Recently my girlfriend has been expressing her concerns that she is missing out on a lot f stuff as a teenager...

There has been too much violence. Too much pain. But I have an honorable compromise. Just walk away. Give me your pump, the oil, the gasoline, and the whole compound, and I'll spare your lives. Just walk away and we'll give you a safe passageway in the wastelands. Just walk away and there will be an end to the horror.

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I feel a man should maintain his dignity even if it means a painful breakup. If she's outright telling you that you're not enough, I'd say let her go and begin the process of moving on. Too many people who want a life partner out here to deal with someone who wants to build up a bunch of useless experiences.

My gf did this. She was 21 and decided it was time to be single.

>Teenagers
>Thinking she's the only one you'll ever be with.

Relationships at this age are supposed to be temporary experiences and experiments. Occasionally you hear about these rare stories of highschool sweethearts who get married but just as often you here about how the same couples divorce 20 years later because someone regrets wasting their youth on one person.

Damn Op if it's come to this I've to wonder what the fuck is wrong with your relationship. When she openly said she'll have a go with another man, you must let her go.
Delete, nuke, ghost, it's done. No more tears. I don't believe it's something salvageable or even worth considering anymore if it's happened like that.

I can almost promise some one is fucking with her head. It's either her parents or her friends. If it's her parents they're doing it because they don't like you and want her to drop you so they're pushing how fun fucking around is because they would prefer that over her wasting her time with you.

If it is her friends, they've just gone through break ups and had their heart shit on, so they're being nihilistic, hedonistic and spiteful. What I mean by that is they hate seeing her in a "successful" relationship so they're talking her out of it and showing her how much of a wonderful time they're having by going to parties, doing drugs, fucking strange men and getting fucked up.

If it truly is neither of those things then you should break up with her because she's going to become a mess of a human being real fucking quick. And you'll want to get away from that train crash as soon as possible. I'm not fucking around, get away. Start fucking her friends. flip it on her if you want. just do what ever you can to genuinely not give a fuck about her as quickly as possible and teach her a lesson while you're at it.

If it is one of the first 2 things talk with her, try to point it out, if she doesn't acknowledge it then do the same thing as if she was doing it herself. Fuck her friends, women love drama and if they can literally fuck her friends boyfriend they'll do it.

Then again, dont date degenerates.

OP here

What do you mean by the fact that she´ll become a mess?

i mean i dont doubt that it could happen, but would you care to clarify what you mean by it?

And BTW her parents like me a lot, actually her entire family does, they keep pointing out how well we fit together and how well we compliment each other.

Her friends hate me tho, like straight up, the guys want to assult me and the girls keep telling her that she deserves better and that she should dump me cause i made a mistake here and there

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Sure, when I said she will likely become a mess I mean a girl that does tons of drugs, tries to party as much as possible burns herself out and the relationships around her. She'll probably be able to get a job together eventually but doesn't mean she won't run a train on random guys eventually until either getting pregnant or never developing a real relationship again(people don't understand this but guys have almost no value when they hit puberty and girls have almost all the value and it quickly becomes the opposite).

>Her friends hate me tho, like straight up, the guys want to assult me and the girls keep telling her that she deserves better and that she should dump me cause i made a mistake here and there
Yep...
Well depending on your mistakes maybe you deserve it all, but if they're genuinely as innocent as you say (which i personally doubt) her friends and what you did are fucking with her head due to their own issues and you not taking enough responsibility. I can almost promise at least one of her "friends" would fuck you just to stir up drama and spite her.
If you care, tell her you're sorry, attempt to reason with her, tell her not listen to her friends and try growing together in a stable relationship. If she doesn't listen cut her off quick and hard and don't fucking stop. Even if she calls up crying and begging, trust me. But if you do care give it a good try not just a simple 4 minute chat but dialogue/conversation.

Realize that you're a teenager and your relationship was never going to last forever.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but this is most likely your girlfriend trying to figure out how to break up with you, but not knowing how to actually do it. At the very least she's telling you that she doesn't want to be with you for the rest of her life.

