Hi Anons... Girlfriend of five years just broke up with me. She's 24 and I'm 28. It's the first relationship for both of us. She says she still loves me and that I'm basically the perfect man (at least for her). According to her the reason is because she needs to be young and wild before settling down in a serious relationship. But I mean, we've BEEN in a serious relationship for five fucking years and now she pulls this? She wishes that we'd have met five years later...
Anyone got experience with this sort of thing that wants to share? I told her that I think she's making a huge mistake and she'll regret it. Will she?
What the fuck do I do user? How the fuck do I not lose my shit over this?
She wants to have sex with other men, if you didn't know that's what she means. She will come back to you after she's had enough sex, is what it sounds like
Caleb Rogers
You have a small dick, I'd bail too
Evan Anderson
Just get another girlfriend there are plenty of them out there
John King
You got boring. Probably started taking her for granted and acting comfortable and feminine. It happens so easily. Sorry it happened to you too OP.
Now it’s time for you to reconnect with your masculinity and consciously learn what makes it tick. That way you’ll be equipped to keep it alive in your next relationship.
Joseph Clark
She got a taste of that Chad dick and now you pale in comparison. Chances are Chad is railing her right now and she will eagerly swallow every drop of his cum. Don't worry, I'm sure she'll think of you in her post post orgasm glow while she's warming Chad up for round five.
Nathan Wright
>will she?
yes. and no. really we have no idea where any of our lives are going so no matter where we go we look back at some things with regret and other things without regret. you have to remember that staying with you isn't a decision she'd have to make once. once you know you want to break up with someone staying with them is a decision you have to make every day. you can't just live your entire life putting up with something you don't entirely want and expect to be happy with that choice. This is pretty common as well. some people settle down young and dont really think about it, then suddenly they realize if they don't leave now they wont have the chance to do all the things they missed out on... but you can start a family later in life and thats considered the wiser decision in general. some of our parents didnt get divorced but they still recommended you dont get married til later. that tells us that our parents biggest regret is being together and they dont want their kids to do the same, even if they seem to be happy
no one is wrong in this situation, and no matter what path she chose both of you were both going to end up happy or sad regardless. your relationship is only one part of your life. you spend more time at work than with your partner, so yo ucan't even say its the biggest factor. love does not conquer all.
Henry Thompson
She'll jump the cock carousel for a few years, possibly ride it just that year or two too long as she fails to realize it's waning, leaving her with little to no "viable" options and miserable for the rest of her life as she feels . Cut contact completely and focus on improving yourself and looking for more like minded girls who are also focused on building actual relationships to last.
Liam Bennett
>girlfriend of five years lmao why do people fucking do this? It's so unnatural and stupid
Colton Wilson
I don't know why people make this kind narrative up. the world is not crawling with single ex sluts. men get a little more power later in the life for the dating game, but I've never met an older single woman who stayed single for long.
which part?
Chase Lee
"dating" for years and dancing around the porridge is stupid, no wonder it tends to fall apart unless you are running serious religion game
Mason Adams
5 years is a long time to date someone. You should've proposed before she got the idea to jump ship
Nathan Barnes
Interesting. I guess most people just operate under the assumption that jumping to marriage too soon leads to a divorce instead of a break up. like if you tried to marry her at the 1 or 2 year mark then by the 5 year mark you are losing half your money instead of just a girl.
probably would have made things worse desu, I don't know where you guys get this sort of logic.
Dominic Fisher
I'm not even talking about marriage (unless running religion game) but about fucking a baby into that shit, which is literally the whole fucking point.
Thomas Jones
It's not about them being single, it's about them feeling the world shorted them and that they deserve much more than whoever they've ended up with, which tends to leave a fairly miserable existence. t. 37 year old whose friends have walked some very different paths and have very different states of mind to show for it. It's not a narrative that sprung up from nowhere.
Ayden Jackson
That's what it sounds like, yeah. Is that okay? I get where she's coming from but if I knew what I know now at her age, I wouldn't do this. We were happy together. Everyone's different though I suppose. More or less.
Carson Mitchell
Holy hell it worked. Why do I get "Connection error."?
Thanks for the replies Anons, I really appreciate it. In the end I have no say in this and I'll just do my best to keep going with my life. Who knows what'll happen. I'll try to get out more I guess, maybe do some workout. Eat better. Fuck all this bullshit. But it'll be better soon. I feel you broken hearted Anons out there. night & peace
Aaron Hill
She wants to go slut it up. Leave her and never contact her again or accept any contact from her. She's not interested in sharing a lasting relationship with you. Find a new girl.
Cooper Morgan
>She says she still loves me and that I'm basically the perfect man (at least for her). That's incredibly manipulative, I'm sorry user but she's not the nice person you though she was. Please don't ever get back with her, for your own sake.
Asher Rodriguez
This
Hudson Brown
>According to her the reason is because she needs to be young and wild before settling down in a serious relationship
YIKES. Abandon ship OP.
Tyler Carter
she thinks youre unattractive
Julian Hall
>What the fuck do I do user? Listen to me brother. This is what you do: celebrate.
Literally fucking throw a party because you didn't just dodge a bullet, you dodged a nuke. FUCK this bitch. Start saying that outloud.
Boy this sucks, i think she will feel free for a bit of time, then she will understand how stupid she is
Btw i don't think you should forgive her if she comes back And if she don't don't worry, you will find someone that will apprecciate you more, and will not treat you like that Nobody deserves that
Nathaniel Carter
Look if you really want this chick back, then stop talking to her. She's stringing you along like a puppy because she knows you aren't going anywhere. Be a man and cut her off, she will most likely want you back. If not, then there goes all the stress. Plenty of fish in the sea.
She basically wants to fuck other guys until she is ready to settle down. That's what she means by needing to be "young and wild." Been there done that.
Owen Ramirez
She left you because she wanted to f all for the normie female cock carousal meme instead of having a stable life and relationship. Be happy and move on because she probably would have had the thoughts in her head if you stuck together, and then cheated on you with the first guy that flirted with her.
Andrew Lee
THIS OP. DODGED THE NUKE. DODGED THE NUKE. POUR YOURSELF SOME SHOTS FAGGOT.
Levi Kelly
So, she dumped you cause she wants to be a slut? Dude, she was parasite that probably would've killed you in a few more months to years, be glad you finally got it removed.
Connor Sanchez
She did you a favor. Cut contact and don't respond because you're not going to trust her again anyway. Focus on yourself. Go fuck some sluts or hookers on the side. Hookers are cheaper than a relationship anyway. If you're lonely then get a pet and go out and make friends. Seriously go make some fucking friends. Live for yourself and learn to love yourself. It's gonna hurt. Especially in the beginning but you'll make it op.
