I cannot fucking find virgin girls goddamnit where are they
I cannot fucking find virgin girls goddamnit where are they
Already married to better men than you.
And no I'm too old for highschoolers
Fucking the other dicks looking for virgins.
Seriously, this is a disgusting qualification to expect from any person over puberty for a romantic relationship.
Uh oh OP, looks like you struck a nerve with the used up slut.
Oh yes, it's so disgusting to ask for self respect/control
Self control doesn’t mean not having sex. It means having safe sex.
Christians are the only ones that believe in no sex before marriage even then they usually do it before and lie about it.
Face it virgins, girls aren’t going to be as inexperienced as you are. The time to have sex with a virgin was middle school.
Oh look, the basement dwelling teen got hurt by the truth. I know, it stings. But the truth is women are the ones that get to choose their partners, and women in high demand, like virgins, don't have to stoop to your level. They get to pick the best suitable partners, so why would they choose you?
This bait is too good for females to pass up apparently.
Why is self respect a bad quality to ask for?
t. prostitute
There is more than one woman on this board and responding to you.
To answer your question, how in the fuck do you think a woman having sex on her own terms equals lack of self-respect? If anything it is exactly having self-respect.
ITT mens double standards of women
Having sex at all demonstrates a lack of self respect, like tattoos and drug use.
So why do you want a girlfriend?
To find a wife and a mother for my children.
How are you gonna have kids without sex?
I cannot fucking find girls goddamnit where are they
Smart ass.
>having sex at all demonstrates a lack of self respect.
It's a legitimate question my dude.
does your pastor know you are on Jow Forums?
Reproduction is the end goal of sex, strictly in a biological urge sense. Reproduction allows one to live again, if you will, through the genetic lineage of their children and their children's children and so on.
If living forever equals lack of self respect, you fail at metaphysical math.
Kill yourself, incel.
Stop playing dumb.
Sex for women is not the same as sex for men, it carries a bigger psychological burden.
This
Chances are you're either an incel or a non-virgin yourself; not exactly panty wetting material for a woman who's saving herself.
1. I am an atheist
2. Stop being stupid like the other faggot you both know we are talking about premarital sex and you're just harping on because my verbage wasn't autistically airtight and verbose about implicit details.
tldr fuck you, smart ass.
>still wanting 3D women
For what purpose?
You don't sound like a catch
He's right though, why should anyone have sex with you but not other people?
I'm not, why does sex equate to a lack of self respect but only if you don't have kids? I'm just trying to get your mindset.
So according to tfw no virgin gf incels, if I don't want to have kids I ought to stay virgin forever?
No, he's just being a dipshit pretending that he doesn't understand that we are talking about premarital sex when he understands that very clearly. It's just shitposting.
So you'd be fine with fucking a non-virgin provided she'd only had sex inside of a marriage?
Degenerate behavior = lack of self respect
If you want to have sex then find a spouse, or better yet, find a way to control your urges.
Am I the husband? I don't fuck with divorcees and I am not a homewrecker.
Then it isn't about pre-marital sex; it's about virginity as some puritanical benchmark you actual retard
No it isn't, I don't fuck with divorcees because they're crazy, not because they're impure.
OK but how does degenerate behavior = lack of self respect? Like all I can really see is degenerate behavior = degeneracy.
Because if you respected yourself you would avoid degeneracy.
What about widows then?
I'm not into grannies.
The reason is that you're a virgin yourself is that you're either ugly or socially retarded, and rather than work on improving yourself or lower your standards you whine on a Nepalese ferret-training forum that girls that don't know you exist won't wait for you.
I mean, if you were religious I'd 100% understand and suggest you try and meet girls in church groups or something but you aren't, you're just a self-entitled cunt that will always see yourself as a victim. You are going to spend the rest of your life being lonely and miserable unless you change.
T. took a girl's virginity last month :^)
So a legal certificate and a social ceremony by a trusted person in the community that costs boucoup bucks makes it okay to have sex?
Again, kill yourself incel. If some bitch ever finds you, cause you sure as hell aren't going to find her, she's going to leave you for someone who will fuck her or at least has religious backing to their condemnation of premarital sex.
i loled so hard i came
dateanincel.com
Savor that
It's the only time you'll cum without using your hand
It took me a while to realize LH was right, but you'll come around eventually.
Sex is far too monumental to trust to someone you don't know for absolutely sure you will spend the rest of your life with and doing anything less than that devalues it to the point you simply won't be able to HAVE a normal lifelong relationship. Promiscuity is a catalyst for disaster.