Sorry OP, it sucks, but that's the point of teen relationships: They're starter relationships that you learn from and eventually move on from into actual adult relationships.

Hahahaha fuck that noise dude get the hell out shes saying that to protect herself from sounding like a slut, the minute she starts whoring around she's forgotten you

OP here

i think it would be worth mentioning that im older than her, and she thinks i have more experience than she has.

im 20 and shes 17

Oh yea she's a fucking idiot then

When I was your age I dated a 17 year old as well, when I turned 21 I went to a bar with my bros and got hammered, she went into a full mental break down because she thought I was gonna turn into an alcoholic

Honestly dude, might want to consider dating someone closer to your age. Girls that age really don't know how to handle an adult relationship

oh, i´ve noticed, i mean it´s only 3 years difference but...it shows from time to time

Dude if a girl tells you that she can fuck right off

Either she is flaking out on you (lost interest) or you are complacent. No woman should ever doubt about her man unless her man makes her.

Go out on more dates and be positive.
If that doesn't work, her spark is gone. Look elsewhere.

End it, she is looking for a free pass.
That said, you can still go places together and make memories, you don't have to exclusively remember your wife when you die and your life flashes before your eyes.

Excuses, excuses.

OP, I'm a woman who has only ever been with one guy and not once have I fallen for the fear of missing out meme. It's just an excuse for sluts who want to cheat on their bfs. Dump her.

OP here

I just realized she´s pretty much a basic bitch without the Ugg boots

dude. shit's done. in your place i'd dump her, take some time off and then find someone else. she is obviously gonna cheat. the whole "missing teenager experiences" is just an excuse to not feel bad about wanting to dump you. i am sorry, i know how you feel but you need and will move on. there are other people out there and you can rely on your friends

OP here

I dont think she´s gonna cheat, she just doesnt have it in her personality

She was raised in this upper class neighbourhood where everybody knows each other, she attended private school with the same people for like 10 years and she has basically been very sheltered, and now that she´s in a public school shes exposed to this new world with different moral standards and just different standards overall, and i just think she wants to try all this new shit now that she realized that it is out there

>We both
It's time to stop drinking the kool-aid, OP.

and? that is no excuse. i know you love her and try to find ways around it. its no use. you need to talk with her and if she is still on about it, dump her. personally after the whole "most likely gonna make out with another guy" id get out. like said, stop drinking the kool aid, my dude

OP here

TF does drinking the kool aid mean?

The koolaid is drugged.

22 yo here
6 years with first and only gf I ever had
No regrets

A reference to the 1978 cult mass-suicide in Jonestown, Guyana. Jim Jones, the leader of the group, convinced his followers to move to Jonestown. Late in the year he then ordered his flock to commit suicide by drinking grape-flavored Kool-Aid laced with potassium cyanide. In what is now commonly called "the Jonestown Massacre", 913 of the 1100 Jonestown residents drank the Kool-Aid and died.

One lasting legacy of the Jonestown tragedy is the saying, “Don’t drink the Kool-Aid.” This has come to mean, "Don’t trust any group you find to be a little on the kooky side." or "Whatever they tell you, don't believe it too strongly".

The phrase can also be used in the opposite sense to indicate that one has embraced a particular philosophy or perspective.

And you can't see the red flags there?

It's over, and it isn't coming back.

What red flags? to me it just seems like we agreed on a plan B

>she´s said that she´ll most likely end up making out with a guy and i should be cool with it cause i messed up previously, i didnt cheat or anything, mostly just hanging out with friends
>making out with a guy
>i should be cool with it
>i didnt cheat or anything

DUMP. THAT. HOE.
I REPEAT: BREAK UP WITH THAT WHORE.

You have been warned. Anything that happens from now is on YOU.

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ABORT ABORT ABORT.

You keep saying
>I have made mistakes here and there, but it wasn't cheating I swear!

