being ghosted on here and then gets called out for beta behaviour.

Weirdly, it's kind of a grey area. It's a friend that I used to date.

Sort of like cracking a chicken egg but with blood.
I never needed to know about makeup sponges and snakeskin.
I really want to not be grossed out by these things, but holy shit you are not making it easy.

Well is your friendship purely platonic or are you trying to reignite things?
The advice still applies either way but you can probably get away with being a little more pushy for a definitive answer since you already have an established relationship

Im not pushing for anything. I'm fine with purely platonic desu but it just feels like it shouldn't be this much work to spend time with a friend

I get tiny clots. Maybe I'm wrong but I think if a woman frequently gets huge clots, it's not a good sign

My best friend's sister is getting kinda attached and touchy with me. I am 22 years old and she is 19 but it feels like it's a 10 years difference. I feel like I could easily get together with her especially since we're going to be out alone a lot together as I asked her to be my +1 at a friend's wedding.

The thing is we both are kissless virgins and I don't have an issue with it since I'm not all that crazy about sex and have just used my time to get an education and work my ass off at my job so I'm well off now but it seems that she's eager to have some and hints about it all the time.
Now, she's very cute and looks very good but I'm like 40cm taller than her and much bigger and when we're just talking a walk I feel like I'm doing something wrong just because of the size difference.
I also work in photography as a second job (wedding photos) so I bring my camera when I'm hanging out with her and later masturbate to her photos which gives me amazing pleasure, now I can't look at her in real life without getting a bit aroused and hugging her usually gives me a boner.

To make a long story short I want to have sex with her because I've known her for so long (since like she was 3) and she's really nice but on the other hand also very childish as in she loves talking about star wars and stuff like that so I'm worried that she's not very mature.
Is it worth it?

I'M LITERALLY ABOUT TO PICK UP MY ONEITIS. I'm so nervous brehs. This is my chance. I can't fuck this up. I just can't anymore. Last minute tips for our dinner? How do I extend it? Wht the fuck do I do?

Wish me luck brehs

Go to non degenerate activities to look for non degenerate people.

>also very childish as in she loves talking about star wars and stuff like that so I'm worried that she's not very mature. I
But even "adults" like star wars. In fact I'd say it's mostly adults that like it. Now if you just mean she is heavily into fandoms then either steer her to what ever you like it just stop being autistic.

Go to a pool hall afterwards. They're usually open late and it's easy convo and adds a little bit of competition which is great for flirting.

Go somewhere casual after dinner. Bowling, pool or grab a drink. Sit next to her when possible, not opposite her.

KISS HER

Ok women, explain to me why you probe me with your deep and confusing questions about sexuality, my upbringing, and my psyche only to recoil and ignore me after I confront you about these questions and ideas. It’s because you like me isn’t it?

>gf is into piercings and tattoos
>has ~12 piercings mostly on her ears
>has been talking about wanting to get a new piercing but doesn't know what

Both to avoid the situation where she gets a septum and I have to dump her, and to satisfy my own fetish for nipple piercings, how do I get her to get a nipple pierced without implying that she should do it for my benefit?

Is it ever ok to say you miss someone you're not official with?

I haven't seen her in months due to her schooling but classes are over this week. In addition to setting something up, I was gonna comment that i miss her but I feel that's too needy

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How do I break the ice with a cutie at work? She's an intern and she came up to me last week and introduced herself. She looks at me like shes willing to have sex then and there in front of everyone.

How do I approach without saying something inappropriate? It's hard for me to stay professional with pretty women.

I’m not that big of a autist but when I get to the point of starting to have sex with women I start shaking like a broken alarm clock. One girl mentioned it and I said it was caffeine, but it usually goes away after like 5 minutes of foreplay.

Maybe flip it and say, " it would be great to see you again;we have a good time together,' or something a non autistic person would say

I asked a girl's number at a bar after talking for some time and we chatted a little for a while. Then she asked if she can come over, I didn't want to have casual sex so I just gave her an evasive response and she stopped texting. Then she contacted me two months later out of the blue asking what's up, but didn't follow that up so I didn't talk to her more either.

Ran into her at a friend's party one weekend and we chatted and had a little fun, then she came onto me very strongly and after that she flaked on me again. What gives?

My querys is what/when is the best time to talk to women when in public?

Pic unrelated.