Perception is reality you poor lonely faggot. My brother thought the same way until he got laid for the first time at 19. Sex has as much meaning as an individual ascribes to it. You can't force others to accept your perception of reality, nor can you expect the world to spit out a woman who is perfect for you AND a virgin.
You cannot retroactively moralize and expect to be taken seriously. I am sad and a virgin --> I am good ---> being a sad virgin is good ---> people who are not sad virgins are bad
or I am a sad, lonely virgin --> I cannot directly control the fact that I am a sad lonely virgin, it would take work --> it must be that it is morally right to be a virgin, so I was in the right the whole time --> people who are not like me are inferior and should expect to suffer (because they have what I don't and have had to accept going without)
it shot right into my mouth yum yum
>nor can you expect the world to spit out a woman who is perfect for you AND a virgin.
Other user, but, I can still hope, right?
I don't condemn anyone. People should do as they like. But I can't let go of my preferences. I'm too insecure too accept a woman who had another man. If it's not a virgin, I will suffer alone forever or die. So I just hope that under the millions of people there is just that one person that is a bit like me and understands me and is the right one for me. People always say that incels expect this that or the other. That they think the universe owes them something. That they feel entitled. But I am not this way. I just hope that somewhere there's a niche for me, some place to go other than hell. I don't know how to find this place. And chances are it doesn't even exist. You say it takes work, but where do I get motivation if I don't even know whether I have a chance. I'm too weak to change and too narcissistic to seek help. What the fuck do I do?
>Why should they choose you
Because I quite literally do male modling on the side and make $100,000 a year AT LEAST, own a 5 bedroom 3 bathroom house with a cathedral ceiling great room, have a master's degree and teach college at age 26?
I'm not the fat fuck you're imagining.
>I'm too insecure too accept a woman who had another man.
This is the real issue. You need to build self-worth. It takes time and certain experiences as a catalyst. Don't prioritize the capture of a perfect virgin soulmate right now. Focus on becoming the person that the women you want would find desirable. Whatever you are good at, get better and then find a way to monetize it. You have skills, whether you recognize them or not, and all skills are marketable. The fact that you aren't exceptionally social will help you focus on refining your skills. Then, when you are sure of yourself "I know I am good at this" or even "I know I am better at this than anyone" you will begin to attract women (and men, as friends) who build you up. Then, once you establish a social circle, you will be able to select from it.
In the meantime, go somewhere you really like to eat or shop or otherwise a public place that has something you dig. Keep going to those places. I tell you, a girl will crop up. Write your number on a piece of paper, or on a couple. Keep them in your wallet. See if you can work up to handing one to a girl who catches your eye and who you think looks promising.
I gave my brother this advice: go to the places you enjoy, which will invariably the places where women will have at least one common interest with you. If you want to meet an intellectual, go to a book store or library or some university event. If you want to meet an artsy chick, go to galleries. My brother met a chick at this Vietnamese noodle shop. She was just as much into anime and ramen and a lot of other shit he was.
Everything truly great takes some kind of effort.
Good luck, user.
no fucking way you are tenured at 26.
>all skills are marketable.
Yeah. Go ahead and brag about having a .23 second reload without getting the cops called.
Money attracts whores looking for money.
Make sure people know you have enough to feed yourself, but don't flaunt your wealth. That will only end up attracting those attracted to wealth, i.e. whores.
Are you also a virgin user? You may have answered this but cannot be arsed reading through this shitty thread.
Thanks for the advice, user.
>In the meantime, go somewhere you really like to eat or shop or otherwise a public place that has something you dig.
I don't think there is a place I like other then maybe this mountain. Should I just hike up the mountain every day and look for girls there? Haha. No, I mean, yeah I look for someone intellectual, but whenever I go to the book store I get a really bad mood for some reason, because there's so much crap that is still more popular than any of my works will ever be probably.
Does it have to be a real place anyway? Can't I find a girl online?
I'm the user who made this thread btw maybe you can give me advice on that too? I thought that maybe I could do some stuff with my creative skills online, but I'm always afraid that I'm just too late to the party.
>tenured
No, not yet, I never said I was. Do you know what tenure is?
Yes, by choice. I'm a born again christian
I never do. You think I could get 18-19 year olds?