You're anonymous here, stop being vague. What did you do? Did you text sexy msgs to someone behind her back? Did you kiss some chick? Did you spend alone time with a girl behind her back?

Cheating isn't just when you have sex with someone.

Well, she had an issue with the fact that a lot of my friends (primarely girls, and classmates) texted me quite a bit.

I have also on several occasions taken a weekend or a week out to get together with some close friends to just chill and hang out again (Happens once or twice a year)
Keep in mind one of my very close female friends is my ex (Were both over and past it and have dated several people since)

>one of my closest female friends is my ex
I know you'd feel very uncomfortable if her best friend was her ex and she hung around and texted him every day. Don't lie.

Now it's coming together. This didn't come out of nowhere at all. She is very insecure (with good reason. Her reaction is immature and over the top, but she is a teen and doesn't know how to respond to these pent-up feelings you likely dismissed if she ever casually mentioned them)

Well, she´s mentioned it before but i´ve tried breaking it down to show her that theres nothing in between me and my ex, nor will there ever be

You heard the man. He doesn't want to kill anyone, he only wants the compound. If a vault-dweller can survive the wasteland, surely a whole village of surfacers can do it.

>friends involved in relationship
The only friends who have the right to comment on a relationship are the one's who are currently in a successful one. Even then they don't have the right to say anything because every relationship is different and comparing one person's to another's is like apples and oranges because people are different.

Granted abusive relationships need to be commented on, and I mean real abuse, but other than those -People need to butt the fuck out.

Especially if they're single or haven't ever had anything longer than a year or two.

Real relationships begin when the butterflies end. Anybody who hasn't stuck with a relationship through that, hasn't had one.

Time to say goodbye! She's telling you her future intentions.

Leave now or share a vagina with many other men. Hot young highschool men with slim tinder pink penises and baseball caps.

Break it off before you get cucked

>Occasionally you hear about these rare stories of highschool sweethearts who get married but just as often you here about how the same couples divorce 20 years later because someone regrets wasting their youth on one person.
Who hears? Or is this another "its never going to work out goy now that I'm in your head ploy" to plant doubt?

Say something like this: "You know what, you're right. I'm missing out on all these other girls too, it's probably best we break up. I wouldn't want to hold you back from what you find important, and I suppose now that you've brought this to light, I realise that I don't want to be held back either."

You can either start fucking other girls, or let her know you're not going to tolerate that degenerate whore-like behaviour. Daily reminder that open relationships are cuckoldry with extra steps.

>we both love each other greatly
If that's the case, then she shouldn't be so preoccupied thinking about what it would be like to be fucked by other men.

>maybe we just werent meant to be together right now
Then you weren't meant to be together at all.

If one man kills another, is the justifiable solution to kill the man who killed that man? Would that not just lead to an infinite cycle of murder?

Mistakes are not repaired by mistakes, OP. Sort her out or leave the relationship before you're labelled a cuckold.

>the girls keep telling her that she deserves better and that she should dump me
Doesn't the fact that your girlfriend is listening to her friends over her potential future life-partner confirm the quality of that girl? You're better off finding somebody better (they're out there), and letting her regret it when she's a 30 and single while all of her friends are getting married. A good way to get future girls also is on tinder, but don't actually get with your match (unless she's clearly not on tinder as a whore), just meet her friends and get with one of them. At least that way you can keep some of your dignity not having to say "We met on Tinder." If her parents think you're good for her, other parents will think your good for their daughters too.

>I just realized she´s pretty much a basic bitch without the Ugg boots
I'm so proud of you.

>i just think she wants to try all this new shit now that she realized that it is out there
Yeah, she'll be thinking the same way in twenty years when she files for divorce, becomes a middle-aged slut and fucks up your life. She's not going to experience the whore life, and she'll blame it on you and make your marriage miserable.

Example that more worthy girls exist.

