I hate the whole process of getting into a relationship and don't want to have anything to do with it...

I’m in a relationship right now, but I feel a bit stressed because I know it’s going to end. After this, I think i’m done with women. I’ll probably be like you OP. Just ride the rest of it out single

If you find a clever attractive woman and take care of her and your children, she won't.
No.
Newton and Tesla, while geniuses in science, were retards and didn't live happy lives. Despite their accomplishments, they were not fulfilled.

I'm not a very talkative person, I'm also not rich or especially attractive (but I take care of myself). I've never had any problem getting a girl.

You sound beta as fuck like you haven't even had your first breakup. I can tell you're going to have a very hard time dealing with it.

>If you find a clever attractive woman and take care of her and your children, she won't.

Think about it. EVERYONE who gets married thinks they found a clever and attractive woman. Nobody marries thinking they will get divorced later. It’s a matter of luck. One of my friends was married to his wife for 7 years. They were actually just about to try and have a kid. She literally told him “I can’t wait for you to be the father to my child”. He wanted badly to get her pregnant and they were going to try for a kid the following month. But what happened? He caught her cheating with another lad. He never thought they would ever get divorced. I didnt think so either. She was very nice and treated him well.

>you didn't fail at relationships like most modern retards do, therefore you're beta
What?
>EVERYONE who gets married thinks they found a clever and attractive woman
That's far from reality. People fail at many stages of relationships in modern times. And you've got no real argument. You're projecting.

>That's far from reality.

It doesn’t matter. If you marry a woman, you’re going to expect this to last the rest of your life. Don’t sit there and say “it won’t happen if you marry a clever and attractive woman. Everyone married someone who they think will stick by them. It doesn’t always happen. Infact, in today’s society divorces are more and more common.

>dude, if something can happen, you should be a paranoid incel
You know that you're likely to die in a car crash, right? Do you worry much if you're a careful law abiding driver? Yes, there is a small possibility of an accident, but it's not a reason to sperg out.

Your entire world revolves around women and the false idea that everyone is promised a chance at a never ending relationship. You have the mental fortitude of a child that watched his first disney movie.. Incredibly beta.

>incel
Oh, you're from reddit. That explains it.

I don't think that. I think it's children that are much more important than women, and family isn't the only thing bringing fulfillment.
>he said the triggering word!
I hit the nerve, right? Fag.

Ironic because your nerves are infinitely more triggered than anyone else's. Try coming back when you've graduated high school.

Show me where I'm triggered.

1. Look at any given post you've ever made
2. Realize every word reeks of triggered

Wrong.

I'm right though.

>you need to be in a relationship and married to get fulfilled.
Why?

Because that's the best way to have your kids and fulfill your main biological imperative to breed.

Not any of the guys you're talking to but no thanks. I make enough money that I can afford a whore every couple months so I don't need to deal with all the bullshit that goes with having a relationship. Not everyone finds fulfillment from them. I sure didn't. It was more of a means to an end than anything else.

Good to know that you're ending your lineage, bye!

Enjoy your divorce :^)

>le divorce boogeyman

ok

No, my cousins will take care of that. I don't really care about lineages. I live for myself and then I'll be dead. Once I'm gone I'll be incapable of caring if I had successors or not.

Nihilists are cucks. Sorry about your loss.

I'm not really losing anything, though.

>not having children makes you a nihilist

But you are. Losing your chance to live on even after your death. If you can't grasp the concept of lineage, I guess you deserve to be waste for the humanity and life overall.
It does. Because nihilism implies not seeing value in anything, and not reproducing is one of the most profound behaviors of nihilism.

You don't live on, user. You're dead. You're as dead as dead can be children or not. If having children brings you comfort as you pass then by all means have them. You seem awfully defensive about your way of life when presented with someone who doesn't share your views. Why are you insecure?

Nothing insecure. On the contrary. The only thing that can stop you from fearing death when getting old is knowing that everything you've done in life lead to creating your dear children. I want that. Die happily.

Really all it takes is compensating in every single other area. take the time to REALLY invest in your friends and family the way you might in a relationship. Don't make it a casual 'lets do this if the occasion arises' relationship. Take the time to make people feel special and let them make you feel special. We live in a time where we are told its 'gay' to feel close to friends, and family just isn't seen as that important. But there is no reason you can't go out of your way to enjoy one another solidify your relationships as meaningful.

beyond that, focus on really kickass careers or hobbies, and if you have the means get laid as often as you can.

I hope you do find peace and happiness when your time comes. I also will but for different reasons.

Pursue a passion and or career. I’m 27 and have the same issue. Great career and a couple hobbies, but no women in my life. I’ve been pretty depressed last few months after the news I got at my job but I think I’m almost over it. Going to go into my career full swing and try to get more involved in my hobbies so I don’t think about not having a girl.

It changes as you age, but there are some general tips to happiness that don't involve romantic partners:

Friends, get a lot of them.
I used to think it was too hard to maintain more than 3-5 friends, but it is possible if you maintain several groups of friends.
Within each group, you can have a few good friends, so go for that.
I currently have 4 groups of friends.
Some I see once or a few times year, some I see multiple times per week.

Once you have these groups of friends, you can do things you want to do.
Friends do not judge you the same way, they aren't trying to fuck you or change you.
Friends are the only kind of relationship that is true.

Career:
Do something you want to do.
Money is much less important now you don't have to provide for something other than yourself.
Taking a job that pays slightly less than another is suddenly fine if you want the work more is suddenly viable.

Living:
You can live right where you want to.
Even buying a place is less of a commitment when you live alone.

The hardest part is when your friends all grow up, get married and have kids.
It is hard to stay in touch and I have not learned how to tackle this yet.

>Friends are the only kind of relationship that is true.

I believe this, but most people seem to not realize this and take it for granted. its sad that friends are put at a bottom priority when I really do think they should be the top priority.