Well I'll be damned. If it isn't the world's first male model college professor millionaire. You forgot to mention that you're also a Navy SEAL and astronaut, whose hip-hop album is about to drop next week. Congrats on all your sucesses and thank you for your service.
kek
I sell shit on Amazon, make money off Bitcoin and have had like, 3 modeling gigs for this small wedding company, the house is inherited and I am adjunct for right now like every one else trying to be a professor at my age.
None of this is outlandish. It's an anonymous board why would I need to lie?
>why would anyone lie on the internet?
Well I guess you're right then.
>Goes around calling people "used up sluts"
>WHY WON'T ANYONE HAVE SEX WITH MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE?!?!?!?!?!
But that requires sex, which demonstrates a lack of self-respect.
>fuck you, smart ass.
When, where, and what positions?
>lmao I'm so smart
Thanks for noticing.
What incels don't seem to understand is that having sex when you want to, not based on what others think, unlocks independence and builds self-respect. As a woman, if you have sex when you want to, you no longer let dickheads like OP control your life. There are always better men out there to find who get it.
i know what your reasons are for wanting a virgin gf. but remember, its just an ideal.
in reality, virgin or not, all women are degenerate thots that you and every man should avoid like the plague.
Okay so here is the thing about this... You'll never have a stable relationship.
>inb4 humans aren't meant to be monogamous
You couldn't be any more wrong. Humans have tons of very complex and high impact pair bonding routines, I'm willing to bet your outlook on life and relationships have been heavily impacted by your first heart break (if you ever even loved some one else in your life). The next thing is having a child is incredibly stressful on a woman, and human women almost only have one child at a time. Women aren't like cats where they just get shot up with a bunch of random cat sperm and birth 9 kids from 4 different fathers. Next human development takes a long time, human children are born 2 years prematurely and the child and female both become heavily dependent on a father. Fathers are also very important in early and mid childhood development while the mother is almost exclusively depended on during beginning birth.
Not only that but divorce is one of the largest triggers for kids to develop certain forms of psychosis.
The scientific literature is in. This free love, fuck who ever, no attachment, no genuine relationship has severe consequences on all levels.
While op might be a dick and doesn't know why he's doing what he's doing neither do you but in reality you're probably more fucked up than he is.
Even if this is bait, and i could go into even more detail, I'll probably copy and paste this for people to read because it's important and people aren't aware.
You assume I care about "harmful" effects on society, children, marriage statistics, whatever. I don't. People have the right to do as they please sexually, and moralizing fags can fuck off. Niggas who understand live and let live get it. I don't have time to govern my life on holding back on pointless shit. Fuck a chick you don't know the name of. Eat that fattening burger. Jerk off in your home to 4K porn. Who cares nigga? Not anyone worth my time.
i think i get it now
Jow Forums is Jow Forums but for women
>You have no way to verify if anything I say is true, why would I lie?
Gee, I dunno.
humans are meant to be monogamous for the 4 or so years it takes to raise a child to the point that it can reliably function pretty autonomously without needing constant supervision so it doesn't die
not life
Hm, nah. Virgin women know their value, even a plain jane will get "love" thrown their way by Trump-tier men if she's a virgin and at least a wee bit classy. Of course if said virgin's self-esteem is pretty low, she'll still scramble to hide under her homely rock at lightspeed and nope the hell outta there.
t. plain jane
>a 4 year old can reliably function pretty autonomously without needing constant supervision so it doesn't die
Are you actually retarded?
Plain Jane sounds perfect, where do I find you people?
Do I really need to become a morman to live out the virgin wife dream?
they can walk and talk and you can let them out of your sight
compared to an infant, yes
they don't really require 2 parents anymore
Can't help you with that because I'm from Europe, the mentalities are entirely different. For example religious devotion is a pretty big enabler of cheating and shadiness here, while in the US it sounds like religion is the last anchor to avoid degeneracy (?). And I haven't gone to any social events since highschool prom.
*And I haven't gone to any social events since highschool prom, so I honestly wouldn't know how an encounter to hit it off could ever happen.
You do realize that old age isn't the only way to die, yes?
I get that they're riding you hard about this, but still.
Also, to whoever,
the only people who should be fucking virgins are other virgins. I mean, fair's fair.
If you ain't one, quit bitching about not finding one. If you are one, then crusade on. If you've kept yourself this long because you wanted it to be for a spouse, then don't settle for someone who didnt. They don't deserve you.
Well best of luck, I just hope to find girls like you.
>Gave it to current GF but she wasn't a virgin
>Regret it now
Guess I know how she feels now.