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Pls help

user, you'll have to describe the situation much better if you want any meaningful answers

probably some imbalance in the oxitoninergic system. My gf had similar symptoms after eating MDMA for a couple of months.
probably getting hugged enough in your life can solve the problem

playing games of this sort will make you lose her sooner or later. Learn to explicitly state your wishes, since you were given the opportunity to suggest her something.
explain how you feel and what you like and let her decide

>know girl for like 3 years
>she’s pretty af, we are quite close friends
>recently started blowing off her bf by “forgetting that she was suppose to hang with him” to hang with me
>starts asking me Moreno intimate questions, told me things about herself no one knows but me
>recently has been more touchy, bumping into me on a hike a lot, I should of made a move I think
>recently started telling me things like my dislike of dogs would make me a bad bf, asks me why I’m “like this” in a very playful way
>she’s also forced herself into visiting my family and meeting them recently
>on top of that, she said a while back she has no idea how she would date again and find a new boyfriend

There so much other shit, like she always gives me her juul to use to, even when she doesn’t let other people, told me she does do things I tell her, there’s much more but that’s just a bit of it, the more I think about it and spend time with her, the more I feel like she’s into me but very shy and insecure. She’s also done shit like wrap a vacuum cord around me and then pull it, and asked me if the friction from the burn turned me on.

Honestly the only thing stopping me is her relationship, but the dude is like a foot shorter than me and a dead beat.

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If she cheats on him, she'll cheat on you. Start distancing yourself. If she asks why, say it's weird that you hang out so much when she's in a relationship and then disappear again. If she ends her relationship it was a real thing she had for you. If she doesn't, you're just an ego boost.

I see no problems here,really. If all the things you described aren't just your imagination, she's definitely just waiting for you to grab her and make her your gf.

Iwouldn't worry about that other guy. She has already made her decision about him and their relationship won't last anyway. And the sooner he learns about it, the sooner he'll be able to find himself a new gf.

So I guess she just wants you to make a move to have a good excuse for leaving him and to be sure that she won't become single after the breakup.

Girls.

What's your favourite 80s pop songs? I'm rapidly running out of Tears for Fears to listen to.

Since I was a tween, I've always found muscled dark-haired tanned guys the hottest. My ex was like that and I loved his appearance and guys I dated casually looked like that too. A year ago I made an acquaintance with a guy who is tall but very skinny, has blonde hair and blue eyes and has kinda baby face, is pale, looks nothing like guys I've lusted for my entire life. Somehow he makes me crazy, when I'm in his proximity my panties get wet and I blush madly and just feel impossibly aroused. I cant even pass on a street a guy looking roughly like him without getting all hot..Whats the deal with that? I'm in my late 20s now

I also played her death grips and she said she’s liked it, from what I heard women will like whatever a man they are interested to likes, and this was her first time hearing the music.

Dude, you just want us to give you permission. If she just likes everything you like blindly I don't think you'll have a good long-term relationship but what do I know.
Ask her what she sees your relationship as.Then, ask yourself if you want to date someone who's already in a relationship. If the answer is yes and she wants to see your boner then knock yourself out.

Girls

Why do girls commonly cuddle and spoon with each other?

Girl I know told me she loved me. As a "joke" haha :DDDD. Twice now.

Is it a joke?

what the fuck
no they dont

Are you sure she didn't mean it the way we say "I love chocolate"?

BOYS,

How can girls keep you interested and always wanting more, or yearning?

They do. I have a couple girls on Snapchat and several of them sometimes show them cuddling in bed with their friends

Do you tell your chocolate you love it?

By being attractive.

Never ever send nude pictures

>Snapchat
they're seeking attention and posing for a photo
they dont do it "commonly"

I know that feel. Girl asked me to prom 'as a joke' once. Shit practically killed me.

Don't play bullshit games like """"hard-to-get"""". Be open, honest, and respectful. Have fun together. Do little things when you part that'll keep you on his mind, like a movie/music recomendation. I had a girl ask me once if I knew where a certain shop was, and I said I'd keep an eye out for it if I found one. Of course, I spent the next few days walking around the town thinking of her and her shop.

Some insight?

No; it's not that feel at all. She's not the kind of person that would hurt someone as a joke. We're pretty close and have known each other for years.

No, but you know the way we say "I love cats" "I love this "I love that" doesn't mean I want to get romantic with it.

I think I'm a good 7.5/10
But we've already sent each other nudes oof. Am I fucked forever?
Good idea. I don't think I'm playing hard to get. Does the same apply if he's the type to enjoy mystery and the chase? Hmm.

Girls, why do you post pictures of your dead relatives on Instagram? I'm quite degenerate myself, but isn't it a bit immoral to post about dead people for likes? I've never seen guys do that shit.

I just don’t understand. Why?

You shouldn’t send nudes tho.. if he wants to see you naked, he should only see you naked in person.

Don't get too comfortable.

It could be plenty of reasons she's acting like that. Are you interested in having a relationship with her, or would you be ok with just having sex a few times?

>Does the same apply if he's the type to enjoy mystery and the chase? Hmm.
I enjoy that too but I hate the hot/cold bullshit. Flirt, draw it out for a bit if you want before moving on to the next stage. but don't start that mixed signals shit.

We're currently only LDR. Not meeting anytime soon either. But jesus, I feel like I sent it way too easy and early. He sent me his, too.