>girls messaging you all the time
>girlfriend getting mad at you for hanging out with your friends '''once or twice a year'''
She's holding you back socially just about as much as she thinks you're holding her back sexually. You've got other girls lined up too apparently, so you don't even have anything to worry about.

>She's holding you back socially just about as much as she thinks you're holding her back sexually. You've got other girls lined up too apparently, so you don't even have anything to worry about.

Its not like the girls messaging me are potential partners, they´re friends, most of them just message me about homework and our exams. And the one who texts just to talk and cathch up is already in a stable commited relationship (Hoped she wasnt cause damn she´s hot)

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that's a cunt move at best. sane people don't use someone elses past mistakes to justify their future ones. dump her, OP

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Someone only looks to fuck someone else when they are not happy/satisfied with the relationship. I've been in lots of bad ones and always had a wandering eye. Now that i am in a good relationship the thought doesn't even enter my mind. You need to move on. More than likely she will realize that the grass is not greener and try to come back

Well i dont think she would go as far as fucking some fuckboy at a party, maybe just make out with him. And for some reason she tries to justify it by saying she is gonna get so drunk that she doesnt know whats happening, to me that doesnt justify anything, it just shows that you´re fucking stupid

>not meant to be together ((right now))

sounds like she wants to fuck around and get dicked by a bunch of other dudes before returning to the boring safety of your relationship. if that’s cool with you, fine, but you should probably know something about yourself.

you’re a cuck m8.

what the absolute fuck.

she sounds like a dumb hoe. delete her from your life and let her be a free hoe butterfly.

Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard had an open relationship because of this but are now monogamous. I guess open relationships work when both partners are attractive though

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9/10 bretty gud but (you) dont fool me

OP here

What do you mean

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My mum does that apparently, that's what dad said. She lost virginity to him, had 3 kids and never cheated or did anything. It seems like some people are like that. My dad told me because of that that I should try few men before getting married but I don't believe that bullshit, I'm marrying the one I lost virginity to.

If you think she will cheat then dumb her, if you think it's just complaining for the sake of complaining then tell her to stfu

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You super mega ultra cucklord beta faggot.
Leave that bitch NOW bevore she makes you suck tyrones cum out of her pussy

Lmao they all took it

The relationship is already done OP.
Cut it off

OP here

I just remembered something we talked about a couple of days ago.

She said that if we were to go our seperate ways for some time she would be devestated to see me with another girl while she was free to go be a whore.

Does that make sense or am i just dense?

Dense.

lmao, this is bait. abandon thread boiz

Stop wasting peoples time you fucking stupid faggot. Take your shitty bait back to the shitty board/reddit that you came from

Fuck off.

jesus fucking christ OP, how many anons have told you to dump her? And you still don't listen. Are you actually retarded? Can you not objectively think about your situation and conclude that this relationship is O V E R. She's 17, do you really think it'll stop with "making out"? Giving into "hunger" of tasting something different, eventually it will lead to "I just want another dick inside me". Stop wasting your time and fucking break up.

I swear to god if next time OP updates this thread and he still hasn't broken up, actual 50 IQ.

>Its not like the girls messaging me are potential partners
If girls are going out of their way to contact you in the first place, you're already in luck - even if it's about homework. I'm sure you're not the only one who can be spoken to about homework or exams.

>justify it by saying she is gonna get so drunk that she doesnt know whats happening
>voluntarily incapacitating herself as an excuse to be taken advantage of
Clearly, she's already expecting it to happen, and is willing to get drunk to the point where it will happen; she has explicitly expressed her conscious decision to be a slut.

>My mum does that apparently
Your mum is probably going to leave your dad in the future and become a post-marriage whore. That's just what happens to women who say that shit in this era; we are in the degeneracy stage of civilisation.

>She said that if we were to go our seperate ways for some time she would be devestated to see me with another girl while she was free to go be a whore.
>Does that make sense or am i just dense?
Dense.

They considered a divorce many times but never did so. That was from unrelated reasons, like him being physically abusive towards her sometimes.