This is true and I have thought of that. But I know she fancies me. Her body language is a dead giveaway. So I don't know where I stand. I guess romantic or not it's nice that someone loves you.

Yeah definitely. Maybe wait it out a bit, if you know she likes you maybe 3rd time's the charm. Otherwise
>I guess romantic or not it's nice that someone loves you
Is a good way to look at it

I keep hoping to get a helpful response. Maybe it will come.

I had the misfortune of a girl stealing my innocence in my early teens, which fucked up my sexual development and caused me to believe a lot of things that weren't true. How do I start having normal, healthy sexual relationships?

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What do you mean by that?
How do I get less comfortable?
Any specific tips for this? Methods? I think I do this rather well, but I've told him a lot of things, I feel.

>Any specific tips for this? Methods?
I would say lots of eye contact, accidental touching, shit like that, but it seems you're way past that stage already. Eh, just go with the flow and enjoy it. Don't rush things.

Thanks user.

Any reason why a girl would want people to believe that the two of you are dating even though your not?

I'm sorry about that, it can be hard to find your way into healthy sexuality, even if the first time went as smooth as it could go.

Could you give some examples of what you belived or something specific that you'd like to know to be more ocmfortable?

Are you close friends? Who is she telling? What's the context?

>What do you mean by that?
>How do I get less comfortable?
Remember when you were first going out and you were constantly thinking whether you were good looking enough, whether he would like you, whether you would do some goofy shit and put him off etc? Keep that up. Audition's over when the relationship's over.

That's kind of bad advice imo... You are right, that there should never be 0 effort, but if you don't feel comfortable in a real, commited relationship then it's not a commited relationship. I am talking about a relationship that lasts longer than a year obviously, if you're still in the dating period then you should absolutely worry.

This, I’m very curious. Had a girl say this a lot to me, where very good friends.

There was a time when she wanted me to hold her hand so that our manager and supervisors thought we were data by and spend times when she is standing next to me she will bump her shoulder against me.

Should not really matter if she is mature or not, if you like her why not go for it, could be the best thing you ever do in life

>girls didn't like me, I was trash to them
>if one did show interest she wanted to use me for something
>had no value to them
>women hate men
>sexuality was something to wield against me to do things I did not want to do
>don't even bother trying
>et cetera

Liking Star Wars doesn't make you immature. I like nerdy stuff and play video games when I have some time but I'm a functioning adult with a job, wife, car, house, and two kids.

Once the girl gets 100% comfortable and considers that she has her man locked down, the relationship is over, at least from my experience. Then again, it's usually the guy's fault for that.
I'm not saying you should constantly stress yourself out about whether you're good enough, just keep in mind that you're constantly fighting to keep him.

Not the guy you responded to, but it sounds like you had an encounter with a girl with mental issues (bipolar?). I had something similar happen to me a few years ago, but with a friend that turned out to be a psychopath.
What you need to do is to take an evening off, sit down, think over and work out what exactly happened to you. Writing works wonders, since you need to give your thoughts structure to write them down. You'll need to come to terms with the fact that there are messed up people in the world that will manipulate you and take advantage of you, and you'll also need to figure out where your own fault lies in the whole situation. The reason your brain is bugging you is because you need to figure out how you can avoid a similar situation in the future, and it won't leave you alone until you are confident enough to say that you now have a plan and can avoid a pitfall like that.
Good luck. If you need more info ask away.

>ahahaha I love you user :DDDD it's a joke
>I love you ahahaha I did it again
The first time? Mmmmaybe. But not twice.

In that case (maybe) she said it honestly and when you didn't respond the way she was hoping played it off as a joke

I couldn't have said it better. Always remember that what you read online about women hating men and men hating women are a minority. They might screech super loud, but you'll most likely not run into someone like that in real life. Most girls don't hate men. It is more likely, that they are influenced by movies and tv series to act certain ways, like playing hard to get. Open up your horizon, go out and meet new people, maybe join a club where you'll find like minded people. And don't try too hard to find something specific. If you have an open mind it will find you.

"You gf is a lucky woman, user!"

Is she jealous? Possibly interested in me? Just being nice?

There's a big difference between an enjoyable chase and being told never to contact her again.

Well, it was said in a light-hearted way so I don't imagine she was expecting much of a response
>user, I love you but I can't stay here all day
if that offers any clarity.

Girls

How do I go about finding a friend with benefits, with the potential of turning into a long term thing. I have had many encounters, nothing ever sticks.

That sounds more like nice phrase. I say that to my friends sometimes too. I woudn't read so much into this particular sentence.

Thanks.

She is being nice, however the way she said it is rather important ie
>OMG! ur gf is a lucky woman
Is clearly just a compliment. But,
>Anonette is a lucky girl user.
is a little more vague.

